Hi guys!

I wanted to get some feedback on a girl I just went out with.

Long story short, she was a woman who I met briefly at the end of the summer, who I ended up matching with on Tinder yesterday. The next day, I mentioned that I would pick her up and we would hang out for the evening. She was excited and agreed.

From the time I picked her up, there was constant kino, from giving her a hug, touching her arms, playing with her hair, and even holding hands. This escalated from when we went on a walk. We were then sitting on a bench chatting, where I went in for the kiss. She moved back and said that her rule was that she didn't kiss on the first date. I actually did a good job with some AA and AM, to which the situation was in a good, fun mood.

Afterward, we went back to my place to make a coffee and warm up since it was pretty cold out in the evening. I made some coffee, talked shit with her (i.e. lots of flirting), and continued to kino. It seemed like there was growing comfort and interest with her. Anyway, I went for the kiss again and she was telling me that she didn't kiss on the first date and that I would have to "wait" for that to happen. I ended up dropping her off after that and everything seemed fine. Good conversation and I enjoyed being around her.

Question... I'm usually used to either a first time hang out escalating to sex or at least making out a bit. I'm not sure if I should completely plan something again with her to hang out, or flat out next her and keep on chugging along. It's weird for me since I've never really been in that situation before.

Thanks for reading.