So, I recently joined an acapella choir. I'm a musician, so girls weren't the main reason I joined. One girl caught my attention, but since I'm in monk mode I didn't give much attention to the matter. However, she started giving some IOIs, and today, after our first concert, I decided to talk to her. I asked if they were going to do something after the concert (being saturday night and all), and her immediate response was "I'm going to return home because I have to video-chat with my boyfriend"; I simply said OK and went out with the rest of the group.

Fast forward thirty minutes or so: she shows up in the end, she took me on one side and said something about wanting to unwind. I agree and carry on. The evening goes on well, we seem to have good chemistry. When we said goodbye to each other (we were alone), she said that maybe she wasn't going to be present in the next rehearsals because she was going to visit her boyfriend (at this point I think he lives far away). As always, I nod and wish her a good night.

I wasn't hitting on her and I have always been neutral, and still she comes up with this unwarranted information about his boyfriend.

What do you think? Is this a shit test or am I overthinking this? Monk mode is starting to be difficult, I'm not gonna lie.