I’ve recently had a mental breakthrough and I want some confirmation on my thought process.

The understanding that I’ve come to is that as a man with a masculine frame every women is on some level attracted to me. This is why the frame “I am enough” works because you don’t need to do anything to make a girl attracted to you, on some level she already is. I have replaced the I am enough frame with she’s already attracted to me just to make things easier, eventually I plan to adopt the I am enough frame once this idea has become apart of my subconscious.

Even though on some level all girls are attracted to a masculine frame, there are some factors outside of my control that make it so sometimes a girl doesn’t want to have sex with me. For example if she’s looking for a long term relationship, if she’s tired, etc.

So upon realizing this I also realized that all of the work I did to become attractive wasn’t really even necessary if I held this frame from day one. However, I have come to enjoy the process of improvement and will continue to do it for myself, strengthening my frame and ultimately making me more attractive.

The fact that every girl is attracted to me also necessitates some standards because I have limited time in my life and want to enjoy myself as best as possible.

Is this what abundance is like?

I also feel abundance in a different way now, in there sense that I am the creator of meaning. There is no intrinsic meaning for me to cling on to and thus when I decide something is meaningful it becomes meaningful. This means I have to put in work to create value.

So yeah, I guess I’m asking if this is what abundance mentality is like.

I’ve tried approaching girls with this mindset and it’s actually worked well. I approached a girl yesterday, lost the majority of my escalation anxiety and escalated to the point where my arm was around her and she was saying “I’ve had sex with a black guy before”.

So, it seems like this is a valid mindset, I just wanted to compare with some more experienced people.