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She was trying to get her cuck to confront you to boost her self image. There's theory that expands on this in sidebar posts about hypergamy. This was a lose-lose situation, and bailing was definitely the right answer. Ol bitch is in a downward spiral and she's pulling ol dude down with her.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 11:55 PM
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Lightly brushing on sexual subjects will open her mind to you being a sexual entity. Don't dwell on it or you'll trigger ASD.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 08:49 PM
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Work in. 90% of bros will be more than happy to share. If he doesnt, then consider suicide/home gym. "Hey homie, mind if I work in?"
/r/askTRP08/06/18 08:47 PM
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I'd make a joke about having your background check already approved, to help her understand she's being rediculous, but otherwise soft next her. Don't be thirsty. If it's botched, then move on.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 08:42 PM
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Disease is probably the wrong word; symptom is probably more accurate. As it relates to this particular community, body dysmorphia is probably the most likely issue surrounding the obsession with self image, and as for dick pics, I don't know if there's a good word for it, but they brush on the idea in No More Mr. Nice Guy--obsession with your member that contributes to erectile dysfunction. You know, if you want to get all butt hurt and insecure about it, then I'm not gonna reply again.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 10:23 PM
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You're humble bragging. Selfies and dick pics are a disease on society, for a myriad of reasons.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:21 PM
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Things that are true: She's a whore She needs to feel secure in her prospects, which means she's likely late twenties, or gross and early twenties. The second point makes her prime for what Rollo calls comfort game. Her mind is relatively at ease since OP is now putting the pussy properly on the pedestal. OP's shit isn't sustainable/reliable.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:18 PM
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In addition to the great insight already posted here, a more general, more gut sensitive sign is when she gets the audacity to cross boundaries shes never tested before, I.e. talking back, not responding to texts, or talking shit--general disrespect/shit tests that would get prospects ghosted.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:56 PM
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I take CBD oil when my nerves are fried. It chills me out and gets me back to baseline for a few days. I love the stuff. Alternatively, if you don't get drug tested, you can smoke a bowl.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:19 AM
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I don't know any, tbh. Whenever I'm one-on-one like that, I try to keep aware of what topics about me, what's about them, and what's not necessarily about either of us. By rule of thumb, that last, neutral area is the most engaging place for other parties, unless they are explicitly asking personal questions about you. Letting people ramble about themselves too much is generally bad, as they tend to shift into auto-pilot and remember nothing about ya'lls interaction. And withholding personal inf…
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:06 AM
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Lower pec exercises are like dips and decline bench. Don't focus on it too much; I dont think pectus excavatum's appearance could be mitigated by chest exercises if the pec insertion/origin point isn't already covering it. If you're flexing in the mirror alot, I'd advise cutting back. It breeds insecurity/dismorphia.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 12:56 AM
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It'd be good for your mentality to next her, on the grounds of, "too much work". You set a bad president with the commitment talk and it seems she's a little more broken than you're equipped to handle at the moment. I'd just ghost her. Focus on finding lucky floosey #13.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 12:54 AM
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It may look like ONEitis/scarcity You left out the keyword, "mindset" Gotta get your ducks in a row--you have to fight for your abundance lifestyle. And nothing hammers it home like experience. Bang 10 chicks, homie.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 12:19 AM
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Cool. Hey Sheila this is OP from (how you know her). (Inside joke or relavent question). Wrap it up in 1-2 more texts and go right to logistics.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 12:04 AM
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Sit next to her. When the movie starts, put your hand on her knee platonically and smile at her like, "enjoy the movie, comrad!" Like you're harmless and friendly. Leave your hand there. If she moves away or blatently moves your hand, try again in 15 minutes. After your hands been there a couple minutes, gently rub her knee with your fingers. No big deal. Then, after a couple minutes, rub more in between her knees. Then, over 10 minutes, slowly migrate up her thigh. This will turn her on. When s…
/r/askTRP30/08/17 12:00 AM
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Who's the prize? Start working on alternatives and when/if she hollers, give a pleasent, "oh hey" like moving on is the easiest thing you've ever done. Less is always more. Who's the prize?
/r/askTRP29/08/17 11:49 PM
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That specific example(from your context, I haven't read the link yet) could set a frame, "you are replacable." It's good to get them home, it's great to get them on rotation as a hoe soldier for the next 3-4 months without drama. The ins and outs of abundance, and especially frame, can be complicated.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 11:44 PM
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Fun is with dudes. Women are only funny when they're the butt of the joke.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 11:07 PM
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If the depression seemingly fell out of nowhere, you gotta build something. Invest time and energy in something that's going to give you a return that you want. It could be fishing, carpentry, hunting; shit, I know a guy that blows glass--apparently it's not that hard to get into. He makes little pipes. Tl;dr Get a manly hobby that has some return.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 10:23 PM
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Ugh... I wouldn't text the gay dude unless you've got something fairly platonic to invite both of them to. Even then... I'd just wait for her to make contact, essentially soft nexting her.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 10:16 PM
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If you're depressed, exercise more and go make some friends. If you're more zen than depressed, that's mostly normal.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 10:11 PM
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I know they are platonic So? You don't own her. You're trying to rent the pussy for a few hours. ASD dictates that she can't openly plan on shacking up with you. Make plans that don't necessarily involve her and plan on her mostly dodging you that first day. Also, build some plausable deniability into your plans. This will ease her ASD and its RP to have back up plans anyways. Who's the prize?
/r/askTRP13/07/17 07:37 PM
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As with everything, keep it simple. If trimming it takes longer than 2 minutes every couple days, you're obsessing too much on it and need to adjust back to a baseline.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 06:48 PM
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I've always been one on the fence when it came to misogyny. It'd be anti-RP to use misogyny with malice. You're better than the girls you associate with, but the frame you're trying to convey, but more importantly internalize, is that they're just cute little girls, until they're not, in which case you drop a, "ma'am" and let them be confronted with the ever-present idea of The Wall. You say, "sweetie" because she's cute. You refer to them as, "girls" because they're ineffective, cute wards.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 08:16 AM
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Nah, try em all out. "darlin" and "bitch" roll off my tongue unconsciously now, but using "girls" to refer to a pack of women is probably the easiest to start with. If you listen to Patrice O'Neal, particularly in the Black Phillip series, you can hear him capably use "sweetie" and "pumpkin" like he's talking to his daughter every time. As with all things TRP, you gotta push your boundaries and try new things, or nothing will change.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 08:06 AM
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Mastering misgoyny, i.e. always picturing them as mental teenagers puts their bullshit in perspective, and is a generally useful tool. Use subtle sexism to help your mindset, "hey, what you girls doing?", "Grab that, sweetie." Adult women are egomaniac mental teenagers and should always be looked at as children. Use words like, "sweetie," "darling," pumpkin." and give commands. Women generally enjoy being talked to this way, unless they're actively looking to bump heads with you, in which case y…
/r/askTRP23/04/17 07:27 AM
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If you feel like you're about to lose your patience, take the time to count backwords from ten while focusing on why this shit just doesn't fucking matter. For example, a dude just added five minutes to your task at work, "10... This person is new/ignorant, so he deserves a little leeway, 9... I'm getting paid by the hour anyways, 8... what am I going to do tonight, 7?... I want to make a better crust than usual on that chicken breast, 6..." I generally have the patience of a saint, so I don't d…
/r/askTRP23/04/17 07:03 AM
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Just so long as you realize that this is an awful arrangement, and that she's doing this so as to sate her ASD/LMR, go, and hit on her friends, "I'm not locked in here with you. You're locked in here with me!" Go out, have fun, be a cad she has no control over. And don't think of this as a date. This is her pre-emptively friend zoning you so she doesn't feel like she owes you anything. I've been in this situation before and the chick slingshotted me with pre-selection into her new friend's vagin…
/r/askTRP02/04/17 01:50 AM
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Go fuck ten other women. Don't argue, just do it. This is the RP solution. From going out specifically for pulling numbers, to mentally preparing yourself for pump and dumps, to actually executing 10 bangs, this idea can fix more and has more wisdom behind it than you can currently appreciate. And for fucks sake, pull numbers off base. In fact, keep driving until the townies stare and old men salute you because they don't expect to see a soldier.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 11:12 PM
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I think you need to chill the fuck out and wait for her to reach out to you, and even then, maintain a prize mentality. Assume she knows you're sexy. Take it from wiser poon hounds than either of us: texting is only for logistics.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 08:14 PM
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Aside from the moral issue, you a. Hesitated and b. Fed the hamster, "see, I told you he wanted to fuck me. Everybody wants to fuck me." Best answer would've been, "maybe. Ask me friday" or just a simple, "maybe", or flat-out ignoring it. Either way, don't fucking text her again. ... see what she sends YOU friday.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 07:10 PM
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100% she's spinning you. You're inside her gay girly frame as her kissing buddy. Fucking bail. BTW, the point of using the term, "unicorn" is to signify that a type of girl doesn't exist... I wonder if the guy that coined the term intended for it to be such strong bait for dudes putting hoes on pedastals. And a plate is a girl you regularly fuck. This girl is a "prospect", and you're her kissing partner, which sounds kinda gay. Establish a rule for yourself and a boundary for her: women are not …
/r/askTRP21/03/17 07:04 PM
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Do it. Eat the plate of shit she trades you and learn a lesson about how this will make you less attractive in her eyes, and how she's going to give bare minimum effort in stringing you along until she gets another faggot to call you and threaten to beat your ass if you don't stop stalking her, all for the sake of humble bragging to her friends how this loser is giving her unwanted affection even though, "I'm like, not even that pretty" I expect an update. Spoiler: She's not going to read it.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 06:43 PM
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Fuck off. Ask her her number and stop wasting your time/attention. "What's your number" (number) Over text: "Hey (her name) this is (your name) from (app). So you said you're a good girl? The first text should always be personal, say who the fuck you are (because attractive women give out their number at least three times a day), and should be easy to reply to. lol sure "good to hear. So are you volunteering at your church on Tuesday? If not, let's get buzzed and talk shit in person" Logistics o…
/r/askTRP21/03/17 06:31 PM
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No. Refusing to play the game doesn't exclude you from the game. Its like going into a car dealership and paying sticker price because you have no interest in haggling.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 06:30 PM
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Get out and pull numbers, and then spin plates. You can't ignore it when its in your face. There isn't one woman, there's 3.5 billion women.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 07:42 PM
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Women like to branch out and establish support structures/safety nets. They're instinctually bitches(dependant) and its totally normal for them to have a plan B, plan C, etc. This is healthy, normal behavior, unless she's doing this with guys.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 07:34 PM
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I used to wonder if love for a oneitis was partly some weird Freudian need to be attached to a motherly figure. After getting burnt a few times and then exclusively spinning plates and ONSs for about 6 years, I've grown jaded and my capacity for love/loneliness has shriveled up and died, like an atrophied limb. To say I have "commitment issues" would be an understatement, but I feel far more zen with any issues like that now. Thats just my weird perspective, though. IMO, its just growing pains.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 07:22 PM
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One tactic is to call them on the day of the date. Its a power move and can make them a little more invested. Assuming everything else is stellar, improving your pics can make them more invested. you free for me to call you in 15m? And then charismatically confirm the date.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 06:57 PM
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A hater
/r/askTRP15/03/17 06:40 PM
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Respect comes with strength and reputation, but haters will always hate. "If I say it, I mean it."
/r/askTRP15/03/17 06:40 PM
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This is a frame issue. Its harder to recommend a specific guide because it encompasses so many different branches of TRP, like establishing rules, boundaries and limitations for the people you allow in your life(self respect/dignity/frame), batting away shit tests, and being able to take an L. When you're comfortable with those things, when to treat her like she's a cute child will come more naturally. Just keep the idea in mind and experience will guide you through. I don't know of any directly…
/r/askTRP15/03/17 06:32 PM
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I don't know how to make it so that she doesn't think I'm desperate for reciprocating feelings. Then don't reciprocate feelings. Either isolate her or get her number to do it later. Women signal and make themselves available for men to do all the "heavy lifting."
/r/askTRP15/03/17 04:54 PM
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The details are none of their business, and you should keep it that way, but keep your lifestyle front and center and chicks will come to you for an easy no pressure lay.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 02:04 AM
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25 yo Girl (sounding disappointed): "...my boobs are so small though." She's fishing for compliments. Also, what a skanky thing to say... I either wouldve ignored the comment and looked at her like she farted or said something like, "Are they? I can't tell" breaks eye contact to look at her tits Trying to bait her into me seeing/squeezing them. 25 yo Girl: "Yeah, but you probably only like them because small ones are in right now." And she doubles down! "... Was that a 'humble brag'?" Fucking gr…
/r/askTRP14/03/17 12:39 AM
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I want to keep her in my life, dating is eventually the mail but I'm not sure how to make this transition happen. "If you want to continue seeing me, we have to become exclusive." Is a phrase I'd never recommend saying, but is exactly what you'd want to say. She's been single for a long time and says she doesn't want to date but I hear from her friends that she does translation: you don't make her want to get off the CC. This doesn't at all strike me as a good idea. I'd recommend leaving her as …
/r/askTRP13/03/17 11:59 PM
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Black girl looks like she might stab my tires. She's objectively a point hotter, but the white girl wins a hotness;neediness comparison.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 04:04 PM
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What do you want from this woman? Answer that question and establish the frame that makes it happen. A wishy-washy "let love take the reigns" attitude is absolutely BP. I know the whole point of TRP is to attract a high quality woman women Its also about establishing frame; rules, boundaries and limitations for the people you let in your life. Again, what specifically do you want from this woman? Use your answer to establish your frame.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 03:42 PM
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Awesome pics. Great size. Look thick. Solid. Tight. Keep us all posted on your continued progress with any new progress pics or vid clips. Show us what you got man. Wanna see how freakin' huge, solid, thick and tight you can get. Thanks for the motivation.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 01:25 PM
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My natural alpha roommate thinks that I should not respond and not even mention it, but to send her a text midweek telling her she should join my friends and I when we go out on Friday night/St. Paddy's day. I like your roommate. Listen to him. Personally, I'd cash that read receipt now and immediately respond with logistics, lonely at paddy's. You should come out "We're going to x tonight. Wanna chill?" If she says no/ignores, then do the roommate suggestion. I'd do this sooner rather than wait…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 06:55 PM
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Its less what's in the texts and more that you were texting at all. She was fishing for attention, and you gave it freely. Minimize the energy you invest in texting; No emojis, no "ha"s, make them wait for you to respond, and garner the aire of "this guys not a texter" With the exception of the first text, it should be obvious that she's more invested than you, otherwise youre going to have 5s feeding off your attention and ghosting you.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 06:38 PM
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Every woman is the center of their own universe. A woman can love a man, but its more like the way you can love the view from a cabin, like, you can really mean it, but, its not like it's in-house. Rollo writes extensively on solipsism. You'll get the best answer from The Rational Male.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 06:22 PM
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Absolutely ignore. Garner the reputation of a cad, but don't kiss and tell. Direct admissions of facts(sarah was in my bed friday) can lower your smv, and give her hamster ammo to use against you. If she presses, let her know that her lack of chill makes her less attractive. I have to know "that's gross."
/r/askTRP12/03/17 06:08 PM
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The best response is no response, but sometimes, "lol ok" is even better. Under no circumstances be an emotional tampon. Your actions should convey, "I'm not the boyfriend type(and you know better)."
/r/askTRP12/03/17 05:51 PM
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It doesn't matter. Think in terms of pussy;energy/time. Its practical, and conveys abundance. Who's more invested? It should always be her. A woman that passes on an opportunity to be a part of your busy schedule should feel like she's squandered something. Convey that through your actions by soft nexting her in favor of girls that don't waste your time/energy. that being said, plates fall, so no biggie if she vanishes. You need more hoes anyways.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 05:42 PM
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Get evidence of her admission of guilt(texts, voicemails, video) and get a divorce lawyer. Tell her NOTHING. You have the upper hand, don't surrender it. She's crossed an unforgivable boundary, which means she'll do it again, or something worse. Plan to be a single civilian with alimony/child support in 6 months. Hopefully your lawyer won't be a sack of shit, that 20k has his name on it.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 05:20 PM
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-han, let's agree now, I want to plan my evening is that you? You got nexted. If a girl blows you off, in general, make it seem like that was her rare opportunity she just squandered. She should be nexting people for a chance to be with you. Who's more valuable in this situation? Texting a woman that's barely a plate should go like this: "wanna chill" yes "Come over" okay logistics "wanna chill" (anything other than yes) ghost her for a week "wanna chill" wants to reschedule maybe respond if it …
/r/askTRP02/03/17 12:03 PM
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Plan it backwords: you want her in your bed. You need to get her to chill at your place, so have something distracting like a movie/netflix ready to go. You need to lure her back to your place, so plan on introducing bait during the date, "I ordered a pizza right before coming out to meet you. Wanna have some? My place is a block away." Hopefully you had enough incite to make plans for something near your place. So, a date should go like this: *meet at location near your place *shoot the shit fo…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 11:43 AM
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A "red pill" is an inconvient truth, commonly distrusted by popular culture. In the context of this sub, it refers to the economics of sex, and how cut-throat and fucked up it can be. This is a market place, evolution, survival of the fittest. so what? This sub exists, mostly, apart from the circlejerk bits, to help less woke men hone and practice their understanding of that sexual market place. It's the evolution of old PUA forums; when the question was asked, "But WHY does this shit work?", TR…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 11:30 AM
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Your life isn't over. I know guys with 6 kids and a new hoe every week. Your ass isn't locked into shit, or did you not get that lesson from TRP? Self respect and boundaries: get that shit. On a side note, tell her it's gonna be a flipper baby because she's old, and that you NEVER considered seeing her for an extended period of time, and make her feel silly for EVER thinking differently. This is frame. She should get an abortion like a responsible adult. My ex that works with autistic kids would…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 11:18 AM
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She is accustomed to receiving sympathy support from her support structure at the expense of her S/O's reputation. This is her go-to for both validation and back-up plans, which every girl has/needs. She dates a string of abusive bad guys because they feed that monkey, because they're man enough to hit them when they deserve it, or independent enough to leave her when she acts like a shit head. Girls like this are great for getting put in jail or getting your car keyed.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 05:01 PM
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What does this mean? Her crying fits hit a 10 on the "fuck no" scale. No caveats: fucking run.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 04:04 AM
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So she tells me she wants to know me better first. "thats why i suggested coffee" Make her frame seem silly. Don't dwell on it, though. " she wants to know me better first" in woman-speak means she wants free attention or a better reason to meet you. I'm surprised she responded at all, if that's her attitude. Next.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 03:44 AM
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So is the move to back off and play it cooler so she'll have space or play it warmer and beta it up a bit? Naw, definitely not. The shift I made when I got balls deep into TRP is to be more selfish, and not dominant, per se. Kink in the bedroom is tricky. If you go overboard with domination, suddenly you're doing much more work than her in the bedroom, which is inherently anti-RP, no matter how dominant it is. Being extraordinarily selfish and neglectful is also an aspect of domination though, w…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 03:32 AM
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It's probably a combination of these three: They have cognitive dissonance regarding being turned on by feeling like a submissive slut but seeing themselves as progressive feminists More like, it was just too early for her to be thuroughly demeaned so quickly. They see rough sex as a marker of a man who isn't looking for "romance"/commitment It's harder to hamster away being a cum dumpster when you get fucked like a $5 hooker that owes you change. It triggers past memories of uncomfortable sexua…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 03:04 AM
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Because her father wasn't there to smack her. The hamster isn't a superficial thing that spits out frame puzzles occasionally. Women are more like children than men.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 02:39 PM
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Shirtless pics or classy pics?
/r/askTRP12/11/16 04:35 PM
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You're practicing dread/good text game. Her hamster is picking up speed. This is good, but the bit about her going out of town is bad, since it gives her an excuse to not see you. See: briffaults law; attention/validation from you now, and the vague promise of making this in-person much later. I'd let her cook a bit longer, but decide to either call her and set something up before she leaves, or make her feel like she does right now until she's back in town.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 04:29 PM
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Its partly to explain why it happens. Also, the expectation to foot the bill, and why one may feel like it accomplished nothing afterwords is a commonly asked question in askTRP, and something the plugged in experience regularly. Also, its one of my favorite subjects in relation to 48 laws of power and female solipsism. My related answers in askTRP always seem to garner a lot of attention.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 10:04 PM
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I'm not suggesting you split the bill. "despise the free lunch" is a chapter in 48 laws of power. The reason why women can skirt this law is because of the inverse of the law, they take it for granted; they take it as a tribute to the value of their pussy, actually using it to sate their huge egos. If you can shatter her ability to hamster away the free lunch by insisting that you're giving her charity and not tribute, she will either insist on paying for herself or be humbled/indebted to you. D…
/r/askTRP09/11/16 04:21 AM
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What kind of a place are you meeting?
/r/askTRP09/11/16 02:53 AM
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That's a good way of becoming the bad guy. Best: don't put yourself in those situations. Good: hold the frame that she's a freeloader. To expand on the freeloader idea, it's all in the phrasing/frame, and getting the idea in her head before she has the gall to suggest that you'd have the honor of buying her shit. copy/pasting this from an old thread: Let's say the check comes while you and a girl are at dinner, "Do you need me to pay for you?" She can't pretend like you're just buying her shit a…
/r/askTRP09/11/16 02:46 AM
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Frame: free long distance ride over the vague suggestion of sex frame you want: just sex. I'd upsell/troll her until she promises 3 blowjobs on seperate occasions while you eat a cheeseburger she bought you, and gives you "like $100 for gas" and also never drive her anywhere ever
/r/askTRP09/11/16 01:52 AM
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Just put hours into organizing, and follow some guides on picking up chicks. There's tons of guides on the main sub and I highly recommend BANG and DAY BANG by Roosh. DAY BANG is particularly effective for the socially anxious. As for feeling more like a man, either buy a gun and join a gun club or buy an axe and chop down some trees. Or both.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 01:47 AM
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Seems like a vulnerable experience can I stay dominant and in control from this position? No, you can't maintain frame while taking it in the pooper, but the real fight is not letting it define you or your relationship. I wouldn't advise it, but do whatever floats your boat.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 01:39 AM
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The questions are 99% worthless/meaningless. You can learn more about a woman by her pictures. letting everyone know they're whores. They're on dating websites. They're all whores.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 11:46 PM
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She feels validated but you appear needy If I had the stoic security and uncontrollable arousal to where I could regularly cum in two minutes with the chicks I usually bang, I'd be the happiest man on the planet. Her feelings on the subject are nearly irrelevant, as I take pride in how utterly selfish and efficient I am with women.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 11:43 PM
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"Hey had fun with you ln ;)" overt acknowledgement of her dirty little actions that night: this is bad. Now if she associates further with you, she is making direct admission of her being easy, which means you trigger ASD. Go for something platonic and keep the charming for when you're in-person: Hey (girl's name) this is (you) from (how you know her). (inside joke or relavent question) This needs to be platonic and engaging, as it is the most respondable first text ever. Wrap up where that (rel…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 11:33 PM
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I'm the kind of guy that gets sick to my stomach thinking about saying those things. Overt flattery is so cliche and inelegant. Aside from making her feel secure in the relationship(i.e. comfort tests), that's a totally acceptable way to feel. Her reasons are girly garbage, the kind of nonsense that's produced by a hamster. She's leaving you because you're out of shape and unemployed, and overt flattery is probably worthless from you anyways. I've essentially been failing to better myself. I rea…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 11:21 PM
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You can't expect women to think about this shit like we would. The question doesn't make sense in a female perspective. Women are biologically more caniving in relationships, and more commonly hedonistic. Don't acknowledge it or you'll blow her cover and won't mess around with you any more.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 10:57 AM
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Nature should take over and she'll probably try to unzip OP's pants, which OP should enable. And she'll play with his dick for a bit and put her mouth on it. If at any time she stops or hesitates, respect that and try the move she resisted again in 5-15 mins. Most girls won't escalate at all, and very few will escalate faster than I outlined.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 01:29 AM
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She came over because there was no explicit implication that ya'll were going to fool around. She snuggled against you for the same reason. She kissed you because she could "teach you" and you pressured her a bit. Women want their cake and to eat it too. They operate in a world of plausable deniability. Invite her over again, soon, and with a good reason. have you seen (new movie) yet? "No" I'm about to watch it. Want to come over? This time, casually escalate how much/what you're touching while…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 09:02 PM
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Turning down dudes is validating to women. To be great at approaching women, you have to make them invested in the interaction, and then invested in you. "Do you have the time?" I have a boyfriend! If you approach a woman directly in the wrong atmosphere, under the wrong circumstances, you could be setting her up to tee off on you so she can sate her massive ego. Yes, it's that shallow. Instead of approaching directly, get a good reason to talk to her/her friends, "ya'll been here before? I'm tr…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 08:31 PM
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Depression and the struggle to make new lasting relationships will be a part of your entire life. Getting off your ass and organizing things is a great way to minimize both problems. Copy/pasted: Devise some kind of fun event that people would enjoy going to. It can be things like sports, "I'm trying to get a basketball game going Tuesday" or an outing to a bar/club, "I'm getting a group together to go bar hopping Saturday" or even something like a concert, "I'm going to see Snoop Dogg at the Ho…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 07:34 PM
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Why would you buy the cow when you're getting it's milk for free? And plan on cheating on her--I genuinely don't understand your reasons for doing this. Do you feel like you need drama in your life?
/r/askTRP06/11/16 07:24 PM
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Well, you said you did, so I suppose you can. If this thread is about your mental state, you need to spin other women at the same time and stop going on fucking dates with her. She's DTF, so Netflix and chill.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 06:51 PM
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Nope! Well, in part, yes, but the reason why it's now an external demon for all men is because it's so easily accessible. If you've spanked it to anything else, the point is moot and devolves into just, "perverse shit is stimulating."
/r/askTRP06/11/16 06:43 PM
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Inner-female dynamics is fucking complicated. Great question btw, good formatting, quotes and all that shit--well done. I haven't seen anti-feminist women argue to the contrary. This is because valuable females are already basking in their victory semen. They don't need to fight except for in inner female relationships, while the skanks are fighting for everything. Anti-feminists aren't the other side of the war--theyre women that found a new way to feed the attention monkey. The posturing and h…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 06:29 PM
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Personally, I'd always frame his comments as petty and make a point of letting him and everyone else know that I'm the bigger man for forgiving his misguided outbursts/tantrums. And insinuate his obsession with me may be homosexual in nature. The most important thing is to not take it personally. If it's a big loss, like Meek Mill sized loss, take an L and pretend it never happened.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 04:46 PM
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Women need attention like they need iron in their diet.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 04:32 PM
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Two alternatives come to mind: her recent branch swinging has proven her pussy is more valuable than the last guy conveys, or she wants attention/sympathy if she does it particularly openly, which is probably more common.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 04:07 PM
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Think of it as leverage, which is valuable, not a grudge, which is just pettiness. It's a sexual marketplace: She's always upselling her pussy. It's her one commodity and prices are low.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 04:02 PM
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I always initiate that last physical boundary by putting her hand on my dick over my pants and letting her escalate, or just whip it out and stick it in her face if it's a "walked in the door and ripped our clothes off" kind of thing. If you convey that you'll do all the work, she'll take advantage of that and be a lazy star fish there for her free orgasm. Never eat her pussy first, especially when you just met the bitch.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:59 PM
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That's a good question, but a complicated answer. I don't get in those situations because I'm not, "the boyfriend type." That's my frame. The idea of me being in a relationship makes the chicks I bang laugh. The frame of your relationship, which is common, is that you owe her shit, like you're her new caretaker after her parents. You bought the cow when the milk is free. Here's what I'd do: I'd distance myself from that frame, but you'd need to change too for that to work correctly. Restructurin…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:45 PM
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They do it for the endorphins. They do it for the same reason people do pranks, or eat ghost peppers. They know it shouldn't actually do any lasting harm to you, so it's not much different from any other friendly banter, but it still sucks, so there'll be more endorphins. Treat it like a shit test and be humble, or ignore it, and convey that it has no impact on your life.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:26 PM
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Your priorities are extremely fucked and this is going to blow up in your face. I don't think I can unplug you, but I'll give it a shot. What your girlfriend wants from you is the certainty that you'd do anything for her. Not sex, not a rewarding future as a housewife. What she wants from men in general, is everything. She's having her cake and eating it too. Now, what's more important than that, is what you want, and what this girl can offer. She's a child, but so are you (bear with me), and it…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:12 PM
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And why the fuck are they acting like such children? Women are biologically designed to maximize their survival/opportunities as men's bitches. How should I proceed because I still want to fuck her Say almost nothing to her, like you're either making money or recieving a blow job every second of the day, and make it appear that you check your phone unoften enough to reflect that. But once a week or so, inform her that it's her turn to suck your dick--you've got the smallest 1 hour window for her…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 02:28 PM
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Passive and active dread: discourage unwanted behavior by making her confront the idea of being replacable. Don't tell her she's replacable; she has to figure it out on her own. Dig through the main sub, for hours/days until you have a firm understanding of both forms of dread.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 02:17 PM
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I'm kind of upset, but should I be? To an extent, yes. We all have a little bitch in us, but you need to appreciate that this is bitch behavior and not something that should be embraced. Understand why you're feeling this way. Why'd you contact your friend? Did you have a good reason? Is it over something that he'd want? Have a good reason for people to talk to you and they'll usually talk to you. And when I say, "have a reason", make it productive or interesting. Organize something. Don't make …
/r/askTRP06/11/16 02:09 PM
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Act busy. Just don't feed her attention. Ideally, she should feel like she's losing a valuable spot in your time. Of course, don't say that, but that'll be her ideal mindset the next time you text her, "wanna chill" don't know if she's feeling guilty I'd call that projection. Women don't really work like we do when it comes to shit like that.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:52 PM
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Don't send her anything at all. Move on. Consider the shit you lost, if not returned, the price of learning a lesson. You're hurt because you let yourself be hurt. Revenge and punishment are exactly anti-RP.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:45 PM
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Go cold for a week or so. Her reasons aren't clear.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:41 PM
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Just go, or don't because she didn't confirm. Have a plan b for when bitches flake, "x is near (date) so if she's not there, I can go to x" and if it's just inconvenient, consider making different plans and flaking on her. You should always be able to tell who's more invested. If you can't tell, it's probably you. Don't confirm the date.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:31 PM
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Shorten it to, "Cheers" Less is more. I'd also consider not saying anything at all, and if she says anything when you see her, either say you didn't hear your phone or say you forgot to respond.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:25 PM
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I was pretty damn thin after my first cut, 180 lbs at 6'5, down from 265. I've never been more insecure in my life than after I'd lost all that weight. Loose skin is a bitch. That was 6-7 years ago. Getting past that, IMO, is key to utilizing TRP. The, "lol bitch ofc I'm awesome" mindset that I've been honing for the past 2-3 years shook off most of my body dysmorphia pretty early.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:17 PM
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You're killing it, homie. I changed my first comment. I've been in your shoes. You gotta step back from auto-mirin'. It's fucking with your head. Yes, I know the spots are there, but it's likely loose skin. You gotta stop giving a shit.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 06:47 PM
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what are your bench/OHP, squat and deadlift numbers? The holy grail of Bodybuilding, the eight pack, is reserved for people that were never above 20% BF and/or have the genetic fat distribution to not place fat there. Don't obsess over your body so much. It ducks with your head. I'd recommend that you delete these pics and never take a selfie again.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 06:36 PM
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If she's happy, she'll corral her friends. If she's overly insecure with your value/security, her friends will react to that and shit on you. Also, she may just be the type of girl that will shit on you no matter what. There's not much to do. Treat that gaggle of hags like they're the kiddy table at a dinner party. Inner-female social dynamics are too complicated and seemingly nonsensical to pick apart like we do everything else here.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 06:31 PM
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There's usually a good reason why a woman doesn't have any female friends. She was likely ostracized for some reason or another. I'm getting the impression she's old--I'm thinking she's jaded and has just stopped using that, "men are just less drama." line. If she's over 30, that's relavent. If she's over 35, I'd say I'm convinced. Genuinely fun or not, men and women can't be just friends. Jim is an orbiter. All women have them, so its no big deal, but know that Jim is her safety net.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 07:44 PM
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(A) Incredibly irresponsible and gutter trash that probably has all sorts of nasty bugs or (B) Incredibly inexperienced and unfamiliar with casual sex etiquette. Lmao, the condom goes on your dick, and you're supposed to be leading the interaction. Whatever that moment says about her says worse shit about you. Probably more A than B.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 05:31 PM
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We all do that some times. Some just do it more than others, but what does their shit talking accomplish? Does it affect your rent payment? Your love life? Having food to eat? Is that shit talking going to affect any of those things six months from now? If it does, could you have prevented it? If you could, then its your fault and you need to work on that. If you can't, then what's the point in worrying about it? Talking shit is fun. Join in sometimes, but try to limit it to just in people's fac…
/r/askTRP29/10/16 05:13 PM
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Acceptance in personal responsibility. You fucked up a lot to get to this point, either through ignorance or a lack of self respect. She may be a cunt, but she wasn't the only one that murdered the girl(she used to be) that you love(d). There's blood on your hands too. Pay the price of fucking up, and seek comfort in that the worst part will pass, and your new respect for the fact that you're souly responsible for establishing rules and boundaries for the people you allow into your life, and res…
/r/askTRP29/10/16 04:40 PM
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If you really don't care, send her a, "wanna chill" the next time you feel like fucking her. Let her stew in this a bit longer and don't send her anything else. Nothing can teach a woman a lesson better than time and worry. If you do care, just ghost her.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 04:33 PM
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She likely left that dude to sling some pussy. Its common for women in their prime, or what she feels is her prime, to bail on a secure thing because they feel like their value is being wasted on one average dude, like if you won a contest that buys you dinner every Friday, but you only live near a McDonalds. In that analogy, you'd be the town that just has a Burger King. She wants a guy that doesn't make her feel needed. To continue that analogy, she wants to be near a restaraunt that doesn't n…
/r/askTRP29/10/16 04:19 PM
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I said what I ment. What you choose to do with the red pill is your business.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 03:04 PM
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Rand's works are her ode to hypergamy. If you can't take that seriously, you haven't read enough TRP.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 10:26 PM
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I've always felt that TRP needs to be apolitical, areligious, amoral and not linked to any social agenda But doesn't TRP philosophy line up extremely well with libertarianism? Like an instruction manual to becoming Ayn Ran's wet dream? Amoral, I can agree with. Areligious: there's probably a western culture argument there. As much as it seems counter intuitive, I don't think it can be both apolitical AND amoral/"not linked to any social agenda." I know I'm not the only one that got much more con…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 02:28 AM
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You're talking about the point in the age/likely SMV curve that favors men over women, where successful men that own all their own shit and have careers begin out valuing women that are about to expire(36). What makes it all so amazing? You got the wrong impression. It CAN be comparitively better, if you have a career you've been working on and your life isn't a mess. I just hit 30 and usually fuck 20-somethings with no kids, so arguably, I'm doing better than women my age, which usually have an…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 04:21 AM
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Template for the first text: Hey (girl), this is (you) from (how you know here). (Relavent question or inside joke) You let her know who you are because youre not the only guy shes given her number to this week. You greet her with her name to make it personal. You do the last shit to make that first text as repliable as possible, which gets her invested in the real shit: Wrap it up in 1-2 texts and go straight to logistics. That first text should be the most work you put in for the rest of the t…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:52 AM
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You want to make athletic friends to do athletic shit with, so you approach a guy you occasionally share a squat rack with at the local gym. Hey bro, wanna hang out? What's your number? Yes, it's awkward and gay and every time I spend a few hours answering people's questions in AskTRP, I either copy and paste the OP or rewrite it because it sunk too low in my post history. Also, I included "platonic hoes" in this post because it's also a great day game strategy. they are faaaar away from being r…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 09:19 PM
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Spend more time with other friends/doing cool shit. Go to a gym and make acquaintances. When youve accomplished this much, Copied/pasted from another thread: How to get men or women to hang out with you: devise some kind of fun event that people would enjoy going to. It can be things like sports, "I'm trying to get a basketball game going Tuesday" or an outing to a bar/club, "I'm getting a group together to go bar hopping Saturday" or even something like a concert, "I'm going to see Snoop Dogg a…
/r/askTRP23/10/16 06:36 PM
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The context is unclear: that was either a hard no or anti-slut defense(ASD). If its ASD, she was thinking about fucking you, felt guilty, and had to sate the hamster by letting you know that the center of the universe(her) is too valuable to simply fuck you without you buying the cow. All women are whores. The proper response is to, "okay" and continue escalating. ASD is not a shit test: if you agree and amplify, for example, ASD doesn't get dismissed--it enflames and gets worse.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 06:18 PM
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How can I ever trust another woman, You don't have to respect them, but respect what they are. Social dynamics aren't magic. They're a product of evolution, and the weak genes get weeded out. This isn't any woman's fault: its yours for being naive. The first step to acceptance is taking responsibility. how can I ever find the person that will be my partner, the one that always has my back? That's the heart of the red pill: Disney love is fantasy. "The one" is like Santa or the Easter Bunny.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 06:12 PM
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There's no telling from the post. Bitches be crazy. Bitches be crazier while drunk.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 02:21 PM
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It likely has something to do with her prefered method of recieving attention/validation over the internet, and pressure from tension with you. Whether that's sexual tension or something else, I can't say. Escalate in person and find out.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 02:19 PM
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Probably. You just need her hamster to spin up with possibilities while you're ignoring her.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 12:52 PM
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ALL of your shortcomings are your fault. Even if that's not true, it doesn't matter because it's your problem, so you have to take responsibility for it. Nobody else is going to fix it. A. talk to a girl A1. Be someplace private before C B. kino C. Kiss her C1. Hand on a tit D. Put her hand on your dick over your pants. If she pulls away, try again a few minutes later E. ????? F. Profit.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 12:49 PM
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Just leave it off for the rest of the day. Tomorrow, when she flips out at you, say something like, "calm down, hitler. I had to get a new battery" and stick to that story. The idea you're trying to make her confront is her replacability, but she needs to come about that idea on her own. Keep plausable deniability on your side. Threads like this need to happen BEFORE she shits on you, not after. TRP is best when it's preventitive. It's okay to manipulate, but shitty to punish.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 12:42 PM
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That makes me think of a wounded wildebeest trying to get through a crocodile infested river on a nature documentary. People wouldn't like him at all, probably less in fact. He'd just be a target.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 12:28 PM
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Its kinda like, "how can I let chicks know Ive got a giant dong?" Well, you gotta whip it out and show them or the idea won't sink in. Girls want a man who is A. capable of protecting her, but at the same time B. capable of wrecking somebody who threatens her. That means big/mean.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 06:57 PM
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So... you are saying don't be nice? It's a subjective perspective. Follow your own goals and priorities and set your own frame that people have to use to interact with you. For example, whenever I'm approached by a pan handler, i usually give them whatever is in my pocket. Occasionally, they'll ask for my phone number to, "one day pay (me) back" or give me a sob story I don't give a flying fuck about. That's their frame; It makes them okay with the position they're in. I fucking shut it down, be…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 06:00 PM
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OP thought his religious affiliation was relavent to his thread, so I used it. Either of our opinions on sin is irrelavent to OP's potential social structure. The church goers' opinion on "living in sin", however, could play a part in OP getting out of a shitty situation.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 05:30 PM
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You seem to have that part down enough, so I'll just offer this: How to get men or women to hang out with you: devise some kind of fun event that people would enjoy going to. It can be things like sports, "I'm trying to get a basketball game going Tuesday" or an outing to a bar/club, "I'm getting a group together to go bar hopping Saturday" or even something like a concert, "I'm going to see Snoop Dogg at the House of Blues next week" And then invite them in a way that doesn't give them any undu…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 04:46 PM
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Is the solution to go for girls as hot as her? To an extent, yes. The RP solution is to, "go fuck ten women" which has more to it than what you see at the surface; the goal is to gear your mind towards not just focusing on the next girl, but the tenth one after that, and getting you to a place where that's a perfectly reasonable goal. It also places real, live evidence of abundance and the idea of, "it's just my turn", literally right in your lap.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 04:28 PM
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Sympathy/relatability; to develope a support structure. Living with a woman without being married is considered sinful and is frowned upon in many denominations.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 04:16 PM
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When she's out of town the last thing you want to do is give her a reason to get drunk and fuck another guy bc you're being a douche. Withdrawing from communication, which the girl owns, is a withdrawal from her frame. If she's invested in OP, she'd be more likely to fly home and check on him than fuck somebody else. If she's so indifferent as to fuck somebody else when he withdraws, this thread is too little too late anyways. texting is only for logistics I've never seen a notation to suggest t…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 03:58 PM
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Develope more money and a support structure: it'll give you options. Look for a higher paying job and start going to church. Don't hide your situation from your fellow christians; you made a mistake and you regret living in sin with a whore.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 03:21 PM
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Last night when I noticed her sexuality towards him, I got sad/heartbroken bc of these feels I got. How can I combat this shit? I'm trying to get rid of every feeling for her. Embrace it. Your body is telling you you're a needy bitch and need to rework your priorities. If you spin plates for a few years, that neediness evaporates. Priorities: maximize pussy, minimize investment. You are not a boyfriend. You are a cad. Listen to some Black Phillip; it'll help you get into a more independant minds…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 03:06 PM
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I can just hope they die soon and I get the inheritance You are spoiled too. The only thing I can help with is the overly frequent phone calls. If you routinely don't answer and only do call-backs, and call back 2/3rd as often as you're called, you'll stop nurturing this needy behavior while also avoiding too much suspicion. Also, do not make a routine around not answering your phone, or structure a routine so it seems fairly random. Find excuses that they can relate to being important, namely t…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 02:34 PM
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After you find your niche in how you approach women, the rejection usually doesnt feel like anything at all. It's just a game of odds; this many rejections for this many bangs. Next next bang bang next bang bang next next next bang. Here's something Roosh wrote to help dudes get over approach anxiety--I can't remember which book/article: Picture approaching a girl. Now picture her saying, "i have a boyfriend." Now picture everybody hearing her rejecting you. Now picture them all laughing. Now pi…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 02:09 PM
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You're right. OP should get checked for a symptomless stigma that will loom over his head his entire life. And after they painfully shove a q-tip in virgin OP's urithra and tell him he has HPV, he can stay a anxious hypochondriac virgin his whole life like Isaac Newton, or, god willing, he'll run into that crack whore again and will be able to pop his non-existant cherry. Or, on the other hand, he could live like a normal teenager without symptoms, since he is a normal teenager without symptoms.…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 01:42 PM
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but surely some women would be my type Types don't matter. Well, two types matter: the powerful and the hot. If you can't make a woman want to be your groupie, then why would she want to be your bitch? Be awesome, or be like the cattle that'll buy her dinner under the unspoken promise of the third date that never comes.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 01:33 PM
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Go, have fun, be polite to your ex, and as soon as you feel the need to look at your phone or your mood changes, be it 3 minutes or 30, bail early without saying anything, or with an excuse, "I gotta run to (friend's house/store)"
/r/askTRP22/10/16 01:16 PM
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You have a tepid sense of hesitation about what you want from this girl, and the desire to punish her, which isn't RP, is telling me you don't have a strong grasp on the frame of this relationship. I strongly recommend that you, "go on a break for like three weeks" because you, "don't feel like being somebody's boyfriend anymore" and drop her down to plate status, while spinning other girls too. She's a hoe. And teaching her self-serving RP terms like, 'beta-orbiter' tells me you talk about TRP …
/r/askTRP22/10/16 01:11 PM
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I wouldn't believe this story, except I've known crack whores and have been an eighteen year-old virgin. Listen to your father. He has the appropriate masculine reaction to this situation. However, first and foremost, listen to the police: if she ever approaches you or your house again, call the police. Consider what she stole the price of that lesson. Apparently your parents love you enough to appreciate that you needed this life lesson. Water under the bridge and such. Don't get checked for ST…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 12:47 PM
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I don't know how texting with an LTR is supposed to be. It's not. This codependant back-and-forth is the main reason we advocate texting only for logistics. You should've cultivated an air of, "he's not a texter" early in every relationship. For a more, "now" solution, turn off your phone and claim it broke. And either claim you got a replacement when convinient or actually throw it away if it's shitty and get a new burner phone. Use this opportunity to approach texting in a new, advantageous an…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 12:27 PM
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Yes, because sometimes you just gotta get the poison out. edit: I am very careful with who I take home though. If I don't think she'd keep me up, so to speak, I don't waste my time. Chubby girls can be enjoyable sometimes. I know it just takes time to become physically fit I can't really pull attractive girls because of not being in good shape. That's just insecurity talking. You don't know if you don't try. GO PULL SOME NUMBERS. Find a guide on the main sub you can get into and follow it. Get o…
/r/askTRP21/10/16 01:01 PM
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Nah, just priorities: there's a bitch in every relationship and it should be obvious who that is. I'd consider it a healthy RP mindset to go for being stimulated over doing the stimulating, at least more often than not; 2/3 rule.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 01:20 AM
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DAY BANG is a book almost entirely dedicated to bullshitting women, or rambling, as Roosh calls it. I'd recommend it to anyone that has interest in picking up complete strangers.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 05:56 PM
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If I get what you're asking, that's a deep, deep rabit hole that would take hours of writing to expand on. Luckily, Rollo already has put that time in and you can find it on his blog, The Rational Male. Start with the solipsism series and dig around from there.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 05:53 PM
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Atrophy, go do some cold approaching before you go see a doctor that'll suggest you may be gay.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 04:02 PM
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Yep, failure. Next time you feel the go ahead to grab her by the pussy, instead put her hand on your dick. She services you.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 03:58 PM
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Leaving the friend zone is easy. Escalate as usual, Netflix and chill. Now, whether she stops talking you altogether or sucks your dick is yet to be seen. She sees you as a girlfriend. Stop. That's it. Do not negotiate with that idea--it doesn't fucking matter if she flicks her hair when she sees you or suggests time alone with you. You are eyeball deep in the friend zone and fucking you is not on her mind. You have to make her confront the idea that you're a dude that fucks chicks. Every intera…
/r/askTRP16/10/16 03:55 PM
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There's a sub called redpillmusic
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:21 PM
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Come to terms with it and develope some options yourself.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:17 PM
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You're orbiting hard. I'll keep this short: you're in the friend zone and the only way out is to remind her that you're not a girlfriend (or a boyfriend), but a guy that fucks chicks. Whip your dick out around her. I'm dead serious. If she texts you, ignore it. The only thing you send is, "wanna chill" and you only respond to, "yes", with, "come over" If she's not interested, she'll stop talking to you. Make it so a month from now she'd laugh at the ubsurd idea of you being a girlfriend, because…
/r/askTRP16/10/16 01:59 PM
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Before she shows up for netflix and chill, assure there isn't an abundance of options of where she can sit. If, for example, there's a couch and a recliner, put the recliner in a different room or fill it with shit, so there's no real choice in whether or not to join you on the couch. Now, while the movie is playing, rest your hand on her knee/leg and smile at her in a way that suggests, "enjoy the movie!" As the movie plays, rub her leg, after a while, move to the inner thigh and look for signs…
/r/askTRP16/10/16 01:49 PM
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I'm really tempted to meet with her cause I think I have improved a lot since we last saw each other There's less destructive ways to jerk off. Move on.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 01:33 PM
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Both are arbitrary numbers used to negotiate with the red pill.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 01:30 PM
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Texting is only for logistics for exactly this reason. Also, you could stop texting altogether and just show up for pussy, if she's extended you that courtesy.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 07:18 PM
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I can't get their number and invite them to shit because they'd think I'm gay and trying to hit on them. Thats absolutely correct, unless youre organizing something and youre inviting bros to bro shit. I'm trying to get a basketball game going tomorrow. You down? Inevitably, "who else is going?" you're the first I've asked. I'm gonna ask like 8 more dudes. If you want to give me your number, I'll let you know how its looking It doesn't have to be basketball, it can be a group outing to a bar, a …
/r/askTRP15/10/16 06:41 PM
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If you can listen to videos, Google, "MIT open courseware" Lots of shit to choose from, including programming, which I believe is in Python.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 06:31 PM
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Let's not focus on the past. Let's focus on where to go from here. She now has a plausable excuse for going directly to your house, alone. hey darlin, could you bring me some general tso's this evening? Netflix and chill, bruh.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 06:27 PM
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Also, I like to feed people bullshit for fun, so I use this line every so often.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 06:13 PM
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Context be damned!
/r/askTRP15/10/16 05:26 PM
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Not to mention, it gives them an innate ability to seek out and exploit advantages in social situations. Sex serves no purpose if a woman can't work her way into being supported by a pack, or a man. BRIFFAULT’S LAW: The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 05:25 PM
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Keep a contingency plan for living, at least. The failure rate on suicide is 9/10. Don't put all your eggs in one basket, as the saying goes.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 05:11 PM
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There's a difference between narcissism and solipsism, and they aren't mutually exclusive. Feminen solipsism, in basic, RP terms, means the inability to think outside the box, which is an over-simplification. It's also not just a neurosis like narcissism; it's how women think. It's a complicated subject that I strongly suggest researching on The Rational Male blog I linked to in the original comment. Rollo articulates the idea better than I can.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 05:03 PM
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It wasn't a choice. It's really hard to kill the human body, especially your own.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 04:49 PM
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You'd have to find a physician willing to participate, which is probably incredibly difficult. Man, I made 3 attempts myself. Pulling the trigger is hard af, and hanging hurts like hell. I pussed out each time. After the last attempt, I figured it's just easier to wait out the clock. Shits not good, but life has been okay. Meh, what's a few more decades? Fuck it.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 04:33 PM
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thus adding to her fourth abortion under her belt DAAAYUMN She probably talked way more shit than that. Women have to rationalize things in a way to sate their egos. When that's not a direct option, they fight with the idea for a long time, even lying to others for outside validation--that's actually very common. As to how to respond to your friend, I'd just brush it off. Old news can stay in the trash.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 04:09 PM
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I don't think we're disagreeing. Women live in a world of plausable deniability because things need to be molded to her ego-centric perspective, yes, rejection is relavent, but first and foremost, to sate her absolute need for validation. You're thinking of this in terms of validation as simply being important, when it's an absolute necessity, and she can't comprehend living without it. An example of this is rape, if she loses or is cheated out of value as the object of the universe, then to her…
/r/askTRP15/10/16 03:56 PM
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Both. There's no money in it, but it's extremely satisfying--I wish I built a cabin, but didn't have nearly the amount of time or money to invest in huge projects. I still do small projects with wood I buy from hardware stores, but I live in an apartment now and keeping the noise down and the lacquer smell out is a massive pain in the ass. The smell of certain woods like cherry though is fucking amazing. I started with just an axe (narrow, light head), a file(dull tools means twice as much work)…
/r/askTRP15/10/16 03:23 PM
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I'd recommend changing your priorities, but I'll bite anyways. Abs are easy: if you have a base level of strength, they'll pop out at a low body fat %. Cyclists can have abs. This is your easiest goal. Chest: you need gym equipment, or at least the drive to do full range of motion push-ups at home every other day. Shoulders: primarily a dumbbell centric muscle group. I can't remember the specific exercises, but if you google these individually, the right shit will pop up: lateral, anterior, post…
/r/askTRP15/10/16 02:53 PM
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Not for a guy a part of the 90%, no. There's 30 somethings that'll fuck anything though. White guy logic makes the world go 'round.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 02:41 PM
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Learn a trade--something practical and fun. I like carpentry. The happiest time of my life was living next to a forest, murdering trees with an axe, drying wood and trying to make shit. Good times. Every man should own a chainsaw at least once.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 02:39 PM
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If you watch porn, STOP. The next time you shake hands with the president, relax and just focus on the pleasure you're recieving. Just enjoy that moment with your body. Be in the moment. If there's anything else going on--fantasies, interruptions, awkwardness, stop and try again. This is all in your head; it's gotten way more complicated than it should be. The next time you're with her, go back to that place where you can focus on your enjoyment, and cut out most of the foreplay. This is about y…
/r/askTRP15/10/16 02:15 PM
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From what I understand, honor being such a powerful force over there, it plays a large part in their sexual marketplace. It's like any other culture's SMP, but the curve is far steeper, leaving young women with higher standards, and older men much less likely to buy the(older, less valuable) cow. There's probably a few young dudes over there smashing insane amounts of ass.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 02:01 PM
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You're right that those things play a part in this situation, but the real meat of this mindset is in solipsism. The real answer is much less relatable to men. In the context of ego, and each girl being the center of the universe, the approach is also validation. That's the meat of this topic; her black-hole-sized ego needs to be validated.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 01:44 PM
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Women, by nature through female solipsism (Rollo writes extensively on the topic on The Rational Male), have relatively massive egos compared to men. So not only does it feed her hamster to be approached by men, it's practically a biological necessity, through solipsism. Solipsism, in the RP context, essentially refers to women thinking they're the center of the universe. It's much more complicated than that, but that should give you a basic idea. The exception to this rule is when there's no pr…
/r/askTRP15/10/16 01:14 PM
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I highly recommend joining the Army for a practical skill/certification you can take with you. I joined infantry and didn't learn shit, but it completely changed my personality for the better.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 02:52 AM
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You can get some ideas from my stripper scavenger hunt. It spiced up the night.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 02:46 AM
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RemindMe! One Week
/r/askTRP14/10/16 02:44 AM
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I'm starting to think that the hypocritical notion of expecting a hoe/plate to be exclusive with you is left over blue pill bullshit. There's a lot of hoes out there, and dudes think they're special because they read TRP--bruh, she's a hoe. You don't have to respect her, but not respecting what she is is only going to hurt you.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 02:39 AM
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I highly recommend spending more time towards fucking women you're not orbiting.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 02:27 AM
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I don't know why I only get them in an LTR. Scarcity mindset; all your eggs are in one basket, and that basket happens to have her own agency, which isn't the same as yours, and frequently contains lots of other people's eggs. If you think an LTR is the only thing that will make you happy, you need to rework your priorities and "get with the times". By all means, bond with women, just don't expect a random girl you bought dinner to be the answer to your prayers. Welcome to TRP.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 04:20 AM
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We're jaded from years of Machiavellian practices and pessimistic thinking, and callus from whatever drove us here.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 04:02 AM
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Why aren't you spinning plates?
/r/askTRP13/10/16 03:58 AM
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men pros: good employee, call out less quality over quantity with tasks female pros: attractive face of the company better at multi-tasking Women are dramatic employees that call out alot, but they're more attractive/submissive/tempting, and can talk on the phone and write at the same time. Don't fight nature--there's a reason why there's female secretaries everywhere.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 03:56 AM
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The red flags are there but they aren't exactly evidence of her doing anything wrong. This is the thing guys say when they know they're being cheated on. You know. If you keep waiting for "proof" you'll eventually be finding used condoms, still assigning excuses, and nothing will convince you short of seeing a man in her, and by then, you'll be way too far gone. This is about you, not her. Grow some balls.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 03:34 AM
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I was mostly going for the Trump referance. I'd really recommend taking her hand and puting it on your dick. Priorities and all that.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 08:50 PM
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Plan the date backwords. It needs to end by your bed, so have a reason for her to come back to your place. If you're killing it, the reason can be lame. Involve alcohol and get cocky towards the end of the night. You crossed a lot of physical barriers on the first date, but that was the first date. Re-escalate, don't skip a lot of steps or you could spark up ASD, unless, like before, you're killing it, then grab her by the pussy.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 05:34 PM
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Charge money. And if it's in person, remind them of what you are by whipping your dick out.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 05:30 PM
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If she shows up at your place or your work, call the police. Anything else, just ignore.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 05:29 PM
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Boss 1 has called her to talk about his impending breakup with his girlfriend. PRIORITIES: start spinning plates. (yes I know) Then this is how you start going down the path of spinning plates, and becoming comfortable and happy with your relationships with women: With her specifically, "I need a break for like 3 weeks." Don't put it off on her--this is something you need for you, and you gotta frame it that way--if you try to negotiate your way into non-exclusive relationships, she will shoe ho…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 05:14 PM
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with every single precaution I doubt you'd understand or appreciate every precaution without an endocrinologist helping you. Recreational peds in the U.S. is very dangerous. Not to mention, you probably don't need them at all.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 11:54 PM
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Move on, dummie.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 11:44 PM
3

