Hi Ladies,

I received some very good advice recently which I felt deserved to be here. I’ve seen a lot of women breaking up with their LVM over the past few days and this is for anyone still considering it.

So,

If you’re ever in a situation which is making you unhappy, there are only ever three options available to you; 1. Do nothing and accept everything as it is (telling yourself you supposedly lack the power to change it) 2. Change yourself to adapt to the situation 3. Walk away from the situation to leave it to someone else to deal with it.

This knocked the common sense right back into me. And a quick side one, I have a great friend who exhibited most FDS principles before I knew what they were and whenever I told her I can’t break up with a LVM because ‘it hurts so much’ or ‘I’ll lose everything’ or any other pick me excuse I had, she’d always say “If you can’t leave them, what’s your plan if they decide to leave you”

So ladies, if you’re having doubts, making excuses to yourself and to your friends, hiding your real feelings to your friends and to yourself, you’re only hurting yourself longer than you should. Please reserve your enthusiasm, positivity, optimism and everything great about you for a HVM.