This is what I feel after reading many posts, talked with my two psychiatrist (man and a woman)... listening to psychologist like Dr Jordan... reading many ancient scriptures from different religions on women and human mental state and spirituality...

  • Humans are not designed for marriage ... we are at the core still animals... yes we evolved better than other mammals.. but at the end of a day we are still animals...

  • Men or women always strive for peace, love, comfort, security and stability in life... when we get that we want more entertainment and happiness in life... we get bored easily.... dopamine effect... we need more and more higher dose of dopamine to keep ourself felt happy...

  • Main necessity of good life are resources, security and happiness (including sex).... Men used to have both .. ability of generating resources and giving/getting security ... they only needed women for domestic help, happiness (sex) and feeling to be loved... where as on other hand... women was not able to earn resources or get security hence they depends on men as a provider for both....

  • Men used to give resources and security to women in return he expect domestic help, family, love... now to be a man we been taught that loyalty, honesty, logic and rationality is above emotions and hence for us all those qualities are having more importance than emotions .. why? Because that helps tribe to be secure and keep generating resources hence men tend to be more loyal, honest, rational and strong mentally and physically... where as for women it was exactly otherway around... she needs to adjust with new men because of any attacks from different tribes to survive.. hence they have to develop senses of being not loyal, deceitful, using emotions for her gains etc... and they need to move on quickly... earlier times that was a need to accept new man quickly because of survival......

  • Now, due to feminism women doesn’t need men as Providers of security or resources though they evaluate men on those parameters... hence they monkey branch for always finding better partner which satisfy her “Needs” to be entertained at “That” time... we complain women are never loyal but that’s skill is of men not women ... they were never loyal... they can’t be loyal... men were always idealistic for love but women can’t be idealistic for love naturally... hence we complain about women but in reality they were always like that.... earlier due to survival and now it’s just we came to realization of their nature...as they exercise their behavior openly...

  • Law, society were always favoring women.. because one women and 10 men can produce a big tribe but 10 women and 1 men can produce a big city... hence if you save women you get more population of your tribe which helps your tribe for survival as well... the bigger the tribe/population the more chance of survival... hence saving women was/is a necessity... hence society and law was/is and will be always favoring women... now, due to feminism things gets extremely in their favor.. earlier as men still we had power to generate resources and security and for that women needed men... and hence they had to be loyal to them even if they don’t want to but now that’s not the case and hence things are worst...

  • Men is able to generate resources or protect tribe even at old age atleast by his experience and knowledge... women on other hand doesn’t have any value more than producing children... also, to worst her value as she age she have biological clock till age 35-40 .. after that she will lose her only value of producing children..... who will take care of her after that age ? Where will she go for resources and security if she doesn’t have children or men on her side ? She needs someone to rely on hence she alway tend to find someone with whom she can stay after her wall time.... society has a solution for this problem of women - The Marriage...

  • society has solved another big problem by introducing Marriage as well ... the problem was how to generate a pool of men who “works” for tribe with full might but doesn’t work for them selves...

  • Many philosophers, scientists and true spiritual leaders were already knew this fact that women are always path breakers they are the biggest obstacle for any men’s personal progress and that’s exactly how you can produce those “Worker Ants” who works and pay taxes whole life but doesn’t have time for themselves... hence the concept of Marriage helps here too... that will bind one man to one or more women(in Islam you can marry 4 women) and that man will finish his life serving that/those woman/women and their children while keep “Working” for society in general...

Marriage was/is for women not men...

An Unmarried men is always that ripe fruit that no one gets to eat so if men doesn’t marry no one gets benefits in society - he doesn’t generate next generation and hence loss to society and nation because they loose population that could help in many things (research, taxes, military etc...) ... women looses chance to be parasite... see example of Japan... A man who works and live for his self is loved by no one because no one gets benefits from him.. hence they always hate them...

You will see many negative talks about MGTOW ... why ? Because we don’t need women in life to be happy and that’s the biggest pain in ass to society....