DAY BANG by Roosh is great. Pair it with BANG.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 11:40 PM
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There is ZERO chance she will ever find out. No mutual friends or anything and it was all in private. It doesn't matter at all then. Why aren't you just spinning plates? It's easier and there's barely any bullshit involved. Is it ok to cheat on your girlfriend? TRP is amoral. i would prefer to keep this conversation amoal in its analysis. Bruh.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 09:40 PM
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It's hard to frame, "spinning plates" as self-improvement. Really, it's just the most advantageous arrangement of fucking women regularly, and keeping your head space straight. So long as you don't illiminate your options by become exclusive with anybody, or become incapable of nexting somebody by moving them in, or become a hermit not fucking anyone, you probably won't be hurting yourself. Why do you not want to spin plates?
/r/askTRP09/10/16 09:21 PM
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You're only spinning plates if there's multiple plates, and a girl isn't a plate until you've banged her multiple times. Spinning plates while also actively pursuing prospects is the best way to cultivate an abundance mindset, which improves your ability to manage relationships and keeps your priorities in order.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 07:53 PM
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The majority of women have a tendency to shut down the vast majority of strangers in casual day time settings, if the stranger expresses any interest in her at all. "do you have the time?" I have a boyfriend This is called a, "bitch shield." Women have monstrous egos, and sacrifice dudes pulling numbers on it like it's a Mayan alter. Day game is different from game in that the goal is to climb an escalation ladder based on how much she's committed to the conversation and her interest level. This…
/r/askTRP09/10/16 07:20 PM
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Assuming you pursue healthy, advantageous relationships in the future, that codependency in you will rot and die off. If you want better sex with normie girls, learn BDSM pervert shit. The best sex I ever had was with a totally down-to-earth girl I'd tie up and slap in the face. Hey I gotta cancel "Np" np? This is when you call me 9 times leaving alternating crying and threatening voicemails. First chick I got serious with had BPD. Shit is so much better now.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 07:01 PM
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You're normal. Perverse shit is exciting sometimes. Widely available, intense pornography, on the other hand, is something only recently introduced to humans and we don't always adapt to it well. Nofap is not normal. Learn to masturbate when your body calls for it, not to porn or fantasies, and if you feel the need to do it out of routine or boredom, replace it with something else. No More Mr. Nice Guy has a chapter on healthy masturbation. Read it, read it twice if it didn't fix your problem.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 06:05 PM
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I'd spend as little time as possible at home, and absolutely get a job. Just walk into a business and ask for an application. Be prepared to work immediately: employers that hire teenagers like that. Abuse sucks, but as soon as you can take care of yourself, as in, food and a roof, its just not a thing anymore. That part of your life will be 100% over. I had a similar issue with a sibling, and one day I joined the Army, and suddenly I just didnt have to deal with the shitty members of my family,…
/r/askTRP09/10/16 05:51 PM
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Develope lots of prospects, pull some numbers, replace a bitch; fuck 10 women.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 05:06 PM
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Yes, posts completely off-topic from TRP need two trigger warnings: off-topic hardcore gay pornography
/r/askTRP09/10/16 04:51 PM
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Why'd you pose this question to TRP? I'll give you an RP solution: relocate her to the couch and have her seek mental help.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 04:17 PM
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It's like a riddle. TRP revolves around the idea of controlling who's allowed to affect your life. If you can't next a bitch, you're shitting where you eat. Leave the apartment, or you're basically asking, "how can I use TRP without using TRP?"
/r/askTRP09/10/16 04:13 PM
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Since you asked, you're being down voted because rejecting tenants of TRP is rejecting TRP. The Machavellian mindset isn't just for personal gain, but is the reflection of personal responsibility. Rejecting one is a misunderstanding of both, IMHO. Also, some may see that rejection as grandstanding. If you want TRP light and lessons on frame, I'd recommend No More Mr. Nice Guy. It's got less meat than TRP, but has the scaffolding of our tenants.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 04:07 PM
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Start a plutonic conversation, "do you like that painting?" i guess it's OK talk about the style or subject matter Bullshit until she asks a personal question, "do you paint?" as a hobby. (Humble brag about shit) Keep bullshitting until she's obviously interested, then ask questions about her, go back and forth until you feel comfortable pulling her number.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 03:54 PM
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Unicorns are called unicorns because they don't exist. Stop being a fag.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 03:49 PM
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Dread, also seriously pursue alternatives.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 03:47 PM
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This question is completely anti-TRP, in a way that a sensible answer doesn't exist.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 03:44 PM
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It's easier to be like, "it's work. What can I do?" Like you're deferring to a higher authority. A friend of mine has a funny story; he was at a bar, after last call, and ends up fucking the bar tender known as, "the troll" on a pool table. So he gets his nut off around 4am, and they're laying there when he perks up, "what time is it?" it's 4am He freaks out a bit, "I have to be at work in 30 minutes!" you have to go! "Yeah!" - he grabs all his shit, goes home and goes to bed. It was his day off…
/r/askTRP09/10/16 12:39 PM
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Establish a deadline beforehand. we can chill for a bit, but I gotta kick you out at 3:30 to get ready for work
/r/askTRP08/10/16 10:42 PM
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Pervay outcome independance. Minimum investment; less is always more, "wanna chill" If she says anything other than, "yes" ghost her for a week. With bait, "going to (x) tonight. Wanna come" With lie, "wtf just rescued a puppy" omfgpuppy "Wtf do I do with a puppy" Omg tell me everything Wait... let it cook "Found owner. too complicated for text. I'll be at (bar) tonight" And don't send her anything else. Outcome independance. If she comes to bar, "found dog in ditch. Cleaned it a bit. Owner came…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 02:55 PM
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It may be worthwhile developing some good bait to get her to come out. Either lie about saving a puppy or something, or invite her to something more interesting. So I asked her directly whether she ever wants to meet again and to be straightforward with me. This is exactly the shit you want to avoid sending. Talking to you just became more stressful and now she has more reason to ghost you. Invite her out once a week for a couple weeks, and if nothing comes of it, delete her number.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 01:10 PM
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Research the idea of a comfort test, and let go of text affection. She knows full well that its wringing you out and uses it as a frame foot hold. Texting is only for logistics for many reasons, but especially this one. It sounds as if she may be going to her friends to complain about you for attention. If she suggests you're abusive, say, "If you're unhappy, we could take a break for a few weeks" and that shit will stop, or she'll agree and you can get some strange. Dread.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:53 AM
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Two things to balance: reinforcing positive behavior(if you want her to send you dirty shit), not enflaming her ASD. Encouraging nudes is arguably not RP, since the usual advice is, "focus on having her naked in front of you, not on the other side of a phone", and it can make you break the rule: texting is only for logistics. lol thx since it came with a bs comment, and as far as she knows, you're one of those, "doesn't text" people, which is an RP air to cultivate. When I recieve nothing but a …
/r/askTRP07/10/16 12:02 AM
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Were u ever able to blackmail her into stuff after making her cheat? Fuck no--why the fuck would i want to? "making her cheat"??? She's got free will, lol, this isn't saudi arabia. Most of their husbands wouldn't believe me even if I told them--A dude that wives a hoe knows she's a hoe, but is in supreme denial, or doesn't care.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 09:17 PM
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A tragic amount of people here use "monk mode" as an excuse/crutch to be anti-social. have been having a hard time reintegrating into single life. Spin plates and buy a dog.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 05:52 PM
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It may be a symptom of insecurity, like you want a challenge/fight to make a bitch your bitch, like, "I'm so dominant, I dominate THIS" I do something similar some times. I don't think it means anything more than "stems from insecurity"
/r/askTRP02/10/16 05:48 PM
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The same way you smash any ass, get her back your place and fuck her. Follow TRP guides closely. I've never had a 'taken' woman get weird and catch feels, because I don't lead them on at all: Flirt, kino, meet in private, excuse to go to your place, Netflix and chill, bang her, "i gotta kick you out, sweetie. I gotta get ready for work", she leaves. Next time: "wanna chill" yes "Come over" You're her dirty little secret. Just don't spend time with her and dont chat. Strictly sexual, but never ac…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 05:21 PM
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move on
/r/askTRP02/10/16 05:09 PM
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Count your calories. Google "calorie calculator" and use the sedentary setting to find out about how many calories you burn in a day. The rest is easy, if you put in the effort. You don't have an exercise problem, you have a job problem. Get a job and buy your own gym membership: problem solved. At some point, you'll stop needing mom's permission to do what you want; that point is when you earn money.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 05:07 PM
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You obviously can't control his actions, so if the game can be won, not playing it can only hurt you. "(Coworker) seems really desperate for a promotion, since he can't keep my name out of his mouth. I wonder what's going on in his life to make him act like that at work. I hope he's okay." Maintain an aire of humility while waving the flag at the bull. The coworker's thirst is unattractive.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 03:22 PM
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This isn't LMR, at all. Its a hard no from a spoiled brat and a pussy pass. Kick her out.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 03:10 PM
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Has anyone really been far as decided to use even go want to do look more like? You've got to be kidding me. I've been further even more decided to use even go need to do look more as anyone can. Can you really be far even as decided half as much to use go wish for that?
/r/askTRP02/10/16 03:06 AM
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They're going to cheat anyways It's not your fault if somebody tried to housewife a hoe Those are very controversial views, even in TRP, but it's views I hold and practice.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 03:01 AM
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Ok, then what do you think will be more effective for OP? I'm eager to hear this idea that may rewrite TRP doctrine.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 07:48 PM
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That's fine too. So long as youre not directly disagreeing with her in a defensive manner("you're wrong"), and you're not pigeonholing yourself into something against your frame("you're right, I'll buy your ugly friend dinner"), its fine.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 07:34 PM
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That part of you will die and fall off with time. Just don't enable stockerish behavior, and keep slaying pussy.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 07:25 PM
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From years of practice, snowflake. The "fuck ten women" advice does more than just get your dick wet with ten different batches of strange. It helps you get into the mindset of not only moving on, but also past the next few girls. It is one of the best cures for oneitis. Picturing your ex dead, killed by you and the bitch you fight with, is also effective.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 07:22 PM
1

