My Child free friend's GF wants to marry and have a kid at 45?

2021-02-09T14:55:06+00:00

Your post is red flag after red flag. I assume the guy is bp?

She's old, there will probably be miscarriages and expensive/time consuming IVF.

Why is he dating this female in the first place?

You have to let him make his own mistakes. If you give advice that is truthful and he doesn't want to listen, there's nothing else you can do.

themostgianthorse · 2021-02-09T15:08:16+00:00

You could casually ask him questions that prompt him to think.

Or spin it your way - damn dude, if I wifed up a girl like Mindy Sue, I’d be really concerned about what would happen if we got a divorce. Ya know like with her already having a kid and stuff. Would seem weird to me that someone would take that big of a risk to try to have a baby in your 40s. Every woman’s not Janet Jackson ya know? Playas gotta play but you wouldn’t find me on that court.

Title	My Child free friend's GF wants to marry and have a kid at 45?
Author	Aggravating-Stock-28
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	February 9, 2021 2:51 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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