My ex of 3yrs broke up with me a month ago. She witheld sex and boom the relationship ended with a text message she sent abt how she wanted to experience more. Shes been to parties and stuff too.

All of a sudden she started texting me again saying how she wants closure and wants to see me. I keep saying no because i feel like its a bad idea and im showing no emotion.

Should I go and try to get sex or go with my gut and not go?