I am not attracted to men of my own class...

2020-06-21T23:37:04+00:00

I'm not sure where you're from, but you could pretty easily date a middle class man, with a little effort. You don't have to buy expensive clothes and makeup to look put together. Literally most of the items in my closet came from a sale rack and I only started using mid-range makeup when I got married. Maybelline served me well for most of my 20s.

Before I met my husband, I was working two jobs and had several favorite outfits from Goodwill. He comes from Southern money, which is technically blue collar, but there's enough of it that we had very different lives. He never cared about that. Lose the self-loathing and work with what you have. Try to date men with some college if you like, but don't just assume they're all too good for you.

gretawasright · 2020-06-21T23:47:55+00:00

You are saying you support working class men and come from the working class but don't find working class men attractive?

Here are the things you identified about yourself that lower your sense of worth:

- You are broke

- You have a low class mentality

- You come from a dysfunctional family

- You have a mediocre face and are average looking

I think:

1) You need to identify what qualities you do find attractive in a man. Do you want someone who values higher education? Do you need someone who shares your passion for advocacy? Or do you want someone who will be a good provider? What are the core things you really want? I find it a valuable exercise to see what you would pick if you only got to pick three qualities in a future partner.

2) Work on yourself! It will make you a better future partner!

- You are broke: What are you doing to learn more about money management and shore up your finances?

- You have a low class mentality: I don't exactly understand what a low class mentality is, but what specific aspects of your mentality do you want to change and what are you doing to grow in those areas?

- You come from a dysfunctional family: Consider therapy and counseling.

- You have a mediocre face and are average looking: What can you improve about your looks? Posture, fashion, makeup, hair, weight?

Title	I am not attracted to men of my own class...
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Date	June 21, 2020 11:25 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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