Will my motivation to pick up girls diminish when I grow up?

DoesItMatterTooYou · 2020-07-16T13:06:41+00:00

Great sex is always enjoyable but once you know what great sex is you realize that most of the sex you've been having is nothing more than getting off with someone to talk to.

I have stuff I enjoy doing as hobbies as well as responsibilities. If I am going to invest time in a woman she needs to be compelling in multiple ways. Otherwise I rub a nut off and go about my day.

Time is your most precious thing so why waste it?

Siyuen_Tea · 2020-07-16T13:37:06+00:00

Usually, yeah. It could be from numerous things. Not getting horny as often. not finding a girl worth your time/ having other priorities. Being ok with what you have. Being tied to social norms and not finding girls in your range fun/attractive. More often than not, it's just laziness. You marry some girl, say good enough because you don't feel like going out anymore and then settle down.

At that age, most realize pussy isn't that important but it tends to be the point where lots of guys go beta. They take "ole reliable " so they don't feel lonely and then just work themselves to retirement. Some simply give up on pussy and just jerk it. They got the partying out of there system and there girls are post wall, they don't have to try anymore. Just coast till death. This ~works out~ is tolerable for most men. Even great " pick up artists " fall into this.

TLDR 30's is typically when people get lazy. "Reliable" pussy starts to seem better than good pussy.

AloofusMaximus · 2020-07-16T14:12:35+00:00

So a lot of dudes 30+ are fat (and have the health problems that go with it), married and pussy whipped, or some combination of both. T levels also decrease as you get older, so that can lower sex drive and stuff too. Also add in life responsibility, and most dudes can't go daygaming for hours a day, every day. Socializing is a bit different as your friends get married, get fat, and have kids.

I'm 38, and definitely not AS horny as I was when I was young 20s. I still like fucking attractive women, different women, but I'm not going to clubs or any of that.

DisastrousCounter · 2020-07-16T14:25:19+00:00

You will find out in 7-12 years.

navydad74 · 2020-07-16T12:20:09+00:00

We do, we're just usually married by then. But we still want to fuck just as much.. I'm in my mid-forties been married 20 years. I'm still laying pipe nightly

ratthing · 2020-07-16T15:32:02+00:00

I'm 56, and happily married. I figure my urges to "pickup" women will probably go away about two or three days after I'm dead.

Jdamoftruth · 2020-07-16T23:46:28+00:00

I have motivation to pick up girls but my time is exponentially more valuable, so I just can't invest a lot of time chasing women who arent fucking me.

Also, I've found a lot of women are very marginal at sex, so the worst thing to me is spending too much time chasing someone only to find out they are God awful at sex.

It just becomes very diminishing in returns and you start seeing through their BS for what it is.

BluzzKill · 2020-07-16T16:41:02+00:00

Late 30s and yes it will. I still like having girls interested and enjoy sex but the fuck girls at all costs mission is gone.

Its really like everything in life though even great stuff gets dull. You better have other interests you are building to fall back on.

Humans get used to everything and it's value fades

Title	Will my motivation to pick up girls diminish when I grow up?
Author	mlgpc1
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Date	July 16, 2020 11:57 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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