I’ve currently got 2 plates. Plate 1 I’ve known for 3 years, started dating 6-7 months ago and it turned into a fwb. I also happen to live in the same house as her at college. In my estimation plate 1 broke when she started seeing this other dude, who she admitted to fucking a few weeks ago. I soft nexted her and she came crawling out the woodwork a week later asking how I am and to hang out etc.

Plate 2 is maybe a month old, met on tinder and fucked her a few times since then, she’s already hit me with the ‘what are we?’. Handled accordingly.

Because of plate 1s actions, fucking this new dude in the house, I’ve decided to stay at my parents home for a few weeks after the Easter break. Plate 1 is aware of plate 2.

In the week plate 1 called me and said she wanted to go to a bar with me, I said ok and we went, had some drinks, good conversation and then I fucked her in the Forrest on the walk home. This came as a surprise to me because after what had happened I assumed that this plate had broken. She said she doesn’t ever want to lose what we have (?). So basically she wants me there as a close friend to fuck when she’s bored of her other guys.

I’m not sure exactly how to proceed with this. I don’t wanna move back to that house right now if she’s gonna keep having that other guy over but at the same time I’m hesitant to tell her I don’t want him in the house ever again. Seems almost obsessive. In the week I’m thinking of asking plate 1 to go do something.