I see exchanges of the following type all the time on reddit, and on the internet in general.

Guy wonders if women are okay with/attracted to X

Women offer up scores of anecdotal cases of their exBFs doing X, and them loving it (if it's a question based in curiosity) or them not minding it (if it's a question based in insecurity)

I've never yet seen people calling out these women on the fact that these guys are not with them anymore. It's like saying:

"Don't worry OP, a guy who I only briefly dated and broke up with used to have the same problem as you! You can totally date girls with your condition, and then be promptly dumped within a year!"

Now, granted, women accumulate a lot of boyfriends, so I don't know how much of this is due to that alone.