There's this girl i met online, i made another post about her a week ago, but we’re interested in something casual, the only problem is we just don’t have a place to actually do the deed at. She’s got a kid at home, i live with my mom and i don’t really want to pay for a hotel. Too much money. I told her about my living situation, that i live with my mother and that i was sorry for lying at first. She took it well, i think. Not as hostile a reaction as i thought.

But, yesterday afternoon, my mom had to take my little brother to a doctor’s appointment, so i’d have the house to myself for awhile, cause they’re usually really slow at that place. Soon as i heard, I called the girl and set up a date for that time. We started kissing as soon as she got here, but before we even got too into it, my mom got home. She was complaining about how the office cancelled the appointment and saw her. I had no idea what to do, it was just completely quiet. After a bit, i introduced them. I said she was a friend and i was gonna take her home.

We got into a slight argument in the car though. I told her I couldn't help it. She denied that we go to her place and pretty much demanded that if i didn’t take her to a hotel, i wouldn’t “get any” and she’d end this relationship because she’s tired of me playing games with her. So, i told her about a nice hotel in town. We were driving to it, but i got another idea. There was a park close by and it’s usually empty by this time of day. Almost night. My plan was to get her “In the mood” in the car, before we got there. (Keep in mind, i'm pretty broke and can't really afford hotels. If i pay for one, i'd have to go without necessities i need to live.)

So, while i’m driving, i am kind of reaching over and “touching her” to spare the graphic details. When we get close to the park, i just commented i couldn’t wait to get to the hotel, i wanted to get it on now. So i pulled over to the park, which she was on board with, that way it was a little more spontaneous and didn’t come off as me just being cheap. We got a secluded spot and started kissing, unfortunately some man was jogging by and saw us. So we had to leave.

I was out of ideas and just drove around a bit, then i found an alley behind some garage. It looked secluded, so i parked my car and took her behind the wall and we actually got to finally be intimate, uninterrupted. She seemed really into it during. But afterwards, she got pissed off out of nowhere. She said i made her feel cheap and to never call her again. She started ranting about how she wanted it to be in a bed and calling me a cheapskate. That i didn’t respect her enough to pay for a hotel and was treating her like a hooker by taking her to an alley. She regretted doing it like that and called her friend to pick her up. I told her i was broke but she didn’t want to listen, she said i should’ve said that from the start, and that if i’m broke, i probably shouldn’t be dating.

So, she changed from really eager to bitter and mad. Is there anyway i can salvage this? Cause i do care about her.