So... A push press? This isn't sounding much better.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 05:43 PM
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Love is an evolutionary trait designed to make offspring more viable. From women and children to parents/men, its a practical survival mechanism. For men, the opposite. BRIFFAULT’S LAW: The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. Go fuck 10 women, OP.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 03:28 PM
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Selfies are for girls and children. Stop fishing for attention on social media--it won't be nearly as satisfying as you want it to be.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 03:15 PM
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"I'd be cute with anybody." Just don't become defensive.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 03:13 PM
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Your mother is insecure. Don't assign rational motive to irrational behavior, or she'll fuck you up too.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 03:10 PM
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10‰ of gym goers get the results they want More like 1‰ are happy with their results and 9‰ are yolked and horribly insecure. woo! Lmao4plate!!!1 ... Wait... Ah fuck, there's a 5plate.... Errybody thats established that intermediate base should read Practical Programming to learn rep schemes and pacing, and why pre-made routines are built the way they're built and who they're for.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 02:57 PM
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The core idea of TRP revolves around self-reliance and independence. Those are two things kids in school, living with their parents don't have, and also the reason why TRP is less useful for most job related situations. We can still help in specific situations, but a kids-bop version of TRP would be a watered down circle jerk for ego stroking like redpillwomen.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 02:41 AM
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Good luck.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 01:23 AM
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In blue states/cities, I could see that. Otherwise, it'd be an admission of low value--horrifying to many women, disgusting to their peers. Thats why the only white chicks around here that fuck black guys are transplants or horrendously fat.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 04:34 PM
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I've never been with a black guy. I feel like, somehow, my dad would find out and he'd kill me. every hot white chick I know Ive been hearing this all my life. I remember hearing it in the 7th grade--18 years ago, and I heard it not even a week ago. I'm in the deep south, but I'd guess its similar in NYC.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 04:21 PM
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Organize something fun for a group yourself. You'll feel your priorities shift towards more appropriate concerns: pulling people to x activity, having fun, fucking around. Pay attention to that shift and turn it back on when you need it. And if you can't keep it on, maybe your body is telling you something and you should bail on a lame party.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 04:12 PM
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Go do something fun and turn off your phone. When the fallout comes, "calm down, Hitler. My phone died. And I didn't ejaculate out a car this morning, so I still couldn't pick you up."
/r/askTRP25/09/16 03:24 PM
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Its about the truth behind male and female interactions, in the context of relationships, and techniques used to exploit it. Spinning plates is just the most advantageous risk/reward conclusion from the guys thatve been here the longest, assuming you don't want children in the next couple years.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 03:18 PM
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This is a contentious subject, so I'll just state both sides: The unpopular opinion: this specific type of spinning plates is natural for men, while not natural for women, so its not hypocritical to expect them to be sexually exclusive while you spin them. The popular opinion: its naive to expect plates to be exclusive, and trying to enforce that hypocritical frame will come off as a display of low value. You shouldnt care about a plate that much anyways. Plates rise and they fall, frequently du…
/r/askTRP25/09/16 03:10 PM
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The 48 Laws of Power is a book on how/who holds the power in certain interactions, the reverse(typically, taking things for granted), and historical examples. DAY BANG is mostly about filling dead air/rambling and baiting chicks into becoming interested in you/invested in the interaction.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 02:46 PM
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Some people say they're stuck for years, so it is happening even if it's not supposed to work. If you don't treat certain illnesses, they may never go away. It could be subjective weather or not you consider oneitis or, for example, depression or poor self-esteem illnesses. That, however, is outside the scope of TRP, as that assumption is already built in and won't change for more reasons than I care to list. A Ferrari is still just a car, as women are just holes to a man that spins plates in a …
/r/askTRP25/09/16 02:31 PM
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Its just an unhealthy obsession. It has nothing to do with any specific chick; its like a mental illness. it may take 25 more years to meet another It doesn't work like that. "The one" is a BP myth.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 01:57 PM
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Read more on Amused Mastery and Agree and Amplify--lots of FRs, and go out of your way to talk some shit. With practice/experience, you'll see alternative options open up in tough situations, also, learn exactly what frame is. hey bro, let me borrow $30 "You aren't even putting out yet, and already trying to get in my wallet." stop being a faggot "Don't tell me how to live." want to help me move? "Sure, my usual rate is $15/hr" wtf we're friends "Youre right. $12/hr. Up front." my trash needs to…
/r/askTRP25/09/16 01:46 PM
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You should be trying harder to foster outcome independence. Case 1: bruh, I'm pretty sure that's a hooker. 2: I don't know what you want me to comment on. The majority of TRP solutions are preventitive.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 01:22 PM
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Shave off that stupid bozo bald-ring. Don't obsess over your appearance much more than that. Insecurity and general faggotry does more harm than good.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 01:12 PM
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Are you self-sufficient? As in, live alone, own a car, pay 100% of your own bills?
/r/askTRP25/09/16 01:05 PM
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No More Mr. Nice Guy for the bad sexuals habits and self-esteem, go pull some numbers for everything else. Come back when youve read the book and got some numbers and we'll walk you through step 2.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 01:02 PM
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Fuck, that's nasty. Jesus. Either go for the Alpha Pass or lie. we were all talking shit, including her. I just so happened to be the Michael Phelps of talking shit that day. Thats revolting. We were talking about people doing it, I didn't offer to take that disgusting bullet!
/r/askTRP25/09/16 12:56 PM
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I feel that dealing with 3 weeks of beta me is enough to out-do 2 summer months of alpha me, and she wont be able to unsee beta me and most likely wont contact me ever again. I couldn't say. Sounds like I had this mentality all summer right ? The prize mentality crosses over into many, many aspects of your behavior. The example you gave is a good example, but just the tip of the iceberg; it goes into the very reason for the creation of TRP, PUAs were learning what works, but TRP is why it works,…
/r/askTRP24/09/16 09:06 PM
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Just say yes, and stick your thumb up her butt while doing both roles, so she's subtly reminded of who's the boss... Or Steve Irwin.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 06:35 PM
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When I have a time and activity in mind for the next time I care to see her. texting is only for logistics So its a good idea to have logistics in mind when you text her.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 05:51 PM
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if someone disrespects me I distance myself from them. I don't think there'd be any point in arguing/calling them out Thats an RP approach. A good compliment to that is Amused Mastery and a few of my favoritest sayings, never loan what you wouldn't also give away for free locks keep friends honest And the general RP idea, "you're responsible for how you spend your time and who's allowed in your life."
/r/askTRP24/09/16 05:45 PM
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You're desperate to guard your prospect in her, from her and the world. If anyone should feel insecure in that way, it should be her: that's the prize mentality. You could have three chicks like her on rotation, but you're doing her a favor by giving her more time over other prospects. Try to picture this, your girlfriend says there's something about you she doesn't like. In fact, she subtly suggests its almost a deal breaker. You suggest, "I understand. Maybe we should take a break for a couple…
/r/askTRP24/09/16 05:21 PM
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I'd consider this shitting where you eat, but also, you don't have the frame with your coworkers to pull this off. The girl coworker thinks of you as a girlfriend/bitch--which is totally fine at work. Also, the old man is an old white knight. And when she said you weren't making her uncomfortable, that was a good opportunity to say something like, "Imma take a couple more shots then, since (chick coworker) dared me to." To deflect their shit tests. I wouldn't dwell on it. Its probably better tha…
/r/askTRP24/09/16 04:45 PM
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Lost cause. Tinder is for sex. She was a virgin simply because you were the first step onto the CC. There's a first lay for every hoe. If she hasn't fooled around with that guy, she will and there's nothing you can do about it. You gotta learn to respect that although you were first, it was still only your turn. i look in her phone the next day Looking through a lover's private communication is a huge display of low value. If you even feel the need, you've lost. Move on, try to internalize a pri…
/r/askTRP24/09/16 04:06 PM
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Stop trying to shit where you eat. Don't project your insecurities on your class mates--other people's relationships are none of your business unless you're trying to fuck somebody's girlfriend. Pretty guys can strike out too by saying the wrong thing. That double standard doesn't exist for women because men aren't solely valued by their appearance and temperament. How do people benefit from being around you? Develope a good RP answer to that and embrace it. Getting laid should get a lot easier,…
/r/askTRP24/09/16 03:48 PM
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Crocodile teers, bruh. Replace "emotional" with "manipulative" and this'll make a bit more sense. If she cries on you again, either piss her the fuck off and tease her or make it obvious that that bratty behavior is obvious and makes her less attractive. Every girl has a favorite way of getting attention/validation: crying, talking about a "rape", talking about "abuse", low-cut shirts, etc. You gotta reset the frame, because you've lost a lot of ground. Set hard relationship goals for her behavi…
/r/askTRP24/09/16 02:11 PM
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This falls under, "don't shit where you eat". If you don't think you can manage it, you can't.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 01:48 PM
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Fuck ten women
/r/askTRP24/09/16 01:45 PM
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Complacency, a lack of attraction; Read up on dread and passive dread. Also, use the 2/3 rule with affectionate gestures and sexual favors.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 01:38 PM
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tried to build comfort game a bit That's not a thing. Her vagina was dry as a bone. First date we went out for dinner (which I know a lot of guys on here say is a bad idea) If y'all were just talking, she was just coasting. She doesn't remember anything y'all said. Not to mention, you just fed a stranger, which is a bit of a bitch move. You're just a meal ticket up to this point. A few days later told her I was free Sat Why? So she can take you on a date? Either use, "im going to x on y, wanna c…
/r/askTRP24/09/16 01:02 PM
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just forget about her and move on. This, but also be open to something in the future. Either should be fine for you. Don't dwell on this girl or why the date was botched, but analyze what you could've done to close the deal, so it's less likely to happen in the future--with her, or with anyone else. Look at this clip of Diaz vs McGreggor, as a metaphore. Diaz has his arm almost in place for a rear-naked choke, he punched McGreggor to knock his head into the pit of his elbow, allowing Diaz to sin…
/r/askTRP22/09/16 02:15 AM
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Florida. If there was heroine in this video, it'd be the perfect representation.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 03:36 AM
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I love the South--Georgia too, but only Savannah. Savannah is like the still-good sliver of a rotten peach. I've been mugged three times in my life--each time was in Georgia. A friend of mine has a crazy story about how he got mugged/burgled in a motel room in ATL. My theory on ATL being so shitty is that it's adjacent to two large military bases, since all military towns are cesspools, like Fayetteville and shiver Gastonia in NC. Fuck 95% of Georgia. Florida is the only other contender for wors…
/r/askTRP20/09/16 03:21 AM
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Read No More Mr. Nice Guy. He has a section on healthy masturbation that really helped me.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 03:05 AM
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It can't be more obvious: either cultivate her intentions of being a virgin until marriage, or don't. There's been times where I've told people on here that the virgin they just banged isn't a unicorn, you're just the first stop on the CC. If she's actually a virgin and she intends to stay that way until marriage, don't wreck that. You can't turn a hoe into a house wife, but you absolutely can turn a housewife into a hoe--in bird culture, this is considered a dick move.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 03:01 AM
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Money is freeing. Absolutely get a job--maybe it'll build some character too. When you get your own money, invest in shit you can invite others to... And/or buy weed. You can get a basketball and invite people to a game, concert tickets, shit like that. Say casually to acquaintances, hey, Im trying to get a game of basketball going, care to join? The first thing they reply is always, ”who else is going?" To the first person you invite, so far, just me and you, if you're down. I'm about to invite…
/r/askTRP18/09/16 04:00 PM
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I'd bet a good bit you're insecure and you use porn when alone. I had the same issue, but cured it by utilizing, "healthy masturbation" - a term used in No More Mr Nice Guy Basically, you do NoPorn and while shaking hands with the president, you don't zone out and think about sex--you stay in the moment and focus on the pleasure you're receiving at that time, and to absolutely not spank the monkey as part of a routine. Basically, you spank it when you feel the need, indipendint of any external s…
/r/askTRP18/09/16 03:42 PM
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That may be complacency talking. Read up on passive dread. So what I want to know is how to make a girl feel "loved"? Small, spread apart, tokens of affection. The Rational Male has a relavent article, but the title escapes me. Do not overwhelm her, though. Use a 2/3 rule for gifts/favors. Also, comfort tests: she might not care about nesting/reproducing yet, but ensure that you've established a comfortable environment for her to nest.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 03:28 PM
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As you said, theres no easy way to do that. Restructuring the frame of a relationship is a noisy, painful process. Theres two sides to this coin. Male approach: tell her what you told us, with kid gloves, and end it with, "this is what I want for myself. If that's not something you're looking for, I'm not the guy for you." And hold frame. Female way: talk to her less and cheat. Drop hints that you want some strange.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 07:12 PM
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Solipsism and a woman's massive ego put off that kind of existential realisation. As in, it doesn't matter until its relavent: post-wall, and increasingly more-so as she nears not being able to have children at all. Rollo writes extensively on female solipsism. I highly recommend looking it up on The Rational Male blog.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 06:54 PM
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She's brought up marriage before, and got excited when we went to a jewelry store. That's not real yet. That's the fun girly stuff. If you follow through, she'll become "still young" and start messaging high school crushes on facebook. And if those guys capatilize on it like I did, she'll fuck them, lie like a champ and dump you. Been there on both sides. I do think she is very monogamous, but has difficulty being alone. Yeah, I'll concede to that. It doesn't mean she won't bail when shit gets s…
/r/askTRP17/09/16 05:44 PM
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The RSD guys are talented PUAs, but just to add, not RP.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 05:29 PM
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Before being in a relationship with me, she went on some dates with other guys that are very successful, working in well known tech companies, but she stated something about their personalities was off-putting. She wants something more casual/easy. Those dudes have, "responsibility" or "be a woman" written on them. She's pre-wall. I wouldn't call it a red flag, but its not a good thing for an LTR. I'd bet $5 shed cheat on you if you proposed. Everything else seems okay.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 05:21 PM
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When I sitdown to Netflix and chill with a chick I haven't escalated much yet, and it might be mid-day and I've only known her for an hour or two, I make it feel like she's weird for not sitting directly next to me, if she put any distance between us. Then, I put my hand on her knee and look at her like, "enjoy the movie, comrade!" And leave it there. Then, I slowly move my hand to her inner thigh and over the span of 5-10 mins, go higher and higher, until she's horny(warmer, legs relax open, de…
/r/askTRP17/09/16 04:54 PM
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That's not a hard no, its information she presented for you to wrestle with; a shit test: cool, anyways Deflection me too A&A oh cool, when's the wedding? Pressure flip
/r/askTRP17/09/16 03:06 PM
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Replace women every 3rd time you bang one, or cycle them over long periods of time. In my experience, if I bang a chick a lot in a short period of time, shes not as tight by that 3rd time and I can no longer perform easily with a condom on. What also helps: Don't bang fatties Bang in a comfortable setting If she's mental and the frame of yalls relationship is fucked, it will give you performance issues. Don't bang bitches while under distress.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 02:28 PM
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The reason why you don't shit where you eat is because you can't next a coworker. Imagine, not only having to see and interact with somebody that you tried to fuck every day, but also a possibly unstable girl with a grudge against you being able to fuck with you every single day AND have the power to make you lose your job. And from the sound of it, you have romantic, not just physical interests in this woman--this WILL blow up in your face. That being said, I'll hand you the rope you want to ha…
/r/askTRP17/09/16 02:16 PM
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I wouldn't hold your breath, but the ideal way to befriend a dude is to invite them to something that a. Is going to happen no matter what, and b. Is something that will add value to their life. hey Dr. Thundercock, some bros and I are going to do farmer walks through the woods, making observations of various ecosystems within, while getting our pump on. Care to join us?
/r/askTRP17/09/16 01:17 PM
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The simple RP doctrine/solution to being your boss's bitch at work is to be your own boss. No matter how difficult that is to accomplish, that truth will not change. This thread is valuable insight into owning your own business, but detracts from a TRP law. I think you could've formulated your post in a way that doesn't further dilute TRP. every customer is now your boss Assuming you don't put all your eggs in one basket, you can next customers. You can't next your boss.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 12:54 PM
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Calorie dense food you won't get sick of, and preferably 100-150g of protein/day. Milk is a common aide for bulking. Before people had a good grasp on controling your calorie intake, it was common for people looking to add mass to do GOMAD, a "gallon of milk a day" -- which you shouldn't do unless you have a real problem trying to eat enough, and even then, measure it.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 03:19 AM
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Or a soft harem. And a dog for love.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:41 AM
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I wouldn't waste time/money. Normal T-levels are from 300-1000 units--the test will just tell you that you're around 400, and a doctor won't give you shit for that. The range goes up to 1000 because niggas in the congo that are fucking and fighting for their lives every day are also a part of that statistic. You're normal for a western male living a relatively safe life. I want to feel animalistic towards women even after having sex, not have to wait for some stupid cool-off period! Fake it til …
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:37 AM
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Use "sedentary" unless you do hill sprints. Internet calorie calculators are for loosely estimating how many calories you burn. You won't know exactly how many calories you need to gain/maintain your weight until you've been closely tracking it for AT LEAST a month.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:32 AM
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Omg you agreed love is a supplement for sex but then implied that men actually do want love Not mutually exclusive ideas. What we've evolved to do, versus what we want. sucking She jams it in until she gags a bit, and if she doesn't, you grab her by the hair and do it for her: enthusiasm for what you want. riding That takes low body fat, not skill. Seduction "fuck me" I'm seduced. Submission Enthusiasm. Dirty talk Pass.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:20 AM
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feels like a chore God, yes. I mean, it depends how much work I'm putting in, or how much work it looks like I'd have to put in, but for the most part, there's good times and bad times--peaks and valleys. Do you have sex with a girl, then just feel really unmotivated to go back out and game for the next couple of weeks? TBH, getting a new chick makes me want more new chicks: pussy is usually tighter, she smells differently, I haven't lied to the next one yet, god yes. then just feel really unmot…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:10 AM
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MMF That's a train. That is low value behavior. FFM - does the gf lose value or not????? Gains, IMO.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:03 AM
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she should have pornstar level sex ability, right? What does this even mean? Women don't fuck, they get fucked. The only thing that seperates good from bad is appearance and enthusiasm, and tightness, i guess, but that wears out the third time you fuck her anyways. Is love just a supplement for sex? Kinda, yeah. It all comes down to who supports who, and who's the baby going to be supported by. There's porn addiction but not love addiction or if there is, it's not as potent. This is a profoundly…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:00 AM
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"It's your body. Do what makes you happy. I'm not paying for it."
/r/askTRP15/09/16 12:21 AM
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Go through the threads I made and find the one titled, "LMR is not a shit test." I can't link to a sub or my comment will get deleted.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 12:08 AM
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Blue states, probably. I've heard good things about black dudes using direct game in bars, "Ever been with a black man before?", "have you heard of the BBC?" If you want black chicks, I don't know that dynamic at all. I'm a white guy, and when I pull black chicks, I say waaay less than I do to white chicks.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 11:58 PM
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I'm saying it feeds her monsterous ego and dude's that deal with equally attractive women all the time don't compliment her as often as dude's that don't, and that feedback helps her decide whether or not she wants to fuck you. This is an extremely basic/cliche shit test, along the same lines of, "Does this make me look fat?"
/r/askTRP14/09/16 11:47 PM
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Bruh, if you're tired of fucking her, you don't have to soften that news for us. Just ghost her, or tell her to come to you because you're tired of driving down there.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 11:45 PM
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I think she knows that she is pretty. If she didnt have pretty face, I would not have bothered with her. Fishing for compliments, and filtering out similar SMV'd dudes that'll take that bait. Every woman has a preferred method of receiving validation. This is this girl's go-to masturbation.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 11:30 PM
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Grab her by the hair and jam her head on your dick over and over until she starts going, "GURKA GURKA GURKA"
/r/askTRP14/09/16 05:22 AM
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I was just wondering what you'd say to a guy with a big fear of cheating? I mean, if you live with the girl, it should be a real fear. Ideally, she should be more concerned of your options I'm kind of scared every time my girlfriend leaves the house. Does this mean I don't trust her? It means you don't have a back up plan. Get it in your head that if she gives you an excuse(like her cheating), you're going to have a lot of sex with lots of strange women. You can't lose, but you are losing a bit …
/r/askTRP14/09/16 05:17 AM
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Does it get better over time? yes According to RP doctrine, what is the best way to deal with seeing your ex in public? fuck 10 women
/r/askTRP14/09/16 05:11 AM
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You could be fucking several younger, more attractive girls regularly that don't act like that. Internalizing that idea and taking steps towards making it a reality is the ONLY way she'd stop shitting on your life.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 05:03 AM
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That's the basic idea of Amused Mastery--control the frame(reality) of the situation, and absolutely don't take her seriously. This is generally a good go-to for bullshit, but awful for comfort tests. For instance, if ya'll lived together and she wants you to move the couch in the apartment ya'll share, it's probably a good idea to go ahead and move the couch, because treating that like she's not entitled to nesting in ya'lls nest, makes her feel insecure about ya'lls arrangement.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:47 AM
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Blessed be his name.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:40 AM
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Ok, here's some examples: "We're going to this restaurant at 6." I can't go there. I'm BLAH BLAH BLAH FILLER BLAH BLAH. Really, I deserve to be taken to (more expensive hipster restaurant) "Lol, whatever princess" My couch should really be over there against that wall "k" Could you help me move it, PLEASE(attitude) "Not with that tone." (notices she's being a bitch)Pretty please "That's better: ofcourse not, I don't live here." But you're my BOYFRIEND you're SUPPOSED to do stuff like that for me…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:37 AM
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Lol, no, we're not a cult. We're more of a spiritual gathering of dedicated individuals that come together to praise our leader Rollo Tomassi. Have you heard of the word of The Rational Male?
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:23 AM
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if you want our help, you're going about it in a horrible manner. We're not the people you talk to about suicide. Those people can be reached at: 1-800-273-8255
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:19 AM
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What do I have to start doing to make her realize shes not above me? be nice to her when I can These two things are not mutually exclusive, it just varies by where you draw the line, and how much attention you give her. Is it as simple as just letting loose on her, start arguing with her at every turn, calling her out when she disrespects me, and just going full asshole? No, god no. Never argue with a woman. That lowers you to her level. Whenever I open a thread and see nothing but arguing and n…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:14 AM
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We got into an argument If you go down to her level, you lose. You can't out-bitch a bitch. and I dropped my plates so I could be exclusive with her. lol. I am stuck between doing what I want, which would be to talk to her and ask what's going on You should be dictating what's going on. You need to get the ability to walk away from the table, because she's sure as fuck got it. Your girlfriend should be terrified if you get a pass to pull some ass. And you should be ecstatic that you're not being…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 09:31 PM
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1,500 km of distance... I don't know what part of euro-land you're from, but I'd be willing to bet there's millions of vaginas closer to you than that one. I don't think about her at all. I would keep that plant in the ground and let it keep growing. Let it grow into a beautiful tree of no fucks.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 09:09 PM
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I'm swinging for the fences here, but I get the impression that she's getting validation from you answering your texts. I'd soft next and only message her pure logistics when a different girl cancels--on your terms, not hers, at all. I'd demote her to Replacement ONS(the last number you resort to). If she sends anything, ignore it. When every other woman has flaked on you, text her, "wanna chill". If she sends anything other than, "yes," ghost her again. If she says yes, "come over"
/r/askTRP12/09/16 09:00 PM
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give him my writings and learning as a way of letting him know that I'm improving as a human being He doesn't want to see that. His interest stops at evidence your performance is improving. How old is he? Is he unplugged at all? Hey boss, as you know, I went through my first gnarly breakup recently, which is the soul contributor to my drop in performance. I'm currently being coached by friends and family that have all been through this. My next step is to dilute the waters and not only internali…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 05:03 PM
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I stumbled across ROK while reading a bunch of sub/dom shit. ROK opened up the manosphere for me.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 05:35 AM
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Selfies are for chicks and kids. We have sex but she doesn't see me as her #1 choice. 100% average hoe, adequate plate material.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 05:25 AM
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About 8 hours later I text her and ask if she's still free Thursday. Who's chasing who? Try to internalize a prize mentality. She says she'll check, asks what I wanted to do and I told her (dinner again). Don't beat around the bush. Either invite her to something not about ya'll/her, like something interesting that you were going to go to anyways, or be direct and invite her over to your place--in situations like this, that is. Dinner dates are bad for many reasons, among them, undue pressure on…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 05:09 AM
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90% of the time, if I can tell a woman is wearing makeup, I find it disgusting or stupid/immature. Imo, makeup is in the same category as shoes, purses and lingerie--it's all shit for her to compete with other women, or feed her massive ego, and has little to do with attracting a mate.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 04:48 AM
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While cultivating mass, its advisable to flex and shout, "BEAR MODE!" Regularly.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 07:59 PM
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Log story short, she started the night off well by texting me and sending snapchats and what not. As the night wore on the conversation was relegated to 3 word texts only every hour or so with the final one being "Heading Home". Now, being the sweet and respectful LTR she is, she usually calls me before she goes to bed. Unnecessary phone games. You're up her ass. No call. No text. No fuck you. Nada. Who's the prize? Who should be worried about infidelity? How does this statement reflect that you…
/r/askTRP11/09/16 07:19 PM
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Making her gather that you could replace her, not telling her you can replace her. Passive dread: demonstrating that you're a high SMV man with plenty of options.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 07:15 PM
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"This is my apartment, my bed, and my bitch," as you grab her vagina/ass. Bruh, if her names on the lease, it doesn't matter who paid for shit. Also, you inadvertently made her uncertain about her nest. That's a failed comfort test--a large red flag for her.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 07:07 PM
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Read the solipsism articles on The Rational Male blog.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 07:00 PM
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Hard next, man. She got sloshed and fucked some guy. LDRs aren't real, and you gotta learn to not be so needy.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 06:59 PM
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Hard next.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 06:36 PM
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TL;DR: you're stalling because you're not gaining weight, it's not time for a new routine yet. Look into chalk or straps for your grip. I'm assuming you're bending your wrist when you bench--you gotta keep your knuckles pointing to the cieling throughout the entire rep. If you cant, lower the weight. The next step after linear, daily progression routines is a weekly routine, which you don't need yet. You are, however, at the point of advancement where your gains will hit a wall, if you're not ga…
/r/askTRP11/09/16 06:27 PM
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I'd soft next. Let her be alone for a few more days, and either not respond or respond rarely to her texts. After a few days, send a low effort text, "wanna chill" Yes: "come over" no: next. Don't chat with her. Conditional: repeat soft next
/r/askTRP11/09/16 05:52 PM
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It seemed like she pulled back a little towards the end, and I know the mantra with trp is to not give more attention/interest than she has shown you. Yeah, you get it. This: Then she says she had a good time, but she had a rough breakup with her last relationship and she wants to get to know me as a person. Is a soft next. Women are passive aggressive as hell, and this is her way of telling you she doesn't want to fuck you. I wouldn't reach out to her again, and if she reaches out to you, I'd o…
/r/askTRP11/09/16 05:44 PM
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New chick came back to my place for some pizza. She had one slice, and I was all, "you can have more," but she was doing that girls-dont-eat bit. I put on a movie, we bang for like an hour, and I tell her I have shit to do, so she's gotta bolt. She gets dressed, and as she's headed for the door, she scoops up my pizza box and picks up her pace. I snatched it out of her hands and looked at her like she was crazy, she played it off like she was being cute, but she was seriously about to walk out w…
/r/askTRP11/09/16 01:29 PM
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Not the same, per se. I think homosexuality is natural, but flamboyant displays of perversion, which is a broad sweeping generalization of everything from androgynous/butch women to gay pride parades is a product of mental illness.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 01:04 PM
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I tell her I live a couple blocks away and say, "I was just about to go watch (movie i rented/stole). Wanna watch it with me?" or "My pizza was delivered RIGHT before I came out and met you. Wanna have some?" or "If you want to see (thing I mentioned that she expressed interest in), you're welcome to come see it." A bitch tried to leave with my pizza once though. Careful.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 10:17 PM
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Where do I find them? Uh... shitty jobs, the beach and the gym. Look for obnoxious bros that don't look like they have a lot of responsibilities, or at least the money to not have to worry about it. Make sure you have something that adds value to their lives, and then invite them to cool shit, so they invite you to their cool shit. I'm about to get sloshed at a bikini party, and I just turned 30.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 09:45 PM
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Potentially, yes. or just incompetence. Man love =/= woman love. If you stop playing the game in favor of romanticism, then the woman will take the reigns and drive ya'll off the cliff. Everything in moderation.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 09:35 PM
1

