I'm still a beginner when it's comes to red pill philosophy and dating in general.

I had a three month relationship that ended in late November that really opened my eyes to female nature and what being with an emotionally unstable woman is like.

Now that I've had time to reflect and let the mud settle, I've realized that I willfully ignored many red flags with her. Here are the red flags I noticed.

  1. She was still in another relationship when we started dating. Monkey branched.

  2. She wanted exclusively and girlfriend status way too fast.

  3. She told me she was diagnosed with depression and took medication. She down played this, but it comes up later. I suspect she may be BPD too.

  4. She had no female friends at all.

  5. Constant shit tests. She'd talk about other guys showing interest in her all the time and try to evoke jealousy. I never reacted!

  6. She never wanted me to meet her family. She met my parents and friends on several occasions. Her family issues came up in conversations.

  7. She became very unstable when drinking alcohol. She had a meltdown at a party I took her to. She cried hysterically for 15 minutes in front of many people she just met. The reason? Her 18 y/o sister came out as a lesbian several months earlier. I basically let her cry it out like a parent would with a toddler.

  8. She talked about marriage alot. She told me her dad would pay for the wedding. I did not reciprocate interest.

  9. Her last boyfriend was "abusive". When I asked for details, she was unable to explain why. He apparently payed for their apartment and covered most of her living expenses. She said he was unfair because he asked her to buy groceries every other week. He had a full time job as well. From what I could find out about him, he was a decent guy.

  10. She was entitled. She expected men in her life to accommodate her and provide for her by default.

  11. She lied about not having her phone for a weekend. No explanation and somehow she was still on Snapchat during this time.

  12. When I broke up with her, she tried to make me into a monster. Apparently, I'm a selfish narcissistic asshole who couldn't handle a relationship with her.

In hindsight, I can't believe how naive I was. Why were these glaring red flags so hard to accept? I saw them, but rationalized them away. In the end, I broke up with her and deleted her on all social media. I never want to go through that again.

Happy New Year fellas.