This has got into my head, when I know it shouldnt have

themostgianthorse · 2021-02-09T17:17:51+00:00

I’m pleased to hear that you understand it’s just your turn especially since you are young. I’d read the sidebar again. It takes an average of 7 times to read something before it sinks in. Results will vary.

On to your question and more importantly observation - “I don’t hate the guy, it’s just ... IDK, I feel some type of negative way towards it”.

Well welcome to the fucking club! What you are experiencing is known as retroactive jealousy. Men’s core concern from an evolutionary perspective when dealing with women is the certainty of our paternity. Your “feeling a negative way towards it” is instinct. Not a single damn one of us “like” the idea of our sweet little princess fucking another dude. Doesn’t matter that he was a one pump chump. On the African Savannah one pump from anyone other than you could fuck your whole life up. Plenty more to read on this subject but I type all this to say “it’s natural”

Good. Now that you know your not an irrational mongoloid, what to do now?

You already know number 1; it’s just your turn.

Number 2 - rationalization - another dude has fucked your girlfriend and you must accept this (or don’t).It’ll happen again. I wish there was a honey pot of 77 virgins ripe for the plucking but unless your willing to move to Lancaster county PA and grow an impressive beard, it ain’t gonna happen champ! You will fuck other girls. Enjoy your experience with this one and when it ends, thank the universe for the opportunity and lessons learned and get out there and tear it up with someone else!

Number 3 - vetting (sidebar)

Number 4 - having understood the root cause of all of this and assuming you’ve already done your vetting, chill, relax and have a good time. Nothing unusual about your experience. You are a man. Congrats!

scorpioenigma0 · 2021-02-09T17:00:44+00:00

You're jealous. You don't have abundance mentality.

Wouldn't recommend committing to a female before the age of 30. Even though you're in a relationship, if you can call it that at the age, make sure you're spinning plates and have other options.

You're young don't limit yourself, have a lot of sex, don't be too serious with her, if she's giving you drama drop her and move on, don't hesitate.

Females will always downplay the significance other males have for them, don't believe them. Assume they probably had a sexual relationship and he either played her or she monkey branched to something better.

LongTimeFaps · 2021-02-09T16:58:15+00:00

Its called jealousy.

Title	This has got into my head, when I know it shouldnt have
Author	orma22
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	February 9, 2021 4:48 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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