Ive been seeing this girl from college for a month. We met on tinder and have been hanging out, watching movies, and hooking up multiple times a week. She almost told me she loved me, and I can tell shes absolutely crazy about me, often triple texting me, and saying how much she misses me/ how she thinks about me all day. Ive been on the fence about my feelings because there are some red flags. She asked if i was talking to anyone else i said “not really” to play it cool, and she said she wasnt and that she deleted tinder

She recently went home for winter break. Ive been pretty distant because im not a big texter/ busy most of the day with work, gym, and friends. I could tell she was mad that i dont text as much. She added me to her close friends story on instagram last week and she posted her tinder messages from guys she got, and her matches.. she knew i wud see. That got me extremely upset because she said she wasnt seeing anyone and i dont even care if she is, i just dont want to see it, she was trying to get me jealous and it worked. I ignored her for a couple days because i was upset but then we started texting again normally.

Anyways, i can tell shes mad cus i dont text her that much, and im still mad at the tinder thing. We were making plans for her to come to my place this weekend and then she said “goodnight cutie ❤️”. I was half asleep and sent “Gn”. She flipped out and sent me a long paragraph saying she deserves better than two letters and about how i must be so energetic because of all the energy i saved from sending 2 letters. It was very rude. She was pretty mad but i left it on read. At this point im fed up. I dont know if i should respond and say im not okay with her being disrespectful (like my ex gf) or just forget it. This girls driving me nuts any advice please.

TLDR: Girl Ive been seeing pretty seriously freaked out after i said “Gn”