Yeah, it'd be fun to write, but "bitch behavior" isn't sexy enough to garner a lot of points.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 09:27 PM
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I wouldn't of acknowledged her comment about dancing, leaving the idea ambiguous. And if she brought it up again, I'd have said something along the lines of, "I don't dance for free." Or "You'll have to liquor me up to make me willing to dance."
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:14 PM
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A. Don't shit where you eat. B. She didn't tell you because she was open to something. She bailed when shit got real. There's two ways of look in at this: you came onto a girl with a boyfriend and she bailed because of the awkwardness; a girl was exploring other options and bailed when shit got too real. Both are true.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:10 PM
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It's something to be managed. Have emotions, don't live your life by their whims.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:06 PM
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Pull 5 numbers. Follow a guide on the main sub based around that idea.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:05 PM
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Well, you already agreed to it, so lie. "yeah, dancing, we can do that--I just want to stop by this place first because my group of friends said they'd be here" "nah, I love to dance, but now I'm hungry let's go get something to eat first." oh damn, it's so late. I'd love to go dancing, but I don't want to be up too late. Care to see that thing I told you about at my place?" That last one could be more graceful, but you get the idea. NEXT TIME DON'T SAY YES TO DANCING
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:02 PM
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Would you say attraction was linear to size or does it taper off I could pick apart and restructure that question for my answer to make sense, but it would be a very, very long post. In short, no. Pick up is made easier by having an athletic frame and a low bf%. Beyond that, you're a spectacle that attracts homosexuals and the mentally unstable. But really, that's the wrong way to think about it. Women attract men. Men take advantage of attractive women, not the other way around. There's a reaso…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 06:37 PM
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I just turned 30. I invite hoes to the park near my house and then give them a good reason to come back to my place, netflix and chill. I also invited three prospects to a party I'm going to later tonight. I'll let you know how it goes.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 05:32 PM
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I'm just curious.. how come you're picking up average chicks? There's like five 9/10s within 50 miles of me. Maybe 50 eights, 500 sevens, etc. I like getting strange regularly, and sometimes that means fucking a four at 3am with 16 beers in me. Just for fun or for the challenge because your SMV is relatively high for your area? It was. I'm high-average now though. Does it make approaching easier or harder? Like 80% of chicks I'd approach would just hand me their number. That 20% would either thi…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 05:05 PM
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It has way more to do with her father, and how quickly he'd disown her for fucking a minority, basically the same thing as Chris Rock's bit about his one job as a father is keeping his daughter off the pole. I love natural blondes, but they frequently have strong relationships with their fathers, and I even have a tough time getting in there because they're just RP women looking for one christian dude that can not only take care of her, but give her more than her father did.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:52 PM
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She sounds bipolar.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:28 PM
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Women are horribly intimidated by guys significantly more attractive than they are, which made picking up average chicks in my small area fucking awful. This is just what I experienced while walking around in a skin tight shirt at a high level of fitness: women looking at me like I'm crazy when I'd pull their numbers(and not even shit testing me or shooting for commitment, just waiting for me to get bored with them and move on), women touching me inappropriately, cat calls from high school girls…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:26 PM
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Somebody makes a trans troll thread on here every week. They bait you into mainstream bullshit every time with canned bullshit. Trannies: TRP will not recognize somebody uncomfortable in their own skin as having a sound mind. Well, maybe someday, but over my dead reddit account.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:57 PM
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It's the answer.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:43 PM
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Transsexuals are mentally ill.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:36 PM
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The ambiguity is gone if she can predict what you're doing when you see/respond to her texts. Maintain a "logistics only" approach to texting, or risk losing frame/alure. The 2/3 rule applies to a lot more to just texting. It's used as a guideline to keep the effort in relationships skewed in your favor. Upsetting the balance can result in a lot of negatives, like her misbehaving more often or even less blow jobs.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:31 PM
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This, and a dancing date is a great way to get in some kino/break down touch/intimacy barriers.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:18 PM
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I went through the same thing, multiple times to varying degrees. The worst one was with a girl I lived with, which was similar to your situation. Everybody sees this from time to time, especially relatives of the girl. This is how her friends and family see all of her exes, and you won't be the worst one, because she'll eventually push a dude with less character into hitting her, if she hasn't already. The police will be called, he'll be arrested, and everybody that's ever known her will know a…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:15 PM
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It's amused mastery. It's used to deflect shit tests and grabs at frame. "Did it sound like I was inviting you?" This is a shit test. There are many ways to handle a shit test. ((_)::::D would be considered "deflection", as she would feel silly for expecting something dramatic, only to recieve OP's ASCII cock.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 04:39 AM
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Most problems brought here can only be solved pre-emptively. I don't meet a girl unless there's a way for us to get near a bed in a timely fashion. Plan your dates/meet-ups backwords. I need to get her to my place, so I need a few good reasons for her to come over. We'de need to be near my bed by 10, so we need to be out of the bar by 9-9:30. I want to build kino, so we should start someplace near the bar and transition with a walk. I want there to be a high chance she'll show up, so I'll tell h…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 04:33 AM
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He treats her sass like she's a brat that has no impact on his emotions. Perfect response: ((_):::::D
/r/askTRP09/09/16 04:22 AM
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Say nothing at all. If she wants to play games, she can play with herself.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 04:20 AM
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The conventional wisdom is that more sleep=more gains. I hear most professional athletes sleep 10-12 hours. Your body recovers while you sleep. Less recovery=less gains.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 04:16 AM
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You're not wrong, but also, she's let down by the meet up. From the horse's mouth: So I had a good time with you last night but I don't see this going anywhere romantically. You are really a nice and interesting guy I just didn't feel any chemistry between us. So why did her pussy dry up? Seeing you in person brought her back to reality: enjoying your time over the phone is free, enjoying your time in person means she'll eventually have to put out. Pressure. You didn't fuck that night. More pres…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 04:08 AM
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Also watch tons of instructional videos on youtube. If your trainer's advice doesn't line up perfectly with Rip's, get a new trainer. Learn to use barbells, OP.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:57 AM
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For your wife, probably not. For anyone else, that's gay.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:55 AM
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That's amusing. I won't say you were in the wrong for nexting her, but I absolutely do not loan anything that I also wouldn't give away for free. She's right, bullshit over $20 is petty, but you also shouldn't have put yourself in that position, imo. Any direction you choose to go in, think of this as a lesson, I'd forget about the $20--you got plaid, "fool me once..."
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:53 AM
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As in, low pressure, direct game works on women that just kinda want low effort rough sex from a guy like me, with little-to-no social contract(no strings). That's some women, some of the time, which is why you'd have to cast a wide net and hope to catch the right ones at the right time, which you will absolutely run into. The key is to not transmit any sexual expectations which puts pressure on her. A simple, "wanna chill" is ambiguous enough to make her hamster say, "I'm just going to chill." …
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:37 AM
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more than two years He was pretty retarded with hiding it Is your mom stupid? No? Then your mom knows, and chooses to not make it a thing, probably for you, or your parents have an agreement that ya'll are OBVIOUSLY left out of for good reason. Putting it out in the open will only make it harder on your mother. Blowing up your dad's spot will do the opposite of helping anyone at all. And even if she's just in denial, she will continue to deny it even with lots of evidence--it'll just stress her …
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:27 AM
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No, I haven't read any of his travel series. I can only vouch for his ability as a writer in BANG and DAY BANG.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:20 AM
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long distance 70% of the time. What girlfriend? Nothing about your post says this is an RP relationship. You've got as many, if not more red flags than her.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:16 AM
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Think of this as an opportunity to unleash the beast. You're about to get a shit ton of strange via spinning plates and ONSs. Bruh, you're single! Congratulations!
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:06 AM
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Oh god, Roosh V has a huge series on different countries called BANG (COUNTRY) right up your alley, like BANG UKRAINE, etc.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:03 AM
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"You ruined our relationship. You need to get out of this house." The frame, not necessarily the words. Treat her with contempt/disgust. It would've likely helped if you didn't try to look through her phone/argue with her, as that gives her the ground to build bullshit on. You have to behave as if you've seen 100% enough. She's absolutely guilty of something unforgivable. Getting a woman, a subordinate, to admit guilt and feel shame is insanely difficult. She has to feel caught.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:58 AM
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Take that as a lesson. Hopefully you can pressure her into moving in with somebody she's not cheating on. You probably want to find more evidence, to find something that will make the upcoming hard decisions easier. You won't find them, and anything suspicious you do find will just create more questions, which she will passionately lie her way out of. Go with your gut, think like a business owner that just caught a worker stealing: bitch gotta go. I've been on both sides of this fence. A long ti…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:51 AM
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Bitch gotta go, asap. Is she on the lease?
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:25 AM
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I suppose I see this on three levels: A friend: such is life, next. A good friend: I'll love them, and wish them the best until they chill out. However long that takes is fine. The woman I got a place with: her cunt doppelganger and I killed her, god rest her amazing soul. I hope the cunt doppelganger has a nice life faaar away from me.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:20 AM
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If you want a military related career, enlisting in the military may be a good step in that direction. I'm American, so I don't know the difference between our militaries, but I tell everybody that every boy should serve at least once. I built a large amount of my character during my time in the service.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 04:20 AM
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Back them up on several different hard drives/sd cards/thumb drives, and try to move on--nowhere near her.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 04:15 AM
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Cohabitation is a bitch. The cornerstone of TRP is how you allow people to be apart of your life. Don't like them? Next. Since you can't next your little brother, and he doesn't want to help you, ask for help less, and neglect him--let him feel your distance, and frequently, people will react by being more agreeable. That's a soft-next/dread, which is the distant cousin of nexting. TRP preaches self-sufficiency. Don't get mad, take care of yourself, and control who's allowed to have an impact on…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 04:09 AM
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But if she doesnt come to her senses You're putting your well being in her hands, after you let her put you in this spot in the first place. Take the initiative--or she'll drive you further into the ground. Get the book, No More Mr. Nice Guy. You need it, desperately. If you don't put yourself first, nobody will. Women can't say that--you're living proof.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 04:00 AM
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I'd suggest taking a day to be by yourself and thinking long and hard what you want for YOU, since clearly nobody is taking that into consideration. I STRONGLY suggest you read No More Mr. Nice Guy, preferably starting right now--you can download it from Amazon, it may even be an audiobook too--I haven't checked. Good luck, man. Come back to us if you want any other bro opinions. We have your back, but only you can save yourself.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 03:37 AM
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is she really trying to better OUR sex life? Women don't work like that. She's trying to better HER sex life. She's projecting, at very much your expense. Here at TRP, we don't take suggestions like that lightly. The woman is broken, a bad apple. There's a lot of bad apples, as our society, like the article your wife pointed out, encourages this behavior, which wouldn't happen to a stronger patriarch. I'm sorry to say this, but the damage has already been done. You'll hopefully be seperated in 6…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 03:22 AM
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It varies. Time and place.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 10:22 PM
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Talk to her less and less, and fuck other women. Fade away
/r/askTRP07/09/16 09:29 PM
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Nah, you're fine. What sort of dates work in the college scene? something cheap/free near your place(park, bar). strategize a date backwords, as if it went fucking perfectly: you spent minimum money, ya'll touched alot--lots of kino, you kiss her, and ended up near a bed where ya'll can do whatever the fuck two consenting adults want to do. Give her excuses, "I'm going to meet this strange guy, but it's fine because it's a public place", "Oh, I'm going to his place, but it's fine because he's go…
/r/askTRP07/09/16 09:18 PM
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I'd dedicate a portion of your day to picking up chicks. Think: get five numbers, call them when you get their number, so they have your number, and later that night, "wanna chill", and then netflix and chill, and for the ones that say no or try to start conversations, let them cook for a couple days and try them again.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 09:05 PM
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i cant
/r/askTRP07/09/16 09:00 PM
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"Hey (girl), this is (you) from (place). (inside joke or relavent question)" hey, omg relavent topic blah blah wrap this bs convo up in 1-2 texts. good to hear it worked out. I'm going to Silante's friday, wanna chill? She'll either say maybe, which is cool, or she'll say "no, but" which then ask, "when you free to hang out?" or equivalent to her response, or she'll give a hard no, which you don't even respond to, and maybe try her number again in a week. Don't encourage bullshit conversations.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 08:39 PM
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Go and whip your dick out at some point: that's a metaphor, but also, maybe whip your dick out? See what happens. If they're offended, then, worst case scenario, they send you packing. If somebody is kinda into it, ????, Profit. The idea is to only present yourself as a sexual being, a male. Make them have no choice but to consider you somebody dtf, and out of a friend zone.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 08:19 PM
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Those are books by Roosh V. They're probably the most in detail sources on everything from the first word you say to her, to getting her clothes off.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 11:18 PM
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I am an introvert and I was bullied You're just anti-social. Don't use shit like that as a crutch. Here's an easy way for you to make friends: you know those acquaintances you see around and have good report with? Invite them to a group activity that's going to happen whether they show up or not. And keep doing that. Give people a reason to hang out with you. 90% of them will be meh, but there'll be a few that can be great friends.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 11:06 PM
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Maybe I'm overthinking this, but wont cold approaching be sorta opposite to whole ignore thing. Women instinctually make power plays. This is one of them: men have to approach. Read BANG and DAY BANG, or just dig through the main sub on cold approaching. Like your probably going to give her a compliment and what not Generally, that's not advised. Just strike up a relavent, plutonic conversation and then escalate how personal the topic is every time she asks a question about you, until you can te…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 10:55 PM
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If it really bothered me, I'd of not initiated anything for a week, and if she asked to hang out, I'd tell her I'm busy that day having somebody give me an estimate on my truck's scratches. If it wasn't that big of a deal, which it wasn't, then I wouldn't have done a damn thing about it.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 08:01 PM
2

