Im 20 now. When i was younger (15-17) i was the "nice guy". I acted towards girls like its always said to be done by recommendation of mom and aunts."be nice. Listen to her. Care for her. Dont upset her....". Yeah didnt work out.

Looking back i cringe of the cuckness ive shown. Now im a different guy. Almost the opposite which may be due to growing up and seeing and experiencing shit after comprehending that being "nice" makes you weak and you should switch it to a respectful behaviour only towards people who deserve it. Being nice means you pit yourself for someone who 99% of the time does give a F about you.

I realized that the less fucks you give that people tend to like you more or dislike you more. Good way to sort people out of your life. Women on the other hand are drawn to that type of behavior and i like that type of behavior. So why they want nice guys when at the end of the day they want confident guys who dont put them on the pedestal and put them in there place?

PS: i dont like the term bad boy because people have differnet definitions of that word