Hey guys,

Think I’ve entered a new stage of shit testing with the girl I’m seeing. I’m tempted to let her go cause games / non-sense are getting worse.

So I’m not sure if this is a shit test or if this girl is actually seeing other dudes even though she’s told me she wants to be exclusive with me.

Last night her phone buzzed - she acted a bit nervous and then turned the phone facedown while I was sitting next to her.

Later in the night she was in my bed on her phone. When I walked back to bed, she had a sheepish grin, and quickly put her phone away.

In my past experience with an ex, these were always games and nothing to be concerned about.

Nonetheless, how would you guys read this? Shit test or actual reason not to commit to this girl? If a shit test, how would you respond?