It's been 3 months since I broke up with my ex, and I still think about her everyday / feel bad about it. I've dated other girls, hasn't helped.

RedSkeller · 2016-10-22T16:08:11+00:00

Yeah man, just got through something similar in the ~3 month area. It just takes time. I thought I was going crazy up until a few days ago when I noticed I had completely stopped thinking of her. Give it time and not focusing on pussy helps - stop caring and jacking off for a bit until you get your shit straight.

stickfiguresk · 2016-10-22T16:28:55+00:00

Is the solution to go for girls as hot as her?

To an extent, yes. The RP solution is to, "go fuck ten women" which has more to it than what you see at the surface; the goal is to gear your mind towards not just focusing on the next girl, but the tenth one after that, and getting you to a place where that's a perfectly reasonable goal. It also places real, live evidence of abundance and the idea of, "it's just my turn", literally right in your lap.

Tyler_Gatsby · 2016-10-22T17:10:09+00:00

You could get a "higher high" from sex with her for other reasons too. As gay as this probably sounds, you may have "made love" to her, so sex with other women seems more cold. Think of it as just chemicals in your brain that you need to learn to turn on or off with any woman you want. That's easier said than done, of course.

Apexk9 · 2016-10-22T17:18:07+00:00

Why did you break up you idiot.

Title	It's been 3 months since I broke up with my ex, and I still think about her everyday / feel bad about it. I've dated other girls, hasn't helped.
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Date	October 22, 2016 3:48 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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