How do I make feeling uncomfortable my aim?

satanic_hamster · 2020-12-13T15:10:54+00:00

In my head, due to past experiences, I strive to be prepared before approaching or doing anything my mind deems ‘risky’, and even though I realise this, I’m still stuck in this loop- Striving for self improvement but probably am scared to approach because of feeling unprepared...

Eh, don't know what this means. Care to elaborate and be more specific?

alphaonthecomeup · 2020-12-13T15:50:12+00:00

Start off with goals like approach 5 women a day, then 10, then 15, then 25.

You can never be fully prepared. Same way I didn’t know I’d be typing this to you this very second, you never know who you’re gonna run into and everything.

Just self improve (lift, clothes, perfume, body language, socializing) and work on yourself.

You’ll catch W’s and you’ll catch L’s. You can never be prepared for both, sometimes things just happen. Take it easy on your mental, no pressure, but push yourself when the opportunity arises

Redditorsheaven · 2020-12-13T21:13:41+00:00

Oh this UK approaching myth again. You just do not want to take an action or maybe you insecure. It does not mean people cannot approach here...

PimpinLikeIceberg · 2020-12-14T02:21:03+00:00

Maaan that's a good question and a tricky one. I feel you...

You get comfortable with the uncomfortable by getting numb to it simply. How ? Doing as much approaches as possible. And JUST DO IT ! Meaning : don't try to get something out of interactions, just talk to bitches in the street and in whatever about whatever. The goal is to get yourself numb to the awkward situation of talking to HOT strangers...

Once it's done and you feel like you can talk to anybody with no problem, then you can think about getting results. And don't get it twisted : Anxiety never goes away. Even a 1000 approaches later, the anxiety will still be there. You just learn to play with it and kinda ignore it.

And the excuse of UK culture bullshit is not valid. I'm in Paris and Let me tell you...Parisian girls are bitchy as fuck. Still, we go out and cold open. We're even approaching now with masks on in Paris. The game scene here is very active. Incredible..

I cold approached my current LTR in the subway of Paris 2 years ago. Drop excuses !!!

Hit me up if you have more questions ! Good luck buddy !

Title	How do I make feeling uncomfortable my aim?
Author	150420throwaway
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	December 13, 2020 3:04 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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