Hey asktrp, here’s my situation.

Back in February, i moved across the country for a job i landed. At the time, ltr and i decided the best thing was for us to stay together because she was planning on moving out to the same state as me later in the year.

Right before covid hit, i met a girl in the new state that I’ve plated and have been seeing through quarantine. I told her that I wasn’t looking for a relationship, and she said that was okay and that the only thing she wants is for us to honest if we start seeing other people sexually (which at the time i really wasn’t seeing other women cuz quarantine and whatnot).

This week, Ltr hits me up and tells me that she’s moving to my state at the end of the month and she already has her flight ticket.

My question is, what would be the best way for me to break the news to plate that I’m gonna be seeing someone else (ltr)? Should i even tell her at all?

My fear is that if i tell her, she’s going to look through my social media, find ltr, and tamper with shit. I don’t mind losing her as a plate, but i want things to be as smooth as they can possibly be.