Have some kinky stuff (collar, gags, nipple clamps) at my place, how do I introduce plates to bdsm without scaring them off?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2021-02-25T21:32:25+00:00

You pre-qualify with girls who are into this and you advance those to the next round. You also READ THE FUCKING SIDEBAR where I talk about this specifically.

bluewahle1900 · 2021-02-25T19:58:50+00:00

I forgot who posted it but he said you just don’t put the cuffs on you show them to her first and see her reaction. I think it was recently posted... he also said push the boundaries go as far as you can till she says no then back off

SeasonedRP · 2021-02-25T20:58:19+00:00

I think Uncle Vasiliy has some articles on this that you should be able to find if you do a search.

wanker7171 · 2021-02-26T02:57:22+00:00

they should be into it, or at the very least open to it. One of my current plates didn't start calling me daddy until we'd had sex four or five times, and it was her idea buried under her nervousness. Over time girls will want to do dirtier and dirtier things with you, so there's no need to feel like you have to rush it.

TeddyMGTOW · 2021-02-25T20:06:47+00:00

Do you have a van too? parked down by the river?

hepazepie · 2021-02-25T21:00:42+00:00

I think if you choke and slap them and they are okay with it, its an easy transition. Maybe spanking them with a belt is a good intermediate

skyrunner22 · 2021-02-25T21:29:49+00:00

What works for me is little by little. Also depends on whose turf I am on. First toy introduced is usually some type of pocket rocket, girls are usually comfortable with that and have some interest then go to the cadillac version of hitachi magic wand, I have seen eyes open wide when it comes out (have also had it stolen multiple times, lol).. Anyway you start there and then go which route you think will interest them..

I remember when I would go over to a girls house, she would start making jokes about what other goodies I had in my goodie bag, thats usually when you know they are open to it and comfortable with you.. The fun really begins..

maubreetius · 2021-02-26T02:07:12+00:00

Sometimes a good and deep conversation is the key. Pua has tought me to talk about those subjects after seks. With the key to be very open what you want.

Title	Have some kinky stuff (collar, gags, nipple clamps) at my place, how do I introduce plates to bdsm without scaring them off?
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Date	February 25, 2021 7:50 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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