I hope any girl reading this will take what I say to heart. Im in my 30s now and want to help wherever and whomever I can. I saved my virginity throughout high school, then met a guy who I thought at the time was a high value man because after months of dating, even my parents told me he was a keeper. I lost my virginity to him and gained an STD that I will have for life. I was young and stupid at the time and stayed with him. At that time in my life I had gained some weight due to college drinking and poor eating habits. He then told me I needed to lose weight and asked me to put a shirt or sweater on while having sex. That was my breaking point. I realized at that point that he didnt love me, he was looking to groom me, plus all his past behaviors. Ladies, we all can get wrapped up in hormones and "love". Lets take a step back and make sure we love, respect, and put ourselves first! "When you are wearing rose colored glasses, you dont see the red flags"!