What’s up, hope everyone is good.

LTR who I’vd been considering dumping but haven’t due to lockdown came over to mine tonight in very high spirit, and became more distant as the night went on, for some unknown reason. No initiation of physical or affection.

She then went to “lay down for a bit” and said I should stay up and watch more TV. Which got me confused as normally she always wants me to go bed with her.

I go lay down 15 min later with her and again no initiation of physical and acting standoffish when I try to open up/kiss/kino.

Then told her she seemed distant/not engaged to which she got annoyed about me saying and became awkward. I’ve now got up and back in the living room confused as hell.

Was this a shit test of some sort, or just her being a bitch. I’ve also come to think/realise she is BPD as is in a great fun mood one hour/day and then the opposite over such little afterwards.

Any input into this would be much appreciated and what to do right now. Awkward isn’t the word.

Also, did I lose frame by asking her what’s up, or was right to say how I felt?

Thanks.