Met this girl on a train, she was confused about connections and we started talking. Got her number and suggested we meet sometime. She lives 2 hours away.

One month later I hit her up, she seems keen to meet. She says we can meet at my city or "somewhere else".

I was thinking of inviting her to visit another city, it would be difficult to go back the same day, maybe we would wind up sleeping the same hotel room and that'd be great for escalating.

Of course this is just all speculation, it could not happen that way. If she agreed to go there, she might insist on going back the same day.

If we meet in my city, she'd have to leave before it gets dark to get a good connection back to hers, it would be still be very bright, not so good for escalating and I also don't have an excuse to bring her to my place. The advantage is I'd be on my turf.

I didn't even consider meeting at her city, too many unknowns

What do you think?