My friend is like a brother to me. He’s 21. I’ll always look out for him and relay red pill based advice to me now and again to any life scenarios he faces.

However, this situation is something ermmm...let’s just say different. I need other’s perspective.

He met 2 girls here in UK pre-corona at a bar (aged 18). They got on well. They were on vacation from NYC. He exchanged details with em in case he ever did a trip to New York and vice versus.

I said to him it was good to have their Instagram + phone details as they could be a potential lay for him whenever he visits NYC (as he’s always travelling to the US).

But back in quarantine they started reaching out to him. They added him to a group chat with them (the 2 girls who apparently are each others’ best friends). He did 1 Zoom call with them to catch up. I didn’t agree with that beta move and I told him to not give needless attention like that.

He took my advice. They’d went quiet since then, but all of a sudden they reach out to him now and again. These 2 girls, let’s distinguish them as A and B, always message sayin ‘I miss you’ and all this other bullshit. Girl ‘B’ even says shit like ‘I love you’ and ‘when u coming over’ type of shit. I told him to not engage with or provide attention. I suspect they say this stuff in a joking way (after all they don’t know each other that much).

Now a month later after it got cold, they reach out and start FaceTiming him, snap video calling and all this bullshit. They always reach out when these girls are together. That’s why I suspect it’s only a group attention thing. But he didn’t answer their calls. I told him to carry on not doing so. For 3 weeks straight they have tried get him to answer on the calls, get his attention insta etc. They are chasing him in a sense (always imitating). He finally answered their call yesterday and had a brief chat.

Now they’ve gone cold again. He does not initiate but he knows they’ll come calling again at some point.

Advice?

I got a feeling they’re attention whores. But a potential future lay for him when he travels again.