Ex still follows all of my family on social media

throwitdownman · 2018-12-14T06:46:39+00:00

You have no control over her, nor your family’s actions. It was your turn, and it’s over, meaning that you should move on. Your frame should be more selfish - I’ve moved on, don’t care about anyone else’s interactions with her.

I see this as her trying to make you out to be the bad guy, to clear her conscience. Showing the world you were the bad character in the relationship, not her. Women do this all the time. Do not engage her, do not spend any more mental energy on her.

If your friends or family bring her up, for example mentioning a post she made on IG, just say she’s changed and is no longer important you.

[deleted] · 2018-12-14T13:54:06+00:00

Stop trying to control what other people do and worry about your fucking self.

FireDrillem · 2018-12-14T15:46:17+00:00

Now you know the price of letting one too deep into your life. Lesson learned.

scarmine34 · 2018-12-14T17:37:50+00:00

Blocking her was a mistake. It lets her know you’re hurt.

You need aloof mastery. Don’t even be afraid to make semi-sexual comments on a cute photo or something. It’s shows that you’re over her, and nothing will piss her off more than that.

civilizedfrog · 2018-12-14T20:06:10+00:00

Do not tell her or your family members to block her. Ignore her.

Title	Ex still follows all of my family on social media
Author	FinanceThrowaway800
Upvotes	7
Comments	5
Date	December 14, 2018 6:34 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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