I fall into these patterns of thinking where I start to blame women for their hypergamy. Even the sweetest girls look at other guys. They want someone who’s attractive and rich no matter what they say. It’s discouraging because I’m a young and fairly attractive but very poor. I’m working hard to change that, but there’s always someone that can offer her more out there (more money, bigger banana) How can you ever really fully relax and trust a woman. Don’t want to be a bitter S.O.B. Want a healthy stable LTR.