Im 29, no kids never married. In good shape, make decent bank. This plate is 30 and we’ve been smashing for about 2 months, almost every weekend. No strings attached, no commitment talk, etc.

But at what point do you back out? In other words, I see no future with her. She’s divorced once, has finger tats, and generally not LTR material.... the sex is great and fun.

I’m doing my best to maintain abundance, I’m still dating other women but this plate offers the most consistent sex. As a result of the easy sex, I’m afraid I’m developing feels for someone I KNOW is not LTR material.

I don’t text her during the week or offer her the BFE.

I guess I’m asking at what point do YOU back out early to avoid a messy ending. Have your fun for a few months and then bounce?

What are ways I can keep this thing going (because it’s fun) BUT protect my emotional health and wellbeing?