I need some coaching and mental tips on keeping cool when women, and latinas in particular, do their bullshit.

Here’s what led me to post this.

Last Friday, I meet a hot Colombian girl at some drinks. She’s clearly into me, and long story short we end up looking for a hotel room while she wanks me and I I finger her from time to time. Turns out the two nearby hotel are full, I can’t be bothered, and go home.

She calls me to meet up at my place today. She arrives and refuses to kiss, claiming she’s a conservative Colombian. And that’s when I think I lost my frame - that level of crap just annoys me too much. On Friday night she was begging me to put my hand up her pussy (only managed 3 fingers) and telling how she wants me to fuck her in the ass. And now she won’t kiss me after driving 35 minutes to come to my place. Come on. She’s also the 4th Colombian doing the “I’m Colombian and I don’t do sex” number on me, and I’ve fucked all 4 of them the same night they pulled that number. This time though I’m annoyed.

Anyway, we proceed to chat while I caress her and she refuses to kiss. I get fed up after a beer, stop paying attention to her, she suggests we go somewhere else, I say no, she suggests she leaves and I agree. She does.

I know my mistake was getting annoyed by her crap, which she could tell. My questions to you guys is how not to let it get to me?