How does one get good in bed?

TheWorldOfPugs · 2018-12-08T22:31:01+00:00

I’ve been waiting for this day for someone to ask. I’ll just copy and paste my post since my karma isn’t high enough for it to be posted on TRP.

Hello all, full time lurker here and I’ve noticed there are no guides on true sex game on here. Those internet guides about giving her the best night of her life doesn’t consistent of you cumming first and thinking she’s had an amazing night because that shit is FUCKING WRONG!

It all starts here I called it MMK.

MMK: Meditation, Masturbation, Kegels

Meditation: Your mental health is the key factor in lasting as long as you want, once you become in state you will conquer every woman you fuck. On top of that long term you will feel and be all around in a better state of mind in your everyday life.

How to meditate: Sit in a quiet room, get comfortable, and close your eyes. Once everything is setup and your in state focus on trying to create a blank state. Once you start you will notice that your ego will not like this stillness and it will start hitting you with wave after wave of constant thoughts or memories. The goal is to become one with yourself and your thoughts and slowly progress to a peace of mind, nothingness true and utter peace.

Start with a 5 min session 5-6 days a week and add 5 minutes every week until you hit 30mins. After you do that it becomes easier to get into state and you will notice difference in your sexual endurance over time.

Masturbation:This one is extremely simple and always overlooked due to religious belief or that no fap nonsense being thrown around. Masturbation is 100% healthy. It only causes problems if you have death grip and squeeze your dick like you’re a fucking manic or something..

Side note: to fix death grip purchase a pocket pussy and masturbate with that for a week or two to regain sensation. If you can’t feel anything why have sex?

How to masturbate: Start of with jerking off for 5 mins same thing as Meditation. Add 5 minutes every week until you hit 30mins. If you wanna last even longer go as high as you want your member is a muscle too that can be trained. DO NOT DOUBLE MASTURBATE, do it once a day 5-6 days a week. Just like any muscle it needs to rest too. Give yourself 1-3 resting days.

Kegels: Kegels help with strengthening the pelvic muscles around the groin and also help with erection strength. It also stop random leakage after you pee.

How to do Kegels: 3 ways to do it 1. When you are peeing half way through peeing squeeze your PC muscles and stop the urination flow. Hold for 5 seconds and continue peeing repeat 4-5 times for 5-10 seconds

Get an erection, put a towel over the erection and squeeze your PC muscles and hold for 5-10 seconds. Repeat 5-6 times for 5-10 seconds
Can be done anywhere, while working or at home chilling squeeze your PC muscles and hold for 5-10 seconds. Repeat 4-6 times.

For all of these do them in reps of 5-10 reps per set depending on your level of experience.

Okay, now on to Physical health.

For maximum erection strength, be sure you are getting some sort of general exercise done. If you’re fat, lose weight. If you lack testosterone get check out by a doctor to make sure your levels are okay. And make sure you are taking your vitamins EVERY LITTLE THING MATTERS AND YOU WILL NOTICE DIFFERENCE INSTANTLY.

Drugs: As taboo as this sounds every once in a while drugs help with sexual endurance when you’re in the beginning stages of being a sexual god. But I use them all the time, I ain’t judging bro.

Weed: benefits both parties and creates a chill vibe for everyone. Also one of the benefits of sex with weed is higher senses increased sensitivity, and helps you get into state better also. Another benefit of weed that they don’t tell you is it enhances the affects of any drugs you use.

Erection pills or anything that increases blood flow.

The pills I use are viagra, la pepa negra (Mexican viagra) and yohimbine. Mix any of these with weed you’re in for a fun night.

Alcohol: 3 shots max, if you have a weak tolerance maybe 1.5 shots. If you get whiskey dick easily, be sure to have a dick pill ready and pop it just in case and do a lot of foreplay until it kicks in. Learn to eat pussy.

Final piece of this guide is the sex itself.

PREGAME 1. Masturbate 6-8 hours before your big date or night out 2. Meditate before your date or night out also, when you hit her place or yours go to the bathroom and meditate for a quick 5 mins. 3. If you’re still practicing your sexual endurance bust out of alcohol for two and drink alittle it helps with stamina too and pop a dick pill.

And now let’s say you’ve been doing everything up to this point preparing for your time to perform what now?

Learn the C.A.T position you can read more about that right here

As for eating pussy it’s easy, start out with a wide tongue and make your tongue more stiff as she gets closer to climaxing. The speed you’ll understand over time or she’ll tell you 99% of the time. Unless she a introvert.

Hope this helps guys and good luck to all the new sex gods in training out there. If you can make her cum with your tongue and your dick. She’s your hoe for life. I’ve still got women for 5 years ago still hitting me up because the men their dating don’t satisfy them.

If you aren’t in the top 20% at least you’ll have a good sex life. That’s the goal of all this right ?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-12-09T00:41:22+00:00

Slow everything down. Don’t rub her pussy like you’re trying to make fire. Lots of caresses lots of foreplay. Like 45 minutes. Caress her in “Unexpected places” - hollow of her collarbone, undersides of her breasts. The inside of her thighs. Get her moaning, and moving her hips in little circles. Once you’ve done that, then piercer snatch with your fingers, and then use the pad of your middle finger to rub gentle circles on top of her clit. Once her pussy hits “meltdown”, she will follow you around like a puppy.

Unless, ofc, she just wants to get pounded through the mattress with some of them do. In which case do that

Builtblind · 2018-12-09T00:34:09+00:00

It’s real simple bruv.

She cums first

If you can’t make her cum then She physically can’t cum from a penis in which case you just cum

Not all girls can cum from sex but that doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy it to some degree

Eat pussy....if she doesn’t like then get to fucking but focus on her....if she ain’t cumming then cum and bail

bradtwo · 2018-12-09T01:30:08+00:00

IMO:

communication. everyone has their thing, she has hers. some girls like kissing in certain spots, some like being teased, others like just going straight for it. those articles you read "how to please a women" are way to gerneral. every one of them (women) are different, just as you are with other men. so talk... be ok with talking. tell her straight up "i like it when you do this! or ..." ask her often, "What turns you on?" "what is your fantasy?". and do not let her cop out by saying "i dont have one" or "nothing".
as much as you should communicate, you should pay attention of how she is reacting while you're doing your thing.
learn how to kiss. chicks love a guy who can kiss well. again, with #1, it is to each girls own preference on how they like being kissed. so, learn a couple of ways, and try this out.
nothing wrong with masterbation, but i would switchup my method so that you can train yourself to cum with a different stimulation. a fleshlight or something like that may help. just something to keep you from becoming numb the womens anatomy.

good luck

minorityvoice89 · 2018-12-09T01:11:03+00:00

The fleshlight can be a good practice device.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2018-12-09T04:08:43+00:00

Seems like the rest of the guys here have good points. You should read Daniel Rose's Sex God Method book. May be wrong but I think it's one of the recommended books in the sidebar.

BluBlac59 · 2018-12-10T07:50:42+00:00

Quit masturbating and get an attractive, divorced or seperated woman around 40-45 whose husband cheated on her. Then just be with her. Take her out become her friend. She knows it won't last but that it can be fun. You'll be surprised how good and how much fun it could be. Don't be a push over and don't get to know her kids you're just there for the sex and fun. They like to get even with their cheater and might even take him back. Be prepared for it to end quickly. One way or another.

Title	How does one get good in bed?
Author	w_ppk_007
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Date	December 8, 2018 10:15 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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