https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/hgmrik/i_am_ungrateful/

How many times do guys have to read this or hear a mate say this sort of story before the truth sinks in? Marriage is a sex killer (kids too). My own marriage followed this path until divorce. I URGE all young men DO NOT GET MARRIED, or you too will be in this guy's situation. Once she's got her babies, you rank in priority somewhere below the cat, a nessisary evil that she must endure to have you pay for the family. Duty sex (starfish) is what you can expect and NO, it's doesn't get any better no matter what the female responders in the comments section say. It will eat away at your soul until you are bitter and have zero love left for your wife....trust me I learned the hard way as I expect did many other men on this sub.

NEVER GET MARRIED.