I have a plate, HB7.5, (who I'm tring to distance myself from) that every time she sees me, she hit's on me, and when I cave (usually when I'm drunk or high) she blames me for it, for using her when she clearly is the one who can't stay put.

Why do women do this? is it because I was the only one who didn't want a relationship with her? I know she fell in love with me, but after all the ignoring, months without talking, the fights (to summarize, my apathy towards her), she would have moved on (this has been going on for 2 years).