F(18) What Can I Do To Set Myself Up For Success?

2020-07-21T10:22:33+00:00

I want to disagree with the other comment posted here and say that I do not recommend you becoming a stripper to set yourself on the course to having success. You’ve asked this question in a red pill subreddit so I‘ll offer you some red pill advice. I think there is nothing wrong with working on a career while you’re young to become financially successful however, I would advise you to not get involved with anything that promotes promiscuity because that is something that a lot of good valued men will be adverse to. It’s the same with websites that allow you to make money off of selling pictures and videos of your body which are becoming very popular. They may make you a lot of money if you are successful but those types of jobs come with a track record that some men will find to be a deal breaker. I’m not saying it isn’t possible to find a good man and have a career like that but what I am saying is that having a career like that may exclude you from certain men and it is something to keep in mind. In terms of attracting a man, it all depends on what kind of man you want to attract. A man that is aligned with more red-pill values will probably be attracted to someone who objects modern feminism and embraces femininity. I work on my mannerisms, my vocabulary, my confidence and wardrobe all based on my goal of embracing femininity. There are excellent books on the topic of femininity and I also enjoy listening to those who offer advice on YouTube. Working on your appearance (finding a style that suits you), getting in shape and healthy, working on confidence and finding hobbies you enjoy to make yourself more interesting are all things that can help you in the world of dating. Like I said, it all depends on what you are wanting out of life. Your version of success may look very different from mine and many others who may give you advice.

2020-07-21T12:13:12+00:00

Get your finances in order. We can talk all day about feminity and demeanor, but if you're not capable of managing your own financial situation, you aren't capable of being a good partner.

Edit: Apparently I need to specify that you shouldn't do this by stripping. 🙄

ActiveStrategy2 · 2020-07-21T13:23:34+00:00

Do not worry about being single or inexperienced with boys. It will come in time and the right situation with someone you are comfortable with. Also at 18 you are likely graduated high school or a college freshman. Your situations and relationships will naturally be different than they were in high school. Know your worth and your boundaries as you begin exploring this.

Work on developing yourself. Life skills, self confidence, well balanced career aspirations. Well balanced is important because being success driven is good but don’t miss out on experiences. Take the time to broaden your horizons.

When you are ready, date. Use dating apps to practice. I wouldn’t advise this until you are a few years older mostly because of my lack of faith in boys becoming men still at your age and for years beyond. Practicing dating (within boundaries) helps you realize what you like and don’t like.

Financial independence is another great foundational goal. Being nearly debt free is helpful.

I enjoyed the book Adulting 101. It has quick lists of tips on how to behave like an adult in situations that are obvious but having it spelled out was meaningful for me.

Good luck, you have a lot of life to enjoy. Don’t stress too much about making it perfect!

pearlsandstilettos · 2020-07-21T07:26:04+00:00

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Title	F(18) What Can I Do To Set Myself Up For Success?
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Date	July 21, 2020 7:00 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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