I can't get second dates

Human_Extreme · 2020-07-14T21:44:26+00:00

So how would we know based on your one paragraph?

ToldYouNotToWorry_ · 2020-07-14T22:31:34+00:00

this might or might not be the correct answer

but based on my experience and having this same shit to deal with as well, I think the problem is that girl is trying to put you in one of two categories, fuckboy that she can reveal herself to and fuck you without regret or “boyfriend materijal” that she’s gonna be a “good girl” and take it slowly, the trouble is somehow you’re both or neither of those two things but somewhere in between, which makes her to say fuck it

I think you need to pick a side and stick with it

but do know this, it’s much easier to present yourself as horny alpha and later on show some deeper side of yourself, than to be “super goody” who suddenly wants to fuck all her holes, it’s a one way street

if you choose the first one, be very verrry slow with revealing your emotions and yourself, if you choose the second one you’re gonna wait for sex, but only when the actual sex is happening you can show your inner beast, not before that with talk and making sexual innuendos, which usually come as creepy/not natural since you didn’t begin with it in a first place

that’s my 2 cents, but don’t hold me for 100% correct answer

Inspectah_Chill · 2020-07-14T21:56:19+00:00

Give examples

rdotskip · 2020-07-15T02:21:47+00:00

It’s this exact mindset that is causing it. You’re hoping for multiple dates, you want one date and you want to fuck on that one date, and IF they fuck then they might just be deserving of your time for a 2nd date. It’s not you who gets the dates, you give them.

2020-07-15T02:43:05+00:00

It’s you and bitches. You aren’t likable. Bitches don’t like you.

Psychological_Radish · 2020-07-15T14:42:02+00:00

How the hell is anyone supposed to respond to such a low-effort post? Delete this shit and repost properly with more detail.

Where are you meeting these girls? Real life or apps? Maybe you're going after girls who don't have enough interest to begin with. Could be that something in your vibe is telegraphing "Beta." Perhaps you aren't being direct enough in your approach.

But again, we have no idea because you offer no detail.

Title	I can't get second dates
Author	AlphaPlumber
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	July 14, 2020 8:53 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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