So several years ago, most of my friends were female, and I was a typical niceguy/orbiter. I've started making changes, and typically hang out with my male friends or mixed groups.

I found myself planning a night out with two female friends, too a night club doing an Korean music night. I'm getting use to going back to night clubs after not going to one for about 4 years, and I fear I'm going to fall back into my old orbiter habits.

Any tips of advice on how to have a good time, and not fall back into beta behaviour?