About one out of five people in the United States has genital herpes. That's more than 50 million people in the United States who have genital herpes. 85% of people with genital herpes don't know they have it. That's 42 million Americans who are unaware they have genital herpes. 1
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:59 AM
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"Does anyone here think that women actually care about men in any meaningful capacity." Kk, IMO, the way a child cares about their father, or the way a sailor cares about their captain. They care, but differently than we do. They aren't inherintly more selfish per se, but hard-wired to function as a subordinate. A great captain can be idolized and remembered forever, a mediocre captain that falls short at critical times can be hung from the mast with cheers.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:52 AM
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How is neglecting her and playing mind games not bitch behavior? Dread/neglect is used to simulate and also build steps towards replacing a bitch, which is constructive towards finding a hoe that doesn't scratch your truck, or possibly making her "oh shit" into respecting your property. You demonstrated how arguing with a bitch isn't constructive. Controlling who's allowed to be around you is the corner stone of TRP, and the most constructive and respectful(to yourself and anyone else involved) …
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:40 AM
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Yeah, if it can be construed as whining. If you want to do something about it, neglect her/use dread. Think about it like a manager would: does she need constructive training? was it an unavoidable accident? should I replace a bitch?
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:21 AM
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all dating advice aimed toward men could really be negated if women just gave a shit about men and their feelings. It's not all, but yeah, there's a lot. Well adjusted women just happen to be attracted to successful men that'd make good patriarchs. Patriarchs, at the top of the ladder, do not bitch and moan to their subordinates--a whiny patriarch is not a patriarch--it's just another bitch, or a boy. All I wanted was for her to be sorry, and empathize with me being upset. Bitch behavior. Act of…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:09 AM
1

EUH MY GOD, YOU WERE A SINGER? SING SOMETHING Sure! or alternatively
/r/askTRP06/09/16 02:38 AM
1

stronglifts 5x5 and starting strength are the great go-to linear progression programs. They're the most effecient programs for beginners and novices. If you love weightlifting, I highly recommend buying the Starting Strength book, and buying Mark Rippetoe's Practical Programming to thoroughly understand what goes into making programs, since there aren't many good(i know of one) intermediate programs.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 09:33 PM
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It's possible, but it takes programs like Lean Gains/intermittent fasting to achieve, which like I said, is above my pay grade--and still not garaunteed. I've been on programs like that and it's not for me. Gaining muscle while maintaining weight is a recent fad. the 50+ years of bodybuilding conventional wisdom that came before it demands bulk/cut cycles. Scoob panders to folks that have no intention of breaking the barrier between novice and intermediate weightlifter. And like I said, novices/…
/r/askTRP04/09/16 09:15 PM
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Anyone above a novice level of strength needs to gain weight to put on muscle, which is why most bodybuilders cut/bulk in cycles. That's an over simplification, but getting into those details is above my pay grade. I don't think shaking hands with the president is worth tracking for maximizing test levels.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 07:29 PM
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Seems fine. Last message was a little weak though. Have something cool to invite her to.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 07:13 PM
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That's just confidence, frame and experience. I'd consider myself a brown belt in talking shit from my time in the Army. I always tell people: if you run out of ideas when talking shit, or it gets too intense for you, turn it rediculously gay. I could beat the shit out of you really easily "With your dick, I get it." that's right, I'd bend you over and make you my bitch "I know your type. You'd just break my heart." a horrifying conversation I had with a dude that could definetly kick the shit o…
/r/askTRP04/09/16 07:09 PM
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So can anyone explain why these girls talked with us and gave their actual number with no quarrels, but when it came to messaging them the day after; they are completely not interested or non responsive. Women think differently than men. And well adjusted women always make similar SMV men make the first move--its an instinctual power play, and with that advantage, they have the option of ghosting you, which inflates their ego, "lol Omg these guys won't leave me alone, and I'm not even, like, Par…
/r/askTRP04/09/16 06:46 PM
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Supps are mostly garbage. There's some that have long term health benefits that everybody should take, like a multi, fish oil, B12 and vitamin D, but they're not essential to your performance in weightlifting. Whey is more a food than a supp. Creatine is for competitive performance. If you don't compete, there's no real benefit to taking it, and it causes most people to bloat. For pre-workouts, assuming you're taking your vitamins already, the only legal option that does anything is caffiene, wh…
/r/askTRP04/09/16 06:05 AM
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They should both be available in physical form. BANG is older than Kindle, and Rollo anticipated people to give his books as gifts.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 06:48 PM
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If you're not looking to impregnate a woman, monogomy is not advised on TRP. If you're lonely, get a dog. As for vetting potential mothers that'll last a couple decades, I'd say her effort to impress you with how much she's down to party is a fairly blatent red flag.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 06:38 PM
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To answer your question: neglect/dread. Search the topic on the main sub. I want to rip apart your post, point by point, but I don't have the time atm. You gotta step back. You're only spinning plates when there's multiple plates, and she's only a plate when you've already fucked her. I don't know what you've got going on, but I'd say the answer to your problem is more plates/ONSs.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 05:54 PM
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You're running into bitch shields. Picture a woman with a shotgun cocked at the hip, waiting to fire, "I have a boyfriend!" I'll spare you the details as to why they do this, but you need to cold approach plutonically and escalate only when they've started asking questions about you. Wait for them to lower the shotgun before you express interest in pulling them. If you want to read more, buy DAY BANG by Roosh.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 05:41 PM
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My 3 favorite RP books, in order: BANG by Roosh, Roosh is a good writer, and he articulates the modus operandi of TRP extremely well in the first half of the book. Roosh is one of the few guys that have been able to monotize TRP, which makes him a controversial figure even here. The Rational Male, same thing as with BANG, but Rollo approaches TRP extremely analytically--Rollo really puts his education to use, which also shows on his blog of the same name. If the group of TRP on reddit had a godf…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 05:36 PM
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Oh, I think all of them had an idea. I've been in their shoes though, and no amount of evidence can beat out her manipulation--the cuck has to see them actually fucking to get out of denial. And some women go so far as to twist their husbands into letting them take dates home to the guest bedroom. I made a FR about it once--I think I called it, "the queenpin of dicks"
/r/askTRP03/09/16 04:25 PM
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You have no current emotional investment in any outcomes related to that game. This is pretty fucking off-topic, bro.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 03:31 PM
2

Do your social stuff, but have a plan too. Easy formula for turning acquaintances into friends: "Some friends and I are going to (fun activity that will occur with or without invited person), wanna come?" It can be a concert, a game of basketball, lunch, anything that'd be attractive to that individual. Invite chicks the same way. The bigger the group you're going with, the less pressure you'll put on the invited person. If it's the first person you're inviting, "hey, I'm getting a group togethe…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 03:27 PM
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TL;DR: DAY BANG by Roosh is great for learning small talk/pulling women from casual day time settings. BANG is okay for bullshitting. Since the author of NMMNG isn't affiliated with TRP, the lingo he uses doesn't match up totally with TRP lingo/ideas, but I also don't have to tell you it's still a very good RP book. I can't comment specifically on covert contracts in this context, but I can absolutely recommend DAY BANG. Keep reading NMMNG though--every page is valuable.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 03:11 PM
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Those "love triangle" murders happen to idiots. The dude either caught feelings and did the, "leave your asshole boyfriend for me" thing, or fucked her in their house and got caught in the act. I've never had an issue with chicks boyfriends/husbands, because the skank manipulates the cuck thuroughly, and/or is totally fine with it.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 02:50 PM
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Wouldn't it be unfaithful to try and be pursuing other options when I've committed to a LTR? Yes, which is why we advocate spinning plates for 80% of men. Being upfront and honest about being non-committal is fair, fun, and personally, has yet to be a deal breaker for me. While in an LTR though, cultivating options doesn't necessarily mean pursuing and executing alternatives. Don't let an altruistic idea enable your laziness/anxiety into getting you caught with your pants down(figuratively). If …
/r/askTRP03/09/16 01:48 PM
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Id advise you to delete your account and this thread, and not to talk to anyone about this except your parents and a lawyer.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 12:37 PM
5

How were you made aware of the filed accusation?
/r/askTRP03/09/16 03:46 AM
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I regretted it right as I came Story of my life up until 25. Fade away/ghost. Less frequent flirting, less frequent fucking, more work, progressively until they haven't fooled around in months, and hopefully she'll get distracted or focus on something other that your friend's dick without lighting the fuse to this shit-dynamite sandwich your friend has taken a big bite out of.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 03:07 AM
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Most women are "spoken for" in some way. It varies from orbiter/on-again-off-again boyfriend, to husband, and how much she tells you varies from fake wedding rings to removing a real wedding ring when she sends you a nude. If you want to give a shit and play the purity police in the lady with poor character's life, the bail, otherwise, continue as planned.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 03:02 AM
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"Hey, some friends and I are going to x on y. Wanna come?" It's a basic idea/template: attractive activity/bait, casual/outcome independent invitation. Give them a reason to associate with you; the better the activity/bait, the better your odds of them showing up. Ofcourse, it has to be the type of event that will happen whether or not they come--either way, give them a reason to want to chill with you.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 02:48 AM
4

Throw a party. Casually invite hoes to the party.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 02:39 AM
3

First and foremost, you're not in charge of your life. The patriarch that owns the roof over your head is in charge of your life. Become the patriarch that owns the roof and you won't have to listen to anybody. That's the RP answer. The reasonable answer is to negotiate, with either him or the girls. If you want help formulating a plan to fuck a girl in the middle of the day, you've come to the right place.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 02:34 AM
3

2 months later I'm in a relationship You weren't/aren't working hard enough to pursue other opportunities. Keep your eggs in many baskets, or however that saying goes. That's the key to giving her less space in your head: an abundance mentality, which is best brought about by abundance. it eats at me that other guys have fucked her she's not yours, it's just your turn. I'm somewhat introverted, over-analytical and like to do my own shit most of the time. You're anti-social. There's a cure for th…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 02:24 AM
1

