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tl;dr: My brother is a cuck overlord.

This might be a bit of a journal/blog themed post but I think this is as negative an example as we can muster up here, so maybe it'll help you or you can provide some input.

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So basically I was riding across the globe on my white mare, slaying pussy left and right and killing it when this whole COVID thing struck. As a financially responsible person, I decided to stay at home with mom and dad, care for them. and wait it out until I can set off once more. I work online so I'm not really bound to any one place and I don't need to rent a huge place either. Unfortunately, during that time, my dad passed away and my brother and I inherited the family home, a great house in a prime location.

So my brother is almost twice my age, you would expect a mature and responsible person. Unfortunately, he just can't deal with life in a responsible manner. He has always wasted all of his money (and he does not have the worst paycheck) and then came to the family for financial support. He had tons of lawsuits and people threaten to seize his property and he didn't even open their letters. He is probably one of the worst people on this planet with money, spending on luxury goods he can't afford and that lose all their value within a few months. He parks in spots where he would get ticketed and even after twenty tickets still would not stop parking in the same spot...

From what I know about his romantic relationships he has always dated hillbillys. Before he met his now-girlfriend he even dated a coworker significantly older than him, an old short haired hag, and eventually broke up with her after "all she was after was his money". Thinking about this makes me wanna throw up. He is even a good looking guy with a rock-solid body (although short in size) but somehow he has always been complete trash with women.

When he introduced his new girlfriend nobody was particularly pleased with her, as she is proper hillbilly trash. She has two adult kids from her previous marriage that someone less polite than myself would probably describe as "retarded". My brother, at that time already in his late 30s, still lived at home and his gf would soon shift from regular visits to being a permanent resident. At that time our grandma was alive and they would still engage in loud sex with the door open while my parents had visitors such as her. She also commanded my brother around and would scream for him at the top of her lungs when she wanted something. Everyone thought his one's a looney. Thankfully I already didn't live at home anymore at that time.

My father furiously threw her out of the house at one point when he had enough, but the craziness did not end here. They decided it would be a good idea to move into the attic of my grandma's house without even notifying her(!) and with her only realizing it sometime later. Of course, they have always seen themselves as the victims in this.

So, after a while, they got their own flat and things calmed down for 4-5 years. They got two kids but as of my knowledge haven't married yet and it seems that she is still officially married to her Ex. Sadly my dad has passed a few months ago and our house went to my brother and myself. As he is knee-deep in debt and can't pay his rent, my dad, when he was still alive, offered him to move into parts of the house as he did not want to completely abandon him, as parents do.

It even got to the point where I thought maybe our gut feelings were wrong and the woman is actually more reasonable as we thought. But you know the thing about gut feelings. First, there is the way that she deals with her kids, always screaming at them and policing every little thing they do. It just saddens me to see them go retarded, they surely have potential. Even the neighbours at their old place complained to them about how she treats her kids.

She seems to dictate their whole life and my brother, at times, looks physically exhausted and stressed out because after work he still has to do her every bidding. He paid the full rent for their flat even as it was to her name, as well as all the bills. She also demands extravagant restaurant visits that he has to pay and which is why he ends up in huge debt at the end of every month. The list of utter retardation is endless.

As he moved into our inherited house, my brother, once again, decided it would be a good idea to just throw away all his old furniture and buy new pieces on a credit, all while his normal bank account is already blocked due to his debt. So basically he just doubled his debt with interest. This was the point at which I realized he is a lost cause and would never change his behaviour. It seems to be some sort of compulsive retardation that would require professional help. He even has more plans, such as building a swimming pool and putting an outdoor cinema into our garden, all while he literally has no money.

At some point I noticed letters coming in. My brother got his fair share of warnings and penalties. But these were actually for the woman, and the number of letters quickly became overwhelming. There were actually letters from the state attorney, telling her they have a warrant out for her and she needs to do some jail time if she does not pay up her debt! The amount she owes to all the different companies seems to be a multitude of what my brother already owes. We also found out that my brother cancelled his life insurance (among other things) so he could satisfy her consumption wishes. They tell you to find a financially compatible partner, don't they...

Family is a pile of shit. I am ashamed that people like this run in my bloodline. I talked to my lawyer to set up reasonable terms for him staying at home and protect myself financially. If he wants to marry I want him to set up a prenup excluding our house from anything. Imagine inheriting a house and his crazy gf just tells him to sell it. Worse, if they married she would suddenly be involved in the whole thing. At this point, I am not sure what I can legally do to protect myself from shit going south.

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Lessons learned:* Women will lock you down and then it is too late to get away from them without paying a price. I believe this is how family killers are born.* Stay away from crazy people* Financial responsibility is key.* You can't choose your family* If people like this woman mate, it breeds a new generation of retarded kids that probably become SJW's.

Disclaimer: I have nothing against him personally and actually get along with him. There is no bad blood. Also as he is now legally a part-owner of the house I can't just throw him out without a reason.

Edit: spelling