I took her virginity over a month ago. I’m 22, she 18. Or 19 as of last week.

This probably the first time I’ve been attached to a girl in a long time. My dating life has been mostly Tinder ONS or short lived FWBs. I really like her, and sex with her has gotten better lately. We’ve fucked 5 times.

At first it wasn’t that great. She kept giggling and giggling. Thought it was me but I noticed she did it when things were getting intense. Like eating her out after a while. But now she doesn’t giggle more, and has become a bit more vocal. I’ve managed to get her more confidence in bed. Sometimes I’ll be teasing her then she’ll be the one to get dominant and get on top of me in a desperate way. Whereas In the beginning she was shy and reserved. She moans more, and isn’t afraid to make eye contact.

However I feel like I can build a stronger attraction from her if I improve my sex game. Not trying to do this just for her, but for other tinder hook ups I get. I get many ONS but not much plates cause I believe my sex game is weak.

With this girl here’s what I usually do:

  • Get back to my place.
  • Hang around, do something like eat, play zombies on CoD together, watch Netflix
  • after a while of that we have sex.
  • usually Start with some groping, rubbing pussy through panties
  • undress and kiss her body all over. Then eat her out for a while. First just her pussy, but lately I eat her ass too.
  • Fuck her. Usually missionary. But lately we been doing doggy style as she’s gotten more comfortable.
  • I’ll do some choking and ass spanking. Just biting too. But that’s about it.
  • After sex, we just cuddle.
  • Round 2, same shit

Been in this routine for the past 5 times and don’t want to keep doing the same thing. What are some things I can introduce in the bedroom to make sex between us better, more intense, and have her dripping wet and cum? Been reading sex god method, and I want to say I’ve fallen under the passionate lover failure category. Want to get out of it. At first I made sense since being dominant with a virgin isn’t ideal, especially since she had pain in the beginning. But now she’s more confident, gets wetter and looser since she’s more relaxed. So I think it’s time to up things a bit.

Other question, can a beta/average Joe be dominant in bed? I must admit, I’m not alpha yet. Lots of work to do, still very beta. At best I’m an average dude. Do girls let “average dudes” they hook up with be more dominant in bed? Or only the top tier alphas? Or is it that being dominant in bed makes you an alpha in her eyes, even if you’re not?