I have been banging this chick off and on for the past few weeks, but only while we were drunk. On Sunday, she hit me with a "hey" text around 11:30PM, but I was asleep so I missed it. The next day, I saw her friend, who told me straight up that she likes me and wants to fuck me while she is sober.

Given this intel and past actions, naturally, the next day I hit her up inviting her to come over. She said that she was too busy moving, and complained about not having a real bed to sleep in. I said she could use mine if she needed one. She did not come over.

Should I turn out the lights on this party? Or was she just trying not to seem "too easy" since I didn't reply to her earlier attempt to make it happen? What is the appropriate next course of action? I'm currently soft nexting, I think the ball is in her court at this point.