I’ll try keep this short. About a month ago I met an 8.5 at a party, immediately hit it off, got her contact deets and whatever. Been meeting her at clubs since our social groups are somewhat close. Couple weeks ago we made out at the club. Earlier tonight I asked her to hang out tomorrow because I’ve only been seeing her in clubs and I wanted to get to know her better. Her response was no I’m busy tomorrow sorry. Then she asked if I’m drunk. I said no I’m sober and she replied oh are you going to x bar tomorrow, told her I’m undecided and haven’t had a reply yet.

Did she just reject me? Or is her asking me about going that bar a rearrangement? Bearing in mind it won’t be 1 on 1 and it will be with a bunch of people from our social groups. Also why would she ask if I’m drunk?

My mind is telling me I should go along to the bar with some friends and try escalate on her, soft next if she rejects my advances.