If he was logical he would realize giving me my own space to grow as a man was imperative to me being successful in life. He treated me like an adult far too early, I never got to enjoy my teenage years. These statements seem contrary to one another. Mammal families break apart when the young become viable adults. It's 100% natural to butt heads with the patriarch of the family when you're above 13 years-old and still suckling the family teet. From your own words, your dad knows his shit. Follow…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 02:17 AM
1

She legit has had two boyfriends ya'lls entire relationship. You gotta hard re-wire your whole fucking set of priorities: she needs to be taken out of all of them. You know what advice you'd give somebody that's been fucked this hard? Follow that. Continuing contact with this woman will not benefit you in any way. Do not linger, at all.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 02:02 AM
2

How do i stop this. Confidence. At times it really gets me down and can ruin my day. It builds character. Don't just understand your shortcomings, appreciate them. You can do fine with what you got, and with what you're missing, it's just ground to build on, but make no mistake: TRP preaches getting to and being in the top 10% of men--this isn't some feelgood vagina group. You need to be a valuable man to have an easy life. But you can be outside the top 10% and not be insecure. It's okay to be …
/r/askTRP01/09/16 01:09 AM
3

I'm maybe a 5-6 I know you're probably thinking the guy is jacked and super good looking but that's what baffles me - hes like the same as me, maybe a bit better looking face, but tall and lanky like me, unemployed like me, gamer like me.... That's not a masculine train of thought. Women appreciate being objectified on their appearance--men aren't sexual objects to be used like women. Feel me? There's a user and a used--women are the used. Men are the users. Stop comparing yourself to other men,…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 03:29 AM
1

This is an inevitable situation. We have or will be in the same room with someone who is much more attractive than us. How do you react in that situation? Do you attempt to amog them? Ignore them? Hype them up? Either ball as you usually do, or take a loss. AMOGing is a display of low value. Ignore/hype: situational.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 02:43 AM
1

I've told him this place exists. Either way, his name isn't for me to give out.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 08:41 PM
1

hi, I'm amanda "Sup, Gator." gator? "Yeah" no, what's your real name "It's gator." no, really! yes, really. It wont get that far 90% of the time. Just low effort, solid frame--typical TRP assertion.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 08:36 PM
2

All his social media is under the pseudonym, and he goes by that at work too. I imagine he only hears his christian name at the DMV and the like.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 09:46 AM
2

I will, because I've put a lot of thought into this. I think there's a blog post on The Rational Male on this subject too, btw. The need for closure, in the context of relationships, is brought on by the hamster having trouble making sense of uncomfortable frame. For instance, having mountains of evidence that your girlfriend is cheating on you, but waiting to catch her in the act, or conversely, when a girl gets dumped for being a shitty human being, which can't be processed by the hamster, so …
/r/askTRP19/07/16 07:15 AM
1

You're in a weak, unnatural position--within her frame. I'd reflect on what you said in this reply while you continue reading no more Mr Nice guy. Most common causes of erectile disfunction: Condoms Situational anxiety Uncomfortable location self-consciousness Loose pussy Her weight/attractiveness
/r/askTRP19/07/16 07:07 AM
1

unless I maybe break into her phone/ Facebook. If you feel the need to be a petty bitch, you need to reorganize your priorities. This thought shouldn't even pop into your head, but since it did, it speaks volumes. She's more capable of baling on you than you are on her, which is not RP. Reapproach this relationship with an amorous abundance mentality. You are the prize. Captains don't get jealous of the first mate.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 06:41 AM
2

closure is for women FTFY
/r/askTRP19/07/16 06:37 AM
1

What do you want from her and women in general at this point in your life? You're coasting/letting her drive your sex life.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 06:35 AM
2

Sit-ups and push-ups are easy--almost everybody goes in doing ~10 max push-ups, and leave basic doing 50. That's just how the body works--basic strength levels can be achieved in a couple months, and you'll have plenty of practice, especially if you go in as a grunt. The best advice I can give you is to do barbell squats and deadlifts before you join. The army can get your cardio and push-ups where they need to be, but you need to have strong legs to be a good runner, and the army doesn't train …
/r/askTRP18/07/16 04:26 AM
3

I could go to her place and celebrate with her, but I see this as somewhat supplicative. That's exactly my sentiment after reading your post. She's a girl-in-charge, which you can exploit, but this is a mine field. I'd say go and enjoy yourself, but don't follow her around and don't have any expectations of her. In fact, have at least some plans that don't necessarily involve her at all. Have an amused mastery temperament.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 03:34 AM
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I don't get shit like this sent to me. TRP is 95% prevention, and the girls I've recently fucked know they'd look like tremendous dorks trying to make me jealous, as I give off a very strong, "just to fuck" vibe. That being said, I'd respond with something along the lines of, "cute" or nothing at all.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 02:25 AM
1

They have to convince themselves that it ain't shit, also nobody likes their pre-conceived notions of others fucked with. Convincing you that it ain't shit is convincing evidence for their hamster. You have to think about how your award effects them--because that's how womem work, they're their own center of their universe. You've been given certification of being higher value, and for women looking to branch swing, they have to make sense of that, by either knocking you back down or getting che…
/r/askTRP17/07/16 09:10 PM
1

Women are only objects in the context of how they fit in our lives--they're otherwise free agents. We haven't selectively bred them any more than they have selectively bred us. For every controlling asshole, there's a manipulative bitch.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 09:03 PM
2

Aye, I lost 98 lbs to join the Army 10 years ago(286->188). All thanks to counting calories for 10 months. It's kinda hard and annoying for the first two weeks, but it gets insanely easy after that.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 08:56 PM
1

Are you between 5'5 and 5'11? I ask because you didn't ask a non-rhetorical question.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 07:44 PM
2

There's only one way to lose weight reliably: count your calories (or saw a limb off, I guess, so there's two). If that doesn't work, you're counting too high: lower your calorie intake further. You can lose weight while eating nothing but KFC, if you count your calories--actually, there's a documentary about exactly that, only with McDonalds.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 07:40 PM
4

It's a little nicer, but doesn't make that much of a difference if she's still tight. I haven't bare backed in 3 years, and it's fine. Condoms suck, but not having kids with someone you barely know and keeping your STDs to yourself is a no-brainer. If you haven't tried it, don't. Yes, the grass is greener, but there's bear traps over there.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 07:36 PM
5

Middle eastern culture(i.e. islam) is like TRP, but with horrible control issues and some spiritual shit thrown in. Replace the word, "next" with "honor kill", and toss in some singing/yelling and some tramendous insecurity in one of our threads and you'd basically have a candid muslim conversation. Actually, now that I think about it, it has more in common with the men's rights movement than TRP. It's BP, but masculine centered. I say BP because RP doesn't seek to control anyone, except ourselv…
/r/askTRP17/07/16 07:23 PM
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She's testing your interest levels; it's a shit test. She's fishing for a reaction--give her one she's not expecting, or none at all.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 07:14 PM
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ASD. Next time, allow her to come to your place, keep the interaction on your terms(sex, without outright acknowledging it until your dicks out). If shes clearly not going to put out, kick her out. If you let people waste your time/energy, that's your fault, and dont let her pretend that you want jer around for any reason other than getting your dick wet.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 02:44 AM
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Last night I walked in on her crying in the shower, the type where your struggle to breath and can't speak. I don't buy it. She wanted you to find her like that and baby her. Man or woman, nobody does that unless they want attention/sympathy. Am I just overthinking this The entire OP is about servicing her, and completely avoids RP option #1, ditching her. You gotta rework your priorities and get back to baseline: you're the center of your universe. If you can't walk away from the relationship, …
/r/askTRP17/07/16 02:19 AM
2

Use what's available to you. The goal of dread on a wife is to make her think she still has to compete for her role, hopefully making her not become complacent. For hard dread, you could indicate that you went on a short, but wild, 4 hour outing with the guys to a party, or something like that, not necassarily late at night, but possibly something to do with visiting a lake and meeting 30 attractive people in bathing suits. Passive dread is your appearance, your temperament, the women you intera…
/r/askTRP01/07/16 07:46 AM
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Indirectly. If there's any indication that it's intentional, it won't be dread you're performing.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 07:38 AM
2

Women carry a bitch shield with them throughout the day to boost their own ego. Ever asked a girl the time, or said, "excuse me" as you're passing by, or anything like that, and have her immediately assume you're trying to get in them guts, "I have a boyfriend!" You have to get them to lower the shield by engaging them platonically first. Don't ask her a personal question, don't ask her her name, don't ask her shit about her until she asks you something personal first, and even then, in equally …
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:09 AM
1

I associate it with an immature mother/son bond, which shouldn't happen very often, but does because our society produces such immature men.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 10:40 PM
1

Convey that you've been too busy with more worthwhile endeavors, indirectly.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 06:39 PM
8

Rooming with a bro is awesome, most of the time. Rooming with a woman is like having a 150 lbs indoor cat that can extort money from you, and you have to move to next her from your life.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 10:20 PM
2

Grats. Formulate some game and go use it on many different women. Start at a public place and work your way to a bar later on tonight. It doesn't have to be great, just use a canned opener like, "Excuse me, do you know where the pet shop is?" and shoot the shit until you spark her interests, then get her number or invite her somewhere. Enjoy your freedom. Ignore the bitter faggots shitting on your actions. They bring nothing productive to the table and are just venting their insecurities. askTRP…
/r/askTRP31/05/16 05:31 PM
3

How can i strike up a conversation about this matter, without sounding like a jealous beta male? And what should i tell her? You can't. Just get it in your mind that this relationship has an expiration date. Some day, this year, ya'll are going to stop talking to eachother and move on. It's no big deal; She's girl #X, of god knows how many women you're going to fuck. It's just your turn with her.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 11:07 PM
3

The only GNC magic pills that actually do anything are laced with unsafe amounts of steroids and are only on the shelves until the FDA pulls them. Vitamin B12 (as cyanocobalamin) 300 mcg 5000% It seems all that's in it is B12, which is water soluble, which means you pee out whatever your body doesn't immediately use. Being topped off on B12 feels awesome and makes you perform better, but there's cheaper ways of getting it than Brazilian beef liver tablets. The only supps that are worth using, an…
/r/askTRP30/05/16 10:47 PM
2

It depends on direct vs indirect game. For direct game, balls of steel are required. For indirect/day game, focus on the topic you're using to bring her into a conversation, and then when have her interested, have a laid out plan on how to escalate the interaction. I highly recommend the books, BANG and DAY BANG.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 08:03 PM
9

Anything self-employed.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 07:59 PM
3

Law 40: Despise the Free Lunch The inverse of this law is taking things for granted. This is totally natural female behavior. They are incapable of comprehending honor.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 07:57 PM
3

Fuck ten women. Spin multiple plates. It'll go away, bro. I felt the same way, but now I can't wait to kick them the fuck out.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 07:54 PM
9

she isn't really the type of girl that goes all the way on the first date. Her and every other girl that fucks on the first date. You did something wrong. "I sware I never do this" She has already said she wants to hang out when I get back. Focus your energy towards the now. Have fun, make her envy all the awesome shit you're going to do during the summer, and make her wish she was one of the girls you're going to game from now until then.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 02:28 AM
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So she does fuck, just not you. That sounds cruel because it is. Take an L and chase different prospects. If you can't, that's also the reason why she isn't fucking you.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 02:15 AM
11

That's porn.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 12:09 AM
17

Be enthusiastic. Beg for him to cum on your face.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 10:03 PM
1

Beta bucks is a hoe's sponser, and bucks refers to $$. Beta bucks; alpha fucks.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 09:59 PM
1

I have no idea about the roids. The forums at bodybuilding(.)com would probably be a good step in that direction. Alternatively, making an Australian gym-going friend would also be helpful--roids are legal there. Layne Norton(a bodybuilder/PhD dietician) was being interviewed in a college newspaper a few years back. He was asked how much he thinks the theoretical maximum amount of muscle a person could put on in a year could be. He said, assuming the individual followed a progressive overload pr…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 09:32 PM
1

You'd have to add like 40 lbs of muscle, which could take a decade, or you can start reading up on steroids and very optimistically hit your goal in five years. If you want to learn about making a routine, buy Practical Programming. Edit: Rodolfo is 200-220 lbs at ~10% bodyfat in those pictures(the striations in the shoulders give it away), after presumably cutting 10-30 lbs to weigh in. He is 100% on steroids, like all Brazilian athletes.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 07:25 PM
1

If anyone should be worried about other people seeing us hook up it should be me lol k She says "someone hotter" Hah! I know, right? .. gasp ... Two chicks...
/r/askTRP29/05/16 06:59 PM
1

I asked Jennifer out. However you phrased it, it seems to have put an awful lot of pressure on Jennifer, which is why her and her mother are running around like chickens with their heads cut off. If you don't get it, that's fine: female behavior is inherently irrational. The fact that her parents are involved, whom she wants to "do proud", is adding to the pressure. Females solipsistically perceive themselves as commodities, and commodities have values. Picture a guy haggling on one of those awf…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 06:35 PM
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wouldn't OP sending said picture make the ex think, "oh shit, other girls want him? maybe he's not low SMV as I thought"? Maybe. There's still the issue of pettiness and giving her the ammo she's fishing for. If OP wants to use pictures to show preselection with his new options, they'd be much more effective G-rated and on social media, where his ex, and many other ladies, can "discover" them.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 02:24 PM
2

So if you regret getting with lots of women but carry on, they'll love you. That makes sense. No regret, no love. They only see a known player as a "sure thing". They wouldn't trust him for an LTR, but they'd trust their expectations of him being a cad. The cad passes shit tests easily and fucks women soon after meeting them--he makes it easy for her to get laid and doesn't beat around the bush, and he won't get attached/try to keep her to himself. He's a dick when she wants quick, stress free d…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 01:57 PM
7

They could have mutual friends, in which case this'd impact his reputation, or he may want to bone her in the future, or maybe it doesn't matter at all; He made a thread about it, so I assumed he'd like to make an informed decision.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 12:53 PM
2

If she's a prospect, open her with, "hey x, this is y. (Relavent question or inside joke)" to maximize the possibility of a response. Wrap up the banter in 1-2 texts and go straight to logistics. If she's a ONS, or a sure thing, say, "wanna chill" if she responds with, "yes," say "come over", she's DTF. If she says, "what did you have in mind" then invite her to something free and mildly interesting near your place. The goal is to expend as little effort as possible, while only being moderately …
/r/askTRP29/05/16 03:25 AM
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She sent that to you to get a reaction. If you send anything back, she'll use it either to complain about you for attention or as validation that you're invested in her.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 03:19 AM
2

In the context of getting laid, this is extremely valuable. The reputation of a player attracts women looking for a a no-bullshit boning. It's also a foundation which you can establish a no-strings frame with girls, i.e. fewer tests and more access to pussy. A good example of this was from a girl at work I've known for years talking me up big to a temp. On the temp's last week, she, in a round-about way, invited me to her place after work. I spit no game, aside from a tiny bit of flirting with o…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 03:02 AM
17

Sounds petty.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 10:49 PM
7

There is no such thing as a long distance relationship. Don't be in a relationship with an invisible friend/your hand.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 10:40 PM
1

Sometimes women will bait guys for attention/validation. Actually, it happens pretty often. I'd go cold and pursue alternative women for a while, and ask for her number again, "too soon." The idea behind this is to teach her that leading you on gets her nowhere and she'll have to be more receptive if she wants any play. Your attention is a commodity.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 10:36 PM
1

Why all those down-votes? This is my true feeling, if you feel it's a BP fantasy or something write a comment so I'll understand what's wrong. You're just a deluded pervert. I didn't post because you don't look like you can be helped, because you think it's significant that you've been wanting to be a degenerate for a long time. Sometimes, people are just sick in the head since they were kids--maybe you didn't have a positive male role model? Maybe you have a creepy relationship with your mother…
/r/askTRP28/05/16 03:36 PM
1

The only way she's going to appreciate your time/boundaries is if you enforce them. If she's early, turn her away. If she's late, make different plans. Your a fussy fuck one day I'm gunna give a time but turn up a different one Don't make idle threats. This is BP behavior, and she learned nothing from it other than that she can make you whine.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 06:16 AM
5

That is the specific aspect that makes "relationship game" different from regular game. That is just one side of the coin, though. Women are extremely egotistical because their attractiveness is a currency(all women are whores in some way). The 6s-9s desperately seek validation because they feel that they aren't the most valuable females, but they maaay just be able to edge out the competition. 4-6s are typically more reserved because they know the odds are stacked against them. 1-3s are pretty …
/r/askTRP26/05/16 06:39 AM
2

That goes away when you're practiced, assuming it's not too stealthy of a shit test. Here's a basic cheat sheet: Is she trying to shit on my plans? Dread/nuke/next: Convey through your actions that her behavior makes her less attractive to you. Does this go against the frame I project? A&A/misdirect: ex: "Are you gay or something?" Yes, can I feel your tits?(reach for her tits, or actually touch them) ex: "You should grow your hair long." Like a mullet? Hell yeah. Is she fishing for compliments?…
/r/askTRP26/05/16 06:28 AM
3

See what kind of rank a military recruiter can get you, if you're into that.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 05:14 AM
4

She's fishing for validation, but you probably also could have escalated. You have to strike while the iron is hot.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 05:12 AM
1

Why is girl number 2 telling her boyfriend I'm gay wtf ? Flirting with you doesn't count now, so she's not a "bad girlfriend". Marvel at the hamster at work. If a woman asks if I'm gay, I say yes and ask to feel her tits. is the role play thing i'm doing putting me in a bad position? Yes, don't shit where you eat. It seems like alright game though.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 05:05 AM
1

Have alternates in your pocket. Create an abundance atmosphere. Pretty much, have the same interaction with a couple more people, then pick one on the day-of.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 04:57 AM
1

Ever try face slapping? I had an ex that loved that shit. Obviously, clear it with her first.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 12:49 PM
1

Sounds good. If it looks like she may not invite you in, ask to use her bathroom--you have to pee worse than you ever needed to in your life.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 12:39 PM
3

As far as I can tell, the majority of the Endorsed support Trump, so I don't think this is an unfair question. The_Donald was even created by one of our own, CISWhiteMalestrom, and you can see GLO active over there too, well, at Mr_Trump now, I think. Firstly, alpha =/= RP. Alpha, in the context we use it, is a vague idea on being the most advantageous male, that garners the most respect, and has the best selection of females. An RP man knows and has belief in the sidebar, and uses it. IMHO, the…
/r/askTRP25/05/16 12:22 PM
34

is this normal? No, she's psychotic. Fucking bail.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 05:57 AM
3

Don't offer an apology, but if it's an issue with management, prepare to apologize for the abortion comments. Frame it as "heat of the moment, regrettable reaction to an extremely tense moment. I'm usually not like this." For the fight, I'd stand by self defense. Don't make an admission of guilt, and don't talk about TRP.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 05:49 AM
4

I have a few go-to's: "Take that dick, bitch!" And slap her ass. "Suck that fat fuckin' cock!" While pulling her hair. If I really want to fuck with her, "who's pussy is this?", slap her ass, "i said, who's pussy is this?", "say my name, bitch." Escalating intensity, "say my fucking name, bitch!", Shit like that.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 05:41 AM
2

So you're banking on her inviting you to her place?
/r/askTRP25/05/16 05:07 AM
1

That's okay, but I'd recommend: "Wanna chill" yes "Come over"
/r/askTRP25/05/16 04:15 AM
8

That's called, 'nuking the hamster', and I'd phrase it something more like, "I didn't realize this was a business transaction for you!" or "Are you on the clock?" With frame, it's always best to strike first. But when you're correcting her frame, and she's resisting, dread or nuke.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 01:25 AM
2

Grease/dairy/raw nutty/High sugar/high protein So... that leaves... fiber? You should hire a dietician.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 04:59 PM
72

Let's say the check comes while you and a girl are at dinner, "Do you need me to pay for you?" She can't pretend like you're just buying her shit as gifts. She's now a freeloader. Or for the OP, Tomorrow you can buy me a drink As if it's an honor to buy her shit. Look at that phrasing. What a brat. "I know the best bar. I'll help you out and buy you a drink, darling." You have to reset the frame. If you buy her anything, it's charity, which makes her a piece of shit, and conversely, makes you ma…
/r/askTRP24/05/16 04:39 PM
36

The trick is to not let favors go unappreciated. Buy the girl a drink, if she needs you to. See how I phrased that? They'll stop asking, or tokens of generosity will go appreciated, when you frame it like that. It feels good to do charity, just don't let her pretend like it's not charity. Women are great at that. Learn to play the game. To add, the reason why they can take shit like this and not feel bad about it is because they use the frame of, "this is a tribute to how awesome I am." - it fee…
/r/askTRP24/05/16 04:23 PM
5

Is that not luck? Sounds like networking, tbh.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 03:25 AM
3

"meet me there at 6" If she changes the subject or says no, I'd make plans with someone else.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 10:14 PM
2

does he simply raise his SMV till it overrides the stigma of hiv or is the game over and he should probably just dig his head in the sand until he passes? That's a moral question, which TRP doesn't touch. Magic Johnson and Charlie Sheen are apparently still crushing puss. If you can feel positive about that, then I guess that's your answer.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 10:07 PM
10

You can be liberal and alpha the same way you can dig a water well and strike oil. I doubt Russell Brand or George Clooney can effectively instruct virgin males how to get laid. TRP forces you to appreciate humility and selfishness, so essentially, an RP mindset is a conservative/libertarian mindset. TL; DR: Build The Wall.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 09:52 PM
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/u/IAmNotGale this is a response to you too. Monogomy is counter productive to an abundance mentality, which is integral to an RP mindset. If not anti-RP, it is less RP. Uncompromisable distance is also anti-relationship. OP will be fucking his hand and loving an invisible friend for two months. There are no long distance relationships. Three months is not long term. The original post is completely blue pill, full of denial. she's submissive She's gonna submit to that foreigner dick.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 02:36 AM
0

There is no such thing as a long distance relationship. You should be spinning plates anyways. Your question/mindset is not RP.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 02:21 AM
7

Keep it secret. The RP solution to fighting other people's frame is to next the people you can, or lie to people you can't next, like live-in parents. "Why aren't you finishing dinner?" I had a big lunch.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 02:18 AM
3

I'd call it an, "acknowledgement of interest"--a surrendering of accountability on her part, and piece of mind for the man. Actually, yeah, it does sound BP when I spell it out like that; it's possibly contradictory to outcome independance.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 02:05 AM
5

Cosmetic surgery is pretty fucking gay. That being said, installing some Kirk Douglas chin-cock sounds fucking awesome.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 12:58 AM
2

[Nohomo]You do not add as much value to his life as you did back then. Pressuring him to give more of his time to you(nagging) will push him away further. Instead, find a way to attract him more to time spent with you [/nohomo]
/r/askTRP22/05/16 12:49 AM
7

There is no real squirting, it's all piss. The woman pissed your bed.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 12:43 AM
2

sends me a pic of her leaving her ex on seen, then mentions she's trying to get with some guy at work and asks me for tips She probably sent you the bait and then immediately felt cheap, so she "made it better" by giving you that friendzone shit. she was actually the one who asked me to hang out 1st but I was busy that day Timing is everything. If it looks like you hesitated, ever, her interest will drop.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 12:01 AM
1

Meaning... she's interested and wants to see if I have an interesting date planned; did I read that right? She didnt follow instructions, which is a bad sign, but she responded, which is an okay sign. Shes open, but not interested, IMO. I'd answer, "yes" a couple hours later. If she asks for details or doesn't respond, I wouldn't respond for a few days, and then be more direct with your next offer. Let her cook; let the hamster fire up a bit. Hopefully, she'll think you're hanging out with other…
/r/askTRP21/05/16 11:31 PM
2

