This always concerned me and I feel as though in my current LTR we've gotten to the point where it's clear I want her and no other female. However, now that this is basically established, even though we go for sex just as often, it seems as if she doesn't get wet like she used to and this is a big red flag for me and truly concerning.

However, she still wants to constantly please me. She always gives me head and offers anal even though she isn't too fond of it, just because she wants me to be pleased. Thoughts?