Hi All,

I'm an Indian dude aged 31 and working (making some solid money). I'm also working on my side hustle and trading stocks to generate additional sources of income (getting good success in that too).

I lift weights, read voraciously, meditate , have a pretty good sense of humour (and communication skills) and am on the path of continuous improvement. "Every day in every way I'm getting better and better".

I've hooked up with girls on and off , got laid multiple times , had a girlfriend 4 years back . I've been single from the last 4 years .

Ze Challenge :

My parents are driving me fucking nuts to get married (this is a typical Indian middle class house). As im approaching 32, everyone i meet - relatives, family friends ..they all preach that -

  • you've got to get married before its too late.
  • Or else you'll be lonely.
  • Its your duty and your moral obligation to take the generation forward by getting married & having kids
  • either find someone or we will find some girl from a good family ("Arranged Marriage)"
  • Once you're old there would be no one to support you..you need a partner or else you are fucked
  • Mom & Dad have some expectations from you ..be a good son ....

Folks, i personally dont feel the need to have a partner. I don't even crave sex that much .. i rub one out when i get horny or if i get lucky some chick would come and blow me. May be as i hit mid 30s these counts will go down . But, deep down im not able to decide if i want to get married or ride solo .

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What do you guys think ?