I wouldn't touch it for 3+ days, but if you're looking to do some work, have a really, really good plutanic reason for her to chill with you, like: holy shit I won tickets to --- un-fucking-believable! Her: what? I just saved a puppy from drowning. It doesn't have a tag. Her: OMFGPUPPY found owner. Unbelievable. Her: tell me details of how you saved a omfgpuppy too complicated for text. I'm actually gonna grab a beer. Meet me at (bar) if you want For that hole you just dug yourself into, just be…
/r/askTRP21/05/16 11:02 PM
1

Do not buy into it until you've seen documentation signed by her doctor. Break contact. She is a grenade either way.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 10:52 PM
5

You bring the pedophile out of me Avoid self deprication. TBH, I'd ghost her until you have a night you want to spend with a chick. I'll think about it. Likely ASD. It's a good idea to immediately move past when a woman sends nudes. Comment briefly, preferably in a curteous, but short manner and then immediately forget about it.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 10:48 PM
-2

And yes, I have read skittles man You're well equipped then. Buy her gas station treasure for when you see her and text her something low effort like, "hb kasey" on the day-of.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 02:01 PM
1

Mines actually really low. I give off a very strong "no bullshit" vibe. Conversely, that's resulted in a lot of me initiating with, "wanna chill" and getting my dick wet a couple hours later.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 01:55 PM
3

I just left it, not worth the battle to me, plus I love this women That's nice. I'm sure she'll make a wonderful husband. Stop being a twat. Her personality and body are both 10/10 You mean, you found a unicorn!? My god, why didn't you start with that? Kill her and freeze her so the military can study her, you selfish bastard! I suggested that maybe we should do things 50/50, she got pissed. yeah, nah, she's an average cunt. Unless she's pregnant, this arrangement doesn't make any sense. You're …
/r/askTRP20/05/16 01:43 PM
1

Women hail mary their SMV picks on internet dating sites. Women are naturally very capitalistic like that. Most of your matches are going to be women 2+ points lower than you, if you get any at all.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 01:32 PM
8

Shall i call/text her tonight to confirm tomorrow Would that indicate that she's chasing you, or that you're chasing her? Go cold. If she goes to confirm, indicate that you are busy and may not make it. If she says anything else, fucking ignore it. havent seen her for 1 month now (made excuses) she cancelled twice. She's been busy swinging from other dicks.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 01:21 PM
2

Shake hands with the president, but don't zone out while you're doing it. No porn/fantasies. It's not a thing to do at a specific time, to sleep, or any other part of your routine. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy--he has a chapter on healthy masturbation.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 12:04 PM
2

Use bait to get them in there, like movies, food, booze, weed, trophies, pics from your last vacation, etc. To make it chick friendly, just keep it clean and clean smelling--you don't have to vagina the place up--just keep it clean. Hoes love pump hand soap and tiny blankets for couches.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 09:49 AM
3

Are you a teenager? Kiss closing is so cliche that women do that shit out of obligation at the end of every date they go on where the guy didn't kick her dog. Aim for lofty goals. Aim for a blowjob or sex by planning a date to "coincidentally" end near yours or her bed, and read up on kino/escalation on the main sub, so she'll be receptive, or dare I say, aroused, by the time you whip your dick out. Move frequently during a date, don't sit at a table for longer than 15-30 minutes. She's probably…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 09:33 AM
9

so I probably have to tell her sometime I'm actually 35. I doubt it, but if it comes up, just approach it with a, "so what?" attitude. If she throws a tantrum about that, which I seriously doubt she would, then wait out the tantrum and then, once again, approach it with a, "so what?" attitude. If it gets particularly bad, make it apparent that her silly tantrums are making her less attractive, or that it's driving you away. You have the power; your frame is the one that matters.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 09:24 AM
-1

I don't give people enough credit to believe the grand opting out is fueled by righteous indignation. I'm sure there's a few of them, but you'd just be jerking people off to say it applies to a majority of them. No, I think most of the guys opting out of family life are losers, especially the MGTOWs. MGTOW may be a part of the manosphere, but it's not RP. But yeah, I'd assume there's a minority in TRP that this applies to. They may see the trap, they may even call it what it is, but they'd fail …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:44 AM
1

It's a sign of compliance, which is a part of submission, not submissiveness, per se. Weither or not she's usually like that is irrelavent--she's doing what you tell her to, so she's open to suggestion, from you. Edit: yes.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 03:18 AM
1

Some ways to test compliance is to give her basic orders, "grab that for me", "move to this seat", etc. The other way to test is to escalate and see where she stops you. In Billy's situation, given how powerful of an aphrodisiac(that's just what I'm calling it for this circumstance; lure; bait; frame setter) weed is, he probably could've done one or two things and directly propositioned her successfully.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 02:54 AM
2

TBH, I wouldn't expect most women left by themselves to stay faithful for two weeks, let alone two months, but that may just be me. Yes.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 02:05 AM
1

My ex is a 10 Tens are theoretical unicorns or subjective preferances. Do you think I'd agree she's a ten? Quantifying her this way is only sabotaging your future. The scale shouldn't be used that way--granted, she may be hot, but there's plenty of other hot women. You know what would be even better than fucking her regularly? Fucking three hot chicks regularly. Foster an abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 02:01 AM
3

This topics always been too touchy in TRP. IMHO, the majority of modern men watch too much porn, and get obsessed with unhealthy/unproductive behavior. Being obsessed with giving hoes head is a good example of that.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 01:51 AM
2

An average enlistment is 3 years, 4 months here. In the U.S., we have the GI Bill, which helps guys that served at least 12 months before being honorably discharged pay for college. You could say it's strongly encouraged. I went to college after my enlistment (though, no GI Bill since I was h. discharged at 11 months of service), and met lots of other vets.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 01:34 AM
3

For Americans, at least, I think everybody should serve at least once. Military service builds character like almost nothing else can. That being said, for me, it's one of those priceless experiences that I'd never want to do again.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 01:00 AM
2

is there an underline message that I'm missing ? Generally, whenever a woman offers a break, she doesn't respect you and she has someone in mind that she wants to fuck. There is no such thing as a long distance relationship.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 12:51 AM
2

Acquire alternative girls, so that you're not so obsessed with this one. Fuck ten women.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 12:47 AM
1

I'll accept that. It doesn't change the OP or the answer though.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:36 PM
1

Sexual favors are submissive acts. The argument that, "forcing her to take a sexual favor is a dominant act" sounds shaky as fuck.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:04 PM
16

Skip eating pussy, or do it briefly. There's a bitch in every relationship, it should be very clear who that is.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:49 PM
0

Don't throw stones in glass houses. You're using ad-hominem attacks because you're emotionally invested in eating pussy.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:12 PM
3

You're in denial. There's easy facts at your feet: servicing your partner is a submissive act, and women are attracted to dominant men. You're emotionally invested in how many times you've already done it, and probably your "prowess."
/r/askTRP08/05/16 12:10 PM
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Felating your partner isn't a dominant act. At best, you could apply the 2/3 rule.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 12:02 PM
14

Submissive behavior from men is usually a turn off for women, especially the well adjusted ones. it kinda helps get me hard From my personal experience, blowjobs tend to do a better job at that. Maybe try to be more selfish.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 06:44 AM
1

I had a friend in the army that lost his virginity to an escort. He paid $300 and said it was the worst night of his life. I've never been with a hooker, but I've never seen an attractive one, but I'm sure there's a way for it to be an alright experience. There's a nice phrase that floats around here, "men don't have a virginity to give." And I think that's a good way to approach the idea. Don't tell anyone you haven't had sex, especially a woman you may sleep with. You're the man--you don't wan…
/r/askTRP07/05/16 06:57 AM
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All the experience in the world isn't worth a pair of balls. Usually, when guys are looking for advice on here, so long as it's not technical, they know the answer already and just need a small push of encouragement. OP's decisive action is a good example of that.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 09:29 AM
2

They're, "just being theirselves" while you need to be trying to fuck. If you hesitate, they'll assume you're gay or low quality. Have a plausable excuse for you two to be near a bed, for instance: "Can I use your bathroom?" "I just got the new (anything). Care to see it?" - movie, vacation pictures, trophies, whatevers interesting that'd lure her to your place. "I actually ordered a pizza before I came out and met you. Care to have some? My place is just over there." And for the grand, holy gra…
/r/askTRP06/05/16 09:15 AM
11

Not only did he do the right thing, he really shouldn't second guess his gut instinct. OP made a strong move, towards his own future happiness.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 12:44 AM
1

my goals are strenghtening the body Learn barbell exercises getting a muscle base that will stay for life that requires going to the gym for life. and doing so with security because my body is weak and fragile Read Starting Strength by Mark Rippetoe over and over again. The things you want to gather from it is a grasp on the concept of progressive overload and barbell technique.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 10:23 PM
3

There's a concept called, "healthy masturbation" that helped me with the same issue. No porn, no fantasies/imagination, just you shaking hands with the president. IMO, it helps you focus on just getting off. Also, you absolutely have to stop giving a shit about your performance. You're there to cum on her face, not be a gymnist or felate her.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 10:41 AM
1

An apology is an admission of guilt. Just pray this doesn't haunt her long enough to make her want to get litigious. It would be wise to stop associating with her.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 11:53 PM
2

If she sends you an angry email, save it and don't respond. If she sends you a sob story, save it and don't respond. Do not talk to her again. And if anyone accuses you of anything, deny, deny, deny. You have no idea what they're talking about and you have nothing to apologize for. This sounds like, if anything, his word vs yours. Just deny and don't make an admission of guilt.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 11:32 PM
3

was wondering if it would be best to just see an escort before then In your case, maybe, maybe not. You'd be shocked to find out how easy it is to get laid. It's really fucking easy. There's 7 billion of us--that easy. it still feels pretty uncomfortable not to be open and honest. Get a motive, and then play to that motive. Work towards your goal. You're an active player, not just a person hanging out. Everything you do should work towards your end goal. There's a trick I use to make being forwa…
/r/askTRP04/05/16 11:17 PM
1

Why do you think TRP isn't for guys who wanna be a degenerate pervert? You're pushing the false narrative that I'm trashing man-whores, when I'm talking shit about being a pervert, and obsessing over fetishes to the point of it being a dysfunction, like too much porn affecting your life. Guys either want to build a kingdom, or get to a point to build--on a spectrum; It's this vague instinct dudes have, and it's always one or the other. And the further you get from the former category, the more m…
/r/askTRP03/05/16 11:58 AM
3

proud a feeling or deep pleasure or satisfaction derived from one's own achievements, the achievements of those with whom one is closely associated, or from qualities or possessions that are widely admired. You've achieved nothing, and nobody admires that you want to be a cuck. You're definitively vain, because you're a degenerate. I genuinely have no interest in "dissing" you. I come to askTRP to help people with TRP ideals. Sometimes that involves shitting on them. If I wanted to diss you, I w…
/r/askTRP03/05/16 02:44 AM
4

I've fucked more wives than Larry King. I'm a proud pervert. You're a degenerate.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 02:26 AM
3

I think I'd feel the same way even if I didn't watch porn Maybe, but you wouldn't be sharing gifs with half a dozen dicks in them on askTRP and obsessing over this topic if you weren't a pervert.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 02:23 AM
1

Women shouldn't be taken by their word. That being said, after such an overt turn down from her, I'd target my energy towards more fruitful prospects.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 02:19 AM
-1

nod and agree, and then whip your dick out.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 02:16 AM
4

You watch too much porn.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 02:13 AM
1

There's a time to negotiate and a time to walk away from the table. If she doesn't think anything she does could make you walk, she'll exploit it. Passive dread keeps her on her toes, while hard dread leads you towards replacing a bitch. Let your actions speak for themselves, because she'll just twist whatever you tell her to fit her narrative.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 09:00 PM
6

Dread, let her find out how replaceable, and how close to being replaced she is.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 06:39 AM
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dread. Make them think their bullshit frame/narrative is pushing you two apart. They have to gather that info on their own, through you seeing her less and you exploring more options more regularly.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 06:36 AM
1

Fear/anxiety/guilt. My coworker complained to my boss that I was two minutes late, so I told him I was being suspended because it was my third offense. My boss didn't give a flying fuck and I'm not being suspended, but you should've seen his face when he thought I'd miss a couple days pay because he complained about two minutes. He's a nice guy--he just needs to chill the fuck out.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 06:31 AM
4

I feel like this plate is going to break simply because of my parents and that really irritates me. Is there anything I can do to stop this from happening? All plates fall, the world's gonna end, you and I will die before the year 2100, such is life. The difference between a loser and a winner is what we're likely to accomplish next, not what we have now. Everybody has a narrative they want to push, or a bias they reflect. The RP way to handle people that negatively impact YOUR narrative is to n…
/r/askTRP02/05/16 06:25 AM
4

I go quiet and unavailable Around her? That's not dread--it's a tantrum. The goal of ghosting bitches is to make them think they're getting ready to be replaced. And when she's throwing this mess at your phone, you actually don't respond, not say, "nothing." "what's wrong?" Think of it as a bully saying, "you gonna cry?"; she's baiting you into going into her frame. You set the narrative, not her, because her's isn't set in reality. Now, she's off for a break because I was putting her under "str…
/r/askTRP02/05/16 06:09 AM
2

where I'm going to take her You feeding hoes?
/r/askTRP26/04/16 04:39 AM
1

I haven't heard from you all week She wants validation or something. Plates get that when they come over for dick. Text only for logistics, and when they send shit like this when you don't have a day in mind when you want to slip her the D, just ignore it, or send a "been busy" 12 hours later. Use the 2/3 rule.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 12:26 AM
3

Don't engage her narratives over text. You can't win. I think you did fine, but instead of entering her conversation with, "ditched?" I would've sent, "lol what" Do not engage that narrative she's pushing any more. Don't even explain yourself. Just change the subject or ignore her texts if she pushes it further. This girls not LTR material. She was signaling to her friend that her SMV selection peaks higher than you, at your expense. I'd downgrade her immediately and spin plates.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 12:16 AM
1

"It was a good movie. We have the best movies. A friend was telling me the other day, "You have the best taste in movies."" She doesn't shape the narrative, you do. You can only lose the point if you engage her on equal ground.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 05:26 PM
1

Roosh maps out an easily executable step-by-step strategy on getting in a woman's pants in BANG and DAY BANG. The sheer level of detail he puts into his strategy should eliminate most anxiety that you may feel in any step towards crushing puss.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 09:26 AM
16

Just have a reason for people to hang out with you: you're organizing a basketball game, you're throwing a party, you're gonna try yoga, you need help building x and you've got beer and pizza, you've got weed, etc. Chances are, you're not Brad Pitt and pussy and friends aren't falling out of the sky, so have a practical reason for people to associate with you. Have the gumption to be an organizer/leader.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 04:54 AM
1

They mistake unhealthy lifestyles for healthy lifestyles with the relief that comes from a "live and let live" mentality. You can't engage illogical arguments with logic--it just lowers you down to their level, where bullying and tantrums trump reasonable assessments. Law 9: Win Through Your Actions - Not Argument Live healthy and don't associate with degenerates; Vote your interests. Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others Do not engage them on their level.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 01:07 AM
2

Roosh is a really good writer, and he does a good job of describing red pill ideals in the first half of the book, while Rollo takes a much more anylitical approach to the material in The Rational Male--typical of his style on his blog. The latter half of BANG is basic PUA technique, and the very ending is perfect for guys that have trouble F-closing the same day you meet a woman, or on a first date. I really enjoyed it and consider it mandatory RP material. It's a bit dated now, though. Roosh e…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 01:45 AM
1

It contains the exact modus operandi of TRP, similar to the first half of BANG, if you've read that.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 03:07 AM
32

a lie that can swoon women for the right men at the right time.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 04:45 PM
-1

Correlation does not mean causation. This is the same shit as "vibrators cause desensitization", which is also untrue. It's all in your head. Case in point; you had an 8 year dead bedroom, so you're fucked in the head. No More Mr. Nice Guy talks about sexual dysfunction, and I'm inclined to embrace his idea more, of "unhealthy" masturbation routines. Fantasies and porn fuck with your performance. Not to mention, "death grip" is an obvious first idea from the egotism described in No More Mr. Nice…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 06:17 PM
5

You're going to have to beat the ladies off with both hands when they notice how progressive you've become.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 12:25 PM
16

Nah, he's just changed ever since he got on TV.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 12:14 PM
16

When she get past the possible abortion window, talk to a lawyer. If you dont have a good job, find one and save up some rainy day money, because it's about to pour. If you had any intention to join the military, enlist NOW and act as if you have no idea she's pregnant. Single parents aren't able to enlist, and it'd be easier to do both while already in the military.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 07:19 AM
3

mind moving? "I'm not moving, but you're welcome to work in. What's your name?" You don't owe him anything, but letting others work in is good etiquette. If I fumbled this, I'd take an L and move on.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 06:49 AM
4

Get a dog that's a bro (bro-dog) and try working in a coffee shop/restaurant.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 06:44 AM
1

That's the cost of staying child-free. I've learned that if I can't keep it up while wearing a condom with a specific woman, my body is telling me to NEXT.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 06:40 AM
1

Have you ever recieved a massive foot in the ass that changed your life for the better? Something drove you here, so I'll assume that's a yes. Think of it as medicine, and those girls got a harmless dose that day. I'd recommend reading No More Mr. Nice Guy. I'm pretty sure it's labeled, "required reading" on the main sub--I'd recommend it to anyone, but it seems relavent to your thread.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 06:00 AM
2

I told her to rub her clit, but she didn't Somebody has to be the bitch in sex. Who that is should be clearer than ya'lls exchange indicates. It sounds like she's picking up on something being wrong, and I've seen enough of these threads to know that you're more focused on her than yourself, which is making her anxious and turning her off.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 05:49 AM
1

he completely lacks empathy, which is too much, obviously This can be a good thing. If you dont fight for your interests, you will always be the "nice guy finishing last." Could you imagine if everybody you paid money to for a service fucked off? When would you stand up for yourself? When you paid the migrant to mow your lawn? When you paid the young waitress to wait your table? When you paid the babysitter to watch your kid? How long can you tolerate being a cuck? Take what you're owed or get y…
/r/askTRP29/03/16 05:36 AM
2

She's bluffing. Call the bluff with dread.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 02:47 AM
3

You're too deep in your own head. Just back off and calm the hell down. Yes, it's just a hole, lol, but it's also the driving factor for everything we do. That says more about us than the hole. Top reasons for sporadic E.D.: She's loose, condom, she's fat/ugly, the situation/location is uncomfortable. Unless you're an absolute degenerate, most guys wouldn't be able to keep it up in that kind of situation. STOP PAYING FOR SEX. Pussy is free, like you said, it's just a hole.
/r/askTRP27/03/16 09:31 PM
2

most of them just reply with smilies and one liners. Have a routine and get to the point quickly. Check guides on the main sub. You should be able to get a number in 1-5 messages (from you).
/r/askTRP27/03/16 09:06 PM
6

Basically, yeah. Not to get all freudian, but where the jaded/saught after RP man spins plates, the boy tries to replace his mother.
/r/askTRP27/03/16 01:34 AM
7

I did, once, but it ended predictably when I was obviously uninterested in cohabitation. The need, for me to LTR, has been completely dormant in me for a little over two years. "Worth it" is subjective. I'd argue LTRs are completely pointless, and a symptom of something unmanly, if you're not looking to reproduce soon.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 09:39 PM
2

Well put.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 09:18 PM
13

Bitches be crafty, and you need a solid base in abundance mentality. There's lots of guys that find their unicorn and eventually over invest and get gutted like a fish. IMO, you haven't acclimated to TRP yet.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 08:14 PM
1

Prime candidates for sporadic E.D.: condom, loose pussy, bad frame/environment, self consciousness, she's fat/unattractice. For me, at least, 2 of these things occurring at the same time gives me performance issues. With 3, I don't even try.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 05:55 AM
1

Dignity, but I can't see a business successfully market self-respect.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 05:50 AM
33

Stop putting her first.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 12:07 AM
3

TRP can only help you with your priorities: stop servicing her. She's there to service you.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 11:48 PM
17

To have her cake and eat it too. Notice I said, "downgraded", not "dumped". She wants to fuck the other dude while you're her girlfriend.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 08:45 PM
15

This isn't a shit test; she downgraded you. Move on, and don't look back.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 08:32 PM
1

Didn't read your post. "Admittedly, I call you big bird behind your back." Pressure flip.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 12:35 AM
1

I kiss her when I feel like it's the right moment, after kino, which I plan before I meet her. And if we're making out, my hands on a tit. Asking permission to do anything is horrible every time. Feel it out and come in with a strategy.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 09:08 AM
5

She'll signal other hoes best by using kino, eye contact, and enthusiasm in whatever you say, and generally seeming into you. Be mindful of what the term, "preselection" suggests.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 09:01 AM
1

Like on the street? I can't get behind that... it's easy to invite dudes from the gym to play basketball, or shit like that. I dunno, I'd start with acquaintances and work your way up.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 04:35 PM
6

I could see it working, but only if he insinuates that she's a dike with it. The men's rights angle is a loser angle. Men can't whine: that's the woman's role, and a man that takes a woman's role is either a faggot or a bitch/cuck. That being said, the media would slaughter him with it by turning it from her being a dike to him being an MRA(bitch/cuck).
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 05:03 AM
1

Fishing for compliments is unbecoming of a lady. Don't text unless you have a reason to. If you want to say anything at all, it needs to segway into logistics.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 01:55 AM
2

Invite bros to cool shit that requires a group: sports, work opportunities, games, etc. Dude's don't need the company of other dudes unless it's to participate in something practical/awesome.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 01:33 AM
1

You're an addict with a preferred method of delivery. Obviously, going cold turkey is silly, so understand the feeling and develop some idea on how to manage it.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 03:53 AM
-4

Keeping your business to yourself is not lying. Just don't blab. And if he asks your n-count, he's likely immature, and you may want to remind him that talking about that is unbecoming of a lady. As to weither or not you're a slut, that's a matter of opinion. I assume all women are, but that's just me and has more to do with my perogatives.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 06:45 AM
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Talking about politics is a bit like showing people your dick: there's a time and a place. For instance, the mods were couth enough to remove endorsements from TRP, despite a majority of us supporting the same candidate. I'd suggest removing yourself from these silly "debates" with classmates, and feel free to use the "time and place" line I used at the beginning of this comment(amused mastery). Just because these people whip out their dick and swing it around in public doesn't mean you have to …
/r/askTRP15/03/16 06:07 AM
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This is absolutely a test, and she doesn't know that it's harmful. She's just insecure about locking down a dude, and her hamster is clashing with reality. If she wins and gains the higher ground, she will then blame you when reality gets serious and bites ya'll in the ass, and she'll be right twice, playing both sides of the field. Let's be real here: you are seeing one woman, whome you are exclusive with after only one month. You made a mistake in putting all your eggs in that basket. Somethin…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:38 PM
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I want to start dating quite badly, but without a desire for sex, I just don't know what to do. Force yourself and try to build some momentum. Your body may adapt.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:23 PM
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Your topic is not the problem and I'm not going to talk about it. I'm not completely convinced by her statement that it was due to me not showing I care enough with the things I say to her That wishy-washy, uncertain approach is why you're in this situation in the first place. Her words don't matter; her actions matter. Not only is she doing this, this is how women have evolved to survive, capitalizing on technicalities and keeping her options open. It's written in our DNA. This is a clear AF/BB…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 11:54 AM
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Iron frame. Change the narrative: "I don't swing into relationships with strangers." Or if you want to nuke the shit out of that hamster, "I'm not conflicted. I have no interest in jumping into a relationship with somebody I barely know, nore should anyone do that, ever." I wouldn't initiate again, though. The, "ok" killed the momentum for a frame reset. Wait for her to initiate.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 08:39 PM
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You need a significant dose of humility. Your personality would benefit greatly from military service. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 04:48 AM
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A. Physically escalating this (particularly petty) drama wouldn't necessarily fix the problem. B. This is too petty to involve a superior officer. C. Sometimes the energy investment isn't worth the reward, and this looks like it'd take a lot of energy to resolve, if it even can be resolved. You have to know when to take an L. Not to mention, if he's partly doing this to get under your skin, demonstrating that you DGAF is the perfect response.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 04:16 AM
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Self-sufficient adaptation, with the highest effect of outcome independance. Your dude's behavior can't shake your frame/quality of life. Ear plugs are the RP solution.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 03:50 AM
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I KNOW this is going to fall on deaf ears, so I'll keep this short: she "broke up" with you so that she'd be "technically" in the clear to fuck other guys. She had a specific man in mind when she "dumped you" and once a woman "dumps you", her respect for you has bottomed out and will never recover. Your relationship with her will never be better than cuckoldry.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 02:44 AM
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There's a social contract between you two. Ripping up that contract to establish a new frame is an often loud, painful process, but otherwise simple: she is now a sexual target, and she can either fuck or fuck off. Now, obviously, you don't tell her that, but that's how you approach the situation--the same as any other prospect. As for specifics, I reccomend reading BANG. I'm sure there's equally wonderful guides on the main sub though.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 02:21 AM
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Girls go off their BC to preemptively stop themselves from getting fucked. It's some awful ASD mechanism. It's also some baby catching sexual strategy, where the worst case scenario is Chad blowing his load in her. She's broken. There's usually some kind of duality to crazy hamster shit like this. I'd keep her number just in case you need a replacement hoe and you feel like figuring out this hoe puzzle, if a girl cancels last minute, but otherwise next.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 12:38 AM
1

