I'm newer to this subreddit and it's awesome to see that I am not the only analytical guy out there. The psyche of a woman is one of the most interesting and intriguing things I have ever come across. I have been with my partner for a while now and every time I think I know what's going on through that noggin of hers, BOOM, I'm wrong. One thing I have learned through the years is that it is easy to forget who you really are. There is constant double standards and expectations for how you should live your life in their eyes according to what they feel is the right AT a particular time. These said standards always change, so don't try and keep up. I see a lot of posts on here speaking of how to attract girls and just mean girls doing mean girl things. I haven't yet seen much of how to domesticate the beast once it is caught in your cage. So this is my take on how to try and 'keep em around' for the betas who have been/are being shit on by the beasts that used to be all cute and nice and now have become manipulative, soul eating, controlling bithces.

I've had many friends, good, strong, stable, confident friends who have found that 'perfect girl'. It starts out perfect and then that sweet relationship dissolves faster than cotton candy in your mouth. Why is that? Some say it is because they 'weren't meant for each other'. I don't buy it. Nope. I think it's because you betas spoke at the wrong time and said some stupid shit. Relationships are like a chess game. A chess game in which you try to play by the rules, but the other player (your gf) keeps changing the rules on you and makes moves you thought were impossible to make. How you strategize your next move is what is the most important. If you react too quickly, then you will most likely lose. Check Mate. Once you are in that position it is nearly impossible to get out....unless..YOU change the rules. This can be tricky.

One thing I have come to notice in my years, from personal experience and through watching others, is that someone always wants the upper hand. A woman will crush you emotionally and destroy you if you let her. Just like a kid would eat ice cream before bed every night if you let him. You, solely, are in control on how the ol lady will treat you.

In my opinion, in a relationship, it's not about being the winner, but rather being on a level playing ground. The woman, in this scenario, will try and manipulate you with fear. She will threaten to leave you, sleep with other people and try and convince you that YOU are the bad one just to keep the upper hand.

The FIRST biggest step you can take in situations like this is to let them do what they claim they'll do. If they do it, good, because then it makes the next step faster. If they don't, better, because now you have leverage AND her attention.

Which brings me to step TWO. People want what they cannot have, simple as that. Take yourself off the table. If she unnecessarily said she 'needs space', then confidently say, "cool, take all the time you need". It will drive her nuts (she might not show it, but it is). She might become more evil and do more fucked up things to try and get a negative reaction. Don't give into it. Don't get me wrong...I'm not saying ignore her, just don't give into the bullshit. Take mental notes, too, because she is bound to get caught up in her own ridiculous standards, in which you can blatantly call her out on. Every time she does mess up you gain a tiny bit more leverage and more of her attention. Don't let this go on for too long though, otherwise you WILL lose her because a girl can't stand man with too much leverage and that feeling that you don't care at all (that opens a whole other can of shit which im not getting into in this) so be careful.

STEP 3:Give her a few compliments here and there or tell her you agree with her crazy ideas. This will give her that attention she has been longing for and she will appreciate it much more. It's like giving her a treat. This will eventually turn the tables if done correctly and appropriately. And when it's all on your hands. morally, you should begin to level the field between you two. Hopefully at this point you have manipulative-ly gotten her attention and interest back and you can move on to a more normal life as a human rather than being physically and emotionally enslaved.

Remember, this is to try and keep a girl. No matter what she is doing, if she is coming home to you, you are winning. Disclaimer: There is a chance you might lose her trying this too. Some women just want to make people's lives burn and if she cannot burn yours, then she will move on. If that is the case, then you will at least be able to hold on to who you are. You won't sit back wondering what you could have done to be a better beta, because now, you are an alpha.

This is my opinion. There are, I am most certain, other perspectives on this. (PLEASE SHARE THEM) I am not claiming to be a wiz at this, but one thing I know for sure, I will never be in a relationship where my gf/wife will hit me out of anger, make me apologize for something I didn't do wrong, or expect me NOT to call them out when they ARE being crazy (in which they should have the same expectations of me). Again, in my opinion, that is better than a lot can say.

Thanks for reading.

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