What the fuck did I do wrong?

vandaalen · 2019-01-04T19:23:15+00:00

Since then I asked her to hang out with me and my friends and New Years

Why the fuck would you ask a random hoe, whom you didn't even fuck, to come to a social event at all, even choosing such a special one? Let aside you should make them work for such privileges, nothing screams "I am a needy loser!" louder than shit like that. You should have already scheduled some other bitch for that date. Even if that's not the case, she should assume that.

Maybe she even just forgot about her schedule. Women are unorganized teenagers. Stop getting angry about shit like that. Even if she isn't interested, why would you be angry if she made out with you and decided two weeks later, that it was fun, but not fun enough, or whatever?

Try to schedule a date one more time.

was thinking drinks then a movie at my place

Nah. You were thinking "movies and drinks at my place".

mallardcove · 2019-01-04T19:24:27+00:00

we talk for over an hour

SkankHuntL89 · 2019-01-04T21:03:19+00:00

You do realise she will have multiple guys on the go at once right?

That’s why they drop you at any time. Women are natural plate spinners and someone more interesting has come along OR she was seeing someone else who was more interesting the whole time.

The NYE thing was a mistake.

If you care about her then STOP. How’d you do that? Spin those plates son.

helterskelter1988 · 2019-01-04T20:55:19+00:00

I asked her to hang out with me and my friends and New Years

This communicates scarcity. New Years is either for family, friends or FWBs/LTRs - people you have some sort of connection. It's a special occasion.

I ask her if she's up for hanging out tomorrow

You should have led the interaction by saying "Hey, let's do [insert activity] at [insert place] tomorrow [insert time]."

"that sounds like fun but I remembered I have to work early tomorrow, still getting used to the new schedule"

She's obviously curving you here. If she cared she would have suggested something else. Women move mountains to hang out when they're interested.

I'm tired of just nexting people all the time because of shit like this

That's how the dating market works. As you up your SMV this will happen less, but still. You need to get desensitized by shit like this.

why go on a date and fucking make out with me and let me grab your ass if you're not interested?

Women act upon their emotional state. She was interested. That interest is not constant and can decrease or cease to exist at any moment, for a number of reasons that ultimately you shouldn't care about.

Look, it sounds like you should work on your abundance and outcome independence. Make your moves and ask them out. If they curve you, they can walk. It's a numbers game.

rad_dynamic · 2019-01-04T21:26:20+00:00

bro. stop taking it so personally.

ALL WOMEN ARE FUCKING CRAZY. THEY MAKE NO SENSE. YOU CAN DO EVERYTHING RIGHT AND SAY EXACTLY THE RIGHT THINGS AND THEY WILL STILL NOT FUCK YOU.

the red pill is a box of tools so you can start applying the behaviours of those who fuck a lot of women. the tools do not and will not work on every women. all women are in different stages of their lives, sometimes they wunna fuck, sometimes they want attention, sometimes they wanna marry. all you have to do is apply the tools to a large amount of women and you will fuck.

come back to me once you have been on a date with 100 more women and you will see this.

revaforce · 2019-01-04T19:20:29+00:00

Hypergamy my man, hypergamy. (She’s probably secured a higher value male.)

Stokestix · 2019-01-04T22:17:38+00:00

then a movie at my place

That's gonna be a no for me dawg... Don't plan it in advance or at least don't let her know. It's supposed to "just happen".

Mr_KenSpeckle · 2019-01-04T19:36:49+00:00

There are windows of opportunity. Windows of opportunity for DTF/ONS are more fickle and fleeting than windows of opportunity for relationships. You don't explicitly say, but imply that you are maybe interested in a relationship with this woman. Sounds like she was maybe just thinking about a ONS and now the moment has passed for her.

Spudjurgens · 2019-01-04T22:32:43+00:00

She wanted your wiener, you fagged out.

Tinder is for people to fuck, not to 'set up' a fuck.

Title	What the fuck did I do wrong?
Author	Kevin19Fish
Upvotes	2
Comments	22
Date	January 4, 2019 7:09 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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