So im talking to this girl and shes really into me. Like obsessed. She wanted to meet me at the mall today, but i told her i would next weekend. The truth is tho, i said no because i CANT.

See, for one its covid. But her parents dont allow boys over her house so unless i find a way to sneak over there theres no way that’s happening. To be honest id just go to the mall, go into a fitting room, get head, then leave. But heres another issue

My mom. See i have what you would call an overprotective mother. So despite the fact that i am 17 and know how to drive, she will not let me. And she definitely will not take me to a mall during a pandemic.

So i have a few options at my disposal but each comes with a risk. Either i could ask someone to take me, but i have no money to give to a friend to take me and none of my family members would be cool with taking me to a mall behind my moms back.

I could just take the car and drive out but she will somehow definitely notice. She stays at home 24/7 and calls me down from my room damn near every hour for something, and if she doesnt hear footsteps she’ll occasionally call my name just to see if im still here. Not only that but she has cameras and alarms outside in the garage and back yard, so unless i find a way to unplug all of them without triggering one which is connected to her phone, theres no way i can do it.

There is one thing tho. Im supposed to go to a studio with a friend for 4 hours sunday. If i could find someone to bring me to the mall and back while my mom THINKS im at the studio that will work but id be wasting a LOT of money and studio time just to do that.

I know you guys will probably tell me i shouldnt even worry this much about it, shit i might not even get any head tbh. But its been almost 2 years since i got some from a girl and almost every time i was about to my mom ruins it somehow. If it was easy for me to sneak out id totally do it but theres just so many ways for me to get caught and if i get caught its over for me.

What would u guys do in a situation like this?