All the women with HVM seem to have one thing in common - they met their partner when he was in his late teens/early 20s.

jagupp · 2020-07-04T08:59:49+00:00

This is not good advice at all. Women in their early 20s should be exclusively working on bettering themselves and establishing their long term career and wellness plans. Men should NOT be a priority then. There’s a 60% chance your marriage will end in divorce if you get hitched before the age of 25.

More so, our frontal lobes aren’t fully developed until the age of 25. This is why you see more egocentric behavior, risk taking, and poorer decision making in younger people. The frontal lobe controls this. Dating seriously before having fully formed, stable values and personalities is a recipe for disaster. couples who get together at an early age drift apart more frequently due to this. They simply haven’t fully developed into themselves yet.

I think you’re falling for the outer facade these younger couples are portraying instead of what they actually are. Two individuals who haven’t fully come into themselves cannot be high value. If you’re not an independent, stable, and content within yourself you will not find that with another person. You’re also probably looking for men in the wrong places if you’re only interacting with shitty ones. Stop relying on online dating so heavily if that’s where you’re coming across such dudes. You’re unlikely to find ambitious, generous, kind men there.

Ladies, early and mid 20s are for you and you alone. Get that education, the career, and $$$. Work on your mental health, get your self esteem up, undo the societal programming that makes women buy into ideas of their worth being dependent on having a relationship. There is no wall that you hit at age 30 and a man won’t make you happy if you’re not happy with yourself already. You should be your own #1 priority.

Title	All the women with HVM seem to have one thing in common - they met their partner when he was in his late teens/early 20s.
Author	JaneIsaPain
Upvotes	2
Comments	2
Date	July 4, 2020 6:54 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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