When a person doesn't need the validation or the attention of others, and relies on his own instinct and the only validation he needs, is his own selfs. And he doesn't give in to anyone to "fit in" to the bs nonsense narrative of society, that's when that person has truly mastered ghow.

You should never gaf of what anyone thinks about you. In the end it's only you. People come and go. Never live for the validation or attention from others, as I said, the only validation you need is from yourself. That's it. The people who's attention that you lived for, where are they now? They long gone. In the end it's only you.