Quick fix: Buy a basketball. Invite fit dudes to play basketball. That conversation always goes like this: Hey man, want to play basketball Tuesday? maybe. how many others are coming? Just you and me, so far. I'm going to invite a few others and see how big of a game we can get going. who else are you going to invite? (People) if you wanna give me your number, I'll keep you informed. Sure
/r/askTRP12/03/16 11:52 PM
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If you're dedicated and persistent, you'll eventually only rarely feel the soreness (it's called DOMS: delayed onset muscle soreness), and in fact, you'll miss it.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 11:37 PM
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She's going to have barrels of LMR for two reasons: she invited you, and the longer you've known her, the bigger that social contract is going to be. I'd break those rules immediately, and at some point, force her to kino you: offer your arm to her as you're walking somewhere, with a platonic smile. After a few drinks, if you go hard with the game and keep her busy (pool, darts, etc), she'll passively escalate with shit like, "you can kiss me if you..." and standard kino. I'd plan on gaming stra…
/r/askTRP12/03/16 11:32 PM
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Give more context
/r/askTRP12/03/16 10:51 PM
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You just need a good, practical reason to have a group of people, like sports or building something, or food.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 10:48 PM
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Nothing. Follow a guide on texting.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 05:59 PM
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This whole post has a theme: betrayed trust. Instead of trusting a woman, trust your ability to manage and predict bullshit. Have faith that they'll behave the way they're built. Use the tools here at your disposal, and don't trust anybody with anything you don't want to lose. Should I date such girls, as in insecure attention whores with several beta orbiters? Don't date. Spin plates. You enjoyed her company and liked fucking her, right? Well, have your cake and eat it too. Be responsible for t…
/r/askTRP12/03/16 11:17 AM
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She might want to AF-zone you That's not a thing. Don't underestimate how egotistical women are.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 07:32 AM
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I wake up to a message from her saying she felt I had disrespected her relationship, so she didn't want to have anything to do with me. She has to make that night make sense in the context of how she's a perfect snowflake, so she sent that, "I'm not some cheating hoe." You've set off slut alarms in her head, and that text is ASD. given that she said she wanted nothing to do with me, yet still looks for me Thursdays She's a hypocrite. is this the right way to go? Ghosting her? Yeah. Other accepta…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 07:15 PM
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It depends on the topic. If it goes against the frame of, "I'm the man and you're my bitch", then apologizing is illadvised. If you fucked her sister, don't apoligize; if you tripped and broke her lamp, apologize.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 09:10 PM
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I read about 1/3rd of that. I think that's all I need. She knows she can shit on you and you won't do anything about it. She doesn't respect you at all, and that will never change. She told you she's a hoe. It will only get worse. Move on. Fuck 10 women.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 09:01 PM
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Seriously, most women have some estranged relationship with a dude. An "open relationship" is just a hamster label on it. AWALT.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 08:41 PM
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There's shit roommates, there's good roommates, and there's awesome roommates. Shit roommates don't pay rent, good roommates pay rent and leave you the fuck alone, and awesome roommates pay their rent and are bros. The last category are rare and awesome. Instead of nofap, try noporn. It's much easier and it stops you from doing it routinely. Everybody shakes hands with the president; the best of us just don't do it very often. No More Mr. Nice Guy has a great chapter on this.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 08:39 PM
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Don't deal in things you're not prepared to lose. Be confident in that, and you'll appreciate what people do have to offer.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 08:20 PM
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That's potentially a long reply. My values are the same, but the way I invest time/money/energy is completely different. The most important thing TRP can do for you is scrub out codependancy with the effectiveness of napalm. Don't keep all your eggs in one basket, or don't invest anything you're not prepared to lose. TRP tenants have mostly been pretty evident to me. Many of us were blessed with already being an asshole before finding TRP. This space, ROK, and the rational male just labeled, doc…
/r/askTRP10/03/16 01:41 PM
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You can streamline getting pussy. Get #s as you're out and about, as it's an awesome habit. Then invite them someplace fun/public close to your home, and after 30 mins/hour of kino and chill, use good bait to get them back to your place, "I just got (recent movie). Ima go watch that. Wanna come?" Or "I just ordered a pizza before I came out here. Wanna have some" etc etc etc, netflix and chill, and kick her out. You could easily knock this out in 2 hours, but probably 3 or 4.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 10:29 AM
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feel like standing there and ignoring it makes you look like a bitch to everyone else who's watching, but at the same time, walking away would look even worse This is important, and good that you picked up on this. Be comfortable with your weaknesses. And if worst comes to worst, turn it gay. I'm friends with a couple navy seal types and get BTFO every so often, and the only saving grace is a gay joke. just go. Nobody here likes you because you're short ... are you trying to get me alone? I'm fl…
/r/askTRP10/03/16 10:07 AM
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She's complacent and frustrated with your SMV. You need dread. She doesnt want to tell you what's on her mind because it's logically irrelevant passive aggression. Right from the horses mouth, she's telling you to look at her actions, not her words. Search the main sub for dread game.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 09:53 AM
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This can be explained as simply as: her name is on the lease. You have to think of a relationship in terms of a business negotiation: if she can get leverage, she's going to use it. Thuroughly. You made yourself vulnerable. You'll understand why this is like this when you understand solipsism. There's no quick, easy fix, because you've essentially brought your food to where you shit.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 07:28 AM
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Conventional wisdom is: don't. Static stretching is a good way to hurt yourself. Thuroughly warm up for a lift by doing plenty of reps(I do 30-ish) with the empty bar. That being said, I know lots of people that do dynamic stretching.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 12:24 PM
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You can't stick your dick in a hot girl without stepping on another man's toes. There's always beta males waiting in line, a fuck buddy, a boyfriend, or a husband in the other room, or all of the above. Either all women are single or all women are whores. AWALT.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 04:33 AM
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There are no hot single women. They're all "spoken for" by somebody, and have no idea what honor is.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 04:17 AM
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child like qualtities that aren't good for an adult to have A male that looks for a woman that acts like a man cannot call himself a man. Why fight nature? Embrace it and be comfortable.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 04:12 AM
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Approach more, and expect to be rejected occasionally.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 11:15 PM
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It's personal propaganda. Snowflakes are in constant pissing contests with other snowflakes about how they're not just holes, and how their holes are the most prized and expensive holes.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 10:52 PM
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There's a subtlety necessary to day game that requires constant plausable deniability, or at least until you know she's engaged and invested in you. If you betray that line, especially on a college campus, girls will gladly reject you to inflate their egos.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 10:12 PM
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In the aime of being outcome independant, I'd not initiate contact, and if she tries to confirm, give a "we'll see" or a "maybe" because your time isn't just valuable, it's hotly contested.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 09:56 PM
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That's a BP mindset. Do it for yourself and the 10 women you need to smash immediately.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 09:50 PM
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Has a location been set?
/r/askTRP06/03/16 09:14 PM
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Try to focus less on her. If she's rubbing your D, whip it out.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 08:22 PM
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I'm sure they're lovely, however, inviting a woman you haven't been with yet directly to your home doesn't leave much room for plausable deniability. She'll be more likely to flake.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 10:16 AM
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Anti-slut defense
/r/askTRP06/03/16 05:13 AM
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There's many characteristics we cover in TRP that are characteristics of the species, but run differently in female solipsism. Female solipsism, which revolves around a woman's ego, is the core of the difference between how men and women think. An example of "not manly", or (an example of a characteristic) optimally ran under female solipsism, would be ASD. Her ego, which is invested in her value as an object (to men), reaches an existential crisis whenever she's overtly propositioned, "I'm not …
/r/askTRP06/03/16 04:57 AM
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Yeah, she's a woman first and foremost, and her virginity is probably going to go the same way all virginities go in America--in a flurry of pain and disapointment.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 02:25 AM
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what's the point you're not gonna even call me". I said "I might text you". Ouch. That response was a bit indecisive/weak. "If I don't, I'd still treasure it as a momento." Or "I'll call you right now" or "then give me a good reason to call you" Not saying I'd do better--20/20 outside the box hindsight and all.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 02:22 AM
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Maybe. She needs to feel you slip from her grasp when she jerks you around, and she needs to feel competition. Communicate that to her by giving her less attention.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 02:09 AM
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Less is more. I wouldn't respond at all to that dead end
/r/askTRP06/03/16 02:06 AM
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I'd next. She made no counter offer. Don't take it personally: one of her other offers is probably juicier. Don't invite women directly to your house unless they're super hoes or you've already fucked them. She may have turned you down because of the implications.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 01:47 AM
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That, but more importantly, she's milking the attention you're giving her. A woman's ego is invested in her value as an object to men. If you chase her, even after getting bullshit, "maybes", she won't ease up. But if she sees her hold on you is slipping (and if your SMV/reputation is solid), she'll start putting in some effort.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 01:41 AM
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Do a little push/pull. Incite that high, but before it crests, pull away and open other groups. Girls will chase you, if they have a reason to. And don't be afraid to settle on a number close, or a few other things less direct than a club-to-bed f-close.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 12:51 AM
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She says "maybe" because she enjoys the validation. She's being awkward intentionally. Stop giving her so much attention. Wait at least a week before talking to her again and invite her to a group activity, or something cool you'll be doing anyways. That'll knock her off the pedastal and make her work a little for it, and give her some plausable deniability to sate ASD. The rest can be gleaned from guides on the main sub.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 12:47 AM
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Maintain plausable deniability on why you're talking to her by using benine subjects until you're positive she's into you. If she can masturbate her ego by shutting you down without getting invested, she'll do it and feel like hot shit for it. A boring opener is fine, so long as she's replying and you eventually give her something beefy to chew on to get her invested. For instance, "Is that the iPhone 6s?" ya "How do you like it? I've been thinking of switching from android." it's okay I guess "…
/r/askTRP06/03/16 12:09 AM
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You're currently experiencing your last growth spurts(large bursts of natural HGH), while your body has started producing high levels of testosterone: this is the most important time of your life to start lifting weights.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 11:35 PM
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When we reccomend, "fuck ten girls." To treat oneitis, it's not just the pussy or the alternatives that help, but the mental space and experience of persuing the dozens of girls you meet in the quest for ten holes. Ten holes is a feat, while monk mode, is frequently used as an anti-social crutch. If you're on day 2+ of monk mode, I wish you luck. If this is day zero, I'd consider pointing your energy towards crushing puss tonight.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 11:15 PM
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The book DAY BANG goes into tedious detail on the step-by-step approach to getting a stranger's number, and that level of thurough detail in low key/low pressure methodology obliterates uncertainty. Those tools, practice, and the willingness to guide the interaction will give one success, and with that, confidence in your ability to crush puss.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 10:58 PM
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What's your approach, and where do they drop off: are you getting their numbers? Are they not texting back? Are you going on dates, but not closing?
/r/askTRP05/03/16 10:47 PM
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Definetly not. You made a gut decision in deleting her number: respect that. Though, yeah, it could've been wiser to let it sit for a week and try again, or maybe not. Who knows? Definetly do not telegraph to this woman that you deleted her number and second guessed yourself by finding her on FB to holler, or validate her ego by going so far out of your way to smash. Take an L; if she texts you, all the better.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 10:44 PM
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It sounds like she's hamstered her way off of birth control because birth control enables being a whore, so if she's not on it, she couldn't possibly be a whore. She's like a monkey with a hand gun; be careful. I made a post on LMR recently.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 10:35 PM
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if you're not doing nofap then why? Noporn makes more sense, as widespread porn in it's current form is extremely new to humans, while masturbation is probably older than the woolly mammoth. Also, that's in line with No More Mr. Nice Guy's take on the subject.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:17 PM
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Don't bother lying. If she asks for any details (how many; what's her name; is she a blonde), just calmly say, "it doesn't matter." If she throws a tantrum, the make or break TRP phrase is, "if this isn't something you're looking for, I'm not the guy for you."
/r/askTRP04/03/16 09:54 AM
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Read books from the recommended reading on the main sub and eat well/workout.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 09:47 AM
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If it's not directly RP related, you could link archives, images and quote here. If it's directly RP related, you can do the same on the main sub. Do not post direct links though. That could be seen as inciting brigades.
/r/TRPOffTopic04/03/16 09:44 AM
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Hey I'm running late to meet a friend but I just wanted to let you know you look really nice today. My name is... They now have a way to inflate their egos by demonstrating how this guy everybody knows isn't worth their time. This is ASD, and sacrificing you on the steps of their ego. Did you say that same thing to all of them? The bold part is too overt for the massive collection of snowflakes in your uni. You have to maintain plausable deniability until the moment you're inside of her, or go 1…
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:03 AM
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Ayn Rand has a perverse obsession with fictional alphas. I doubt your teacher's interests are much different.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 05:14 AM
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is shitposting on a subreddit with 500 subscribers really the most alpha thing you can do with your time? I love it.
/r/TRPOffTopic03/03/16 12:55 AM
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servicing someone sexually is the role of the bitch.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 11:28 PM
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I'm trying to find a proper way to view women where they are not on a pedestal search: abundance mentality But don't men do the same? Yep, but you'll notice key differences that make it worth mentioning, that inside-the-box thinking has a theme: her ego. That video in that article was just an easy example of solipsism, not centered around her value as an object(to men). Egocentric solipsism is the reason why plausible deniability is a great way to get laid, and saying something direct like, "hey…
/r/askTRP02/03/16 03:36 PM
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Perhaps that was the wrong thing to link. Try this. I feel that guys with these beliefs though will come off the wrong way with females. You don't have to rub it in their faces. Though, sometimes it turns them on. I also have an issue with bashing feminism because I always believed their cause for equality is parallel to the black/minorities cause for equality. That would be a solid point 60 years ago. There's no case for systemic racism today. Perhaps gerrymandering and gentrification could be …
/r/askTRP02/03/16 02:42 PM
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"Huh? I'm not into politics, sweetie." No, this is super cereal! "Alright. Anyways" Play dumb/deflect. Just stay out of that conversation and don't take it seriously, but don't downplay her feelings.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 02:23 PM
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I'm not going to disregard a womens opinion just because. Read more.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 02:13 PM
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applying to reality is pretty hard Life is hard. That's how shit goes. The universe doesn't owe you anything. Keep reading and take steps. Find a guide you like on the main sub and follow it. Then do another. Read BANG, DAY BANG, No More Mr. Nice Guy, The Rational Male, Preventative Medicine, etc. etc. Go through the recommended reading. Shit takes time. Just go.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 02:06 PM
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Nah, she's very real. But dead. God rest her soul, that angel.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 01:47 PM
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Once a day? Is it a quickie in the shower or a 30 minute workout/ritual? Whenever I feel like it. What techniques do you use to get her off faster? This is a BP concern. Why techniques do you use to keep from blowing your too load too fast? This is also a BP concern, but here's some things that'll make you last longer with weaker boners: fuck fat chicks, use condoms, fuck her in an uncomfortable location, lose an argument beforehand. Ands fav position? doggy.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 01:43 PM
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Never? I have a similar background. This is a metaphor: Me and the bitch I lived with murdered the girl I wanted to live with. They're two different people(now; metaphor). I'll always love the girl I knew. And I'm better than the hoe I lived with. I've accepted responsibility for my part in how horrible that time was, and I hope for nothing but the best for the bitch. Does that make sense?
/r/askTRP02/03/16 01:20 PM
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That's uh... reassuring, I think? You're clearly still focused on... your prowess. Two things: Penis size is irrelevant because it doesn't get you laid. You're obsessed with it because you're obsessed with what you can do for a woman. Focus on what you can get from women. That's how an RP man thinks.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 12:57 PM
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Whatever the fuck you're complaining about isn't the problem. The problem is that you post the dimensions of your genitals on the manosphere. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy. Nobody can give you better advice than that in this thread.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 12:19 PM
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You always have to be able to walk away from the table.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 12:34 AM
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No woman should ever know about your love life any deeper than that you're "non-exclusive." Don't give any details further than that. If she asks, treat it like a shit test. If she says she doesnt do ONS, disregard and test her actions against her words. Business as usual.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 10:12 AM
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I gotcha. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and say you're killing it, RP as fuck. There's still two issues though: her behavior is still text book, crazy balls hypergamy, and you were emotionally invested in a pretty short relationship. Also, once a woman dumps you, she'll never respect you again. Something happened and she felt like she needed to branch swing away. That will always be part of her now. She wants to f and is pushing for a relationship. That doesn't sound like she wants me a…
/r/askTRP01/03/16 10:02 AM
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I'd just go cold turkey and never talk to her again. Her frame is toxic now. Search "plate theory" on the main sub and get back in the game with an upper hand.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 08:44 AM
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I think she might be branch swinging to me. I am her Chad for now but everything trp says about women's nature is true. This. Look at her actions, not her words. She very clearly is trying to get you to orbit, and she initiated the break up after a short term relationship--she swung away from you. The fact that you didn't seem to heed any of the assessments from the old thread is a red flag--they had an unusually overwhelming consensus, too. Comments get that many upvotes about once or twice a d…
/r/askTRP01/03/16 08:31 AM
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Your FRs paint a different picture. I'd recommend moving on and learning to spin plates.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 07:59 AM
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Spinning plates means you're actively fucking multiple women throughout the week/month, and also persuing new potential plates. You also fight to maintain an unofficial relationship, keeping the girls in their lane. Search "plate theory" on the main sub. Plates aren't friends or girlfriends, and that's an important distinction. You put in less or same time, energy and resources into that relationship as the girl does. Aka invite her over for sex and RARELY do anything else with her, and do the s…
/r/askTRP01/03/16 07:12 AM
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And what did you learn?
/r/askTRP01/03/16 07:06 AM
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Bad frame for sex is like, if you're only fucking her because you feel obligated, or she blackmailed you or guilted you into fucking her, or if you just got sick of her personality/lost an argument... stuff like that. Location can be as overt as being at work, or in a room that stinks, or as subtle as awkward decoration or trying to fuck a girl on a used bed. The frame and location in that context can be closely related. I was fucking a girlfriend in a bad frame/location scenario. I took her cam…
/r/askTRP01/03/16 06:46 AM
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The Art of the Deal
/r/askTRP01/03/16 06:10 AM
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TRP doesn't deal in morality.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 06:09 AM
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Usual suspects with E.D.: Pussy is well worn to the size of your D, condom, she's unattractive, the location is bad for sex, the situation (frame) of the interaction is shitty. Fixing any of these should help. 2 of 5 puts me off, 3+ of 5, I bail. There's also the easy explanation of your DNA telling you to spread your seed.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 06:03 AM
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Go hard and keep moving forward. Shit happens. We're not here forever, and we've got what we got: make the best of it.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 05:53 AM
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Break the awkwardness by escalating touch barriers: arm, shoulder/hair, thigh, kiss, tits. Only escalate when she's receptive(returns touch, doesn't pull away, etc) When you can tell she's turned on (you're making out, her body heat is rising, her muscles are relaxed), take her hand and put it on your dick over your pants. If she pulls away, try again in 5-15 mins. If she embraces it and rubs your dick, enjoy that for a couple minutes and then whip it out, if she doesn't first. After that, natur…
/r/askTRP01/03/16 05:06 AM
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When making friends, especially with guys, you need a practical reason to associate with them because it's not in our DNA to be drawn to dudes the way we're drawn to chicks. For dudes to want to do shit with you, you need an activity that they'd want to participate in, like a game of basketball. For dudes to keep wanting to hang with you, you need to have or attract things that they want, like a car or chicks. If you want to start modifying the behavior of the people around you, reward good beha…
/r/askTRP01/03/16 04:58 AM
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When a person internalizes a mental schema (see belief) so thouroughly and has become conditioned to it for so long, it becomes an integral part of their personality. So to attack the belief is to, literally, attack the person. This is why we see such polarization and violent reaction to people’s political, religious, inter-social/inter-sexual, etc. beliefs – they perceive it as a personal attack, even when presented with irrefutable evidence that challenges the assertions of their belief. There…
/r/askTRP01/03/16 04:09 AM
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Skip the comfort shit and whip out your dick. But seriously, as soon as you can tell she's into it, put her hand on your dick, over your pants. If she doesnt pull away, let her rub it for a bit and then whip it out. If she pulls away, no biggie--try again in 5-15 min depending in how heavy shit is. Seriously, stop fingerblasting altogether. what I've been told is good You're the prize. Put yourself first. Is your goal to make her feel like a princess or to get your dick wet?
/r/askTRP29/02/16 04:39 AM
2

No More Mr. Nice Guy
/r/askTRP29/02/16 03:10 AM
1

In a certain context, women are objects to males. When a boy has an object, but he can't make the object work as advertised, he gets frustrated. When he finds out none of them work as he expected, he gets angry. If the boy learns how and why they work, he is humbled. And when he can put those lessons to use and also call himself a man, he will be content.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 03:07 AM
1

It could be, but not if it goes like, "wanna chill" yes "come over" I'm not a booty call blah blah feelings (Ignore) A few days later... "Wanna chill" okay "Come over" I'll be there in 2 hrs You're confident you can close if she's alone at your place, right? This is plate spinning; get any idea of owing her shit or anything romantic out of your head. You seem still well within her frame.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 02:14 AM
3

She'd probably see that as a downward branch swing and would be repulsed by the idea, and will definetly use the situation to boost her ego. I wouldn't even consider the idea as plausable. Let him try. He'll get distracted and focus on something new in a couple weeks.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 02:08 AM
1

You're talking to her too much. Her frame is strong. Put some distance between texts, ignore some, and invite her to chill about once a week. This is ideal: I'm sad 9 hours later... "that sucks" blah blah blog blah (Don't respond) 2 days later "wanna chill" blah blah blah Ignore 3 days later... "Wanna chill" yes
/r/askTRP29/02/16 01:48 AM
1

Full understanding of female solipsism. The concept is enthralling.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 01:41 AM
11

The more times you get in a car, the more likely you are to be in an accident. Such is life.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 01:38 AM
2

The rational male and preventitive medicine, in that order. I treated her with respect and honor because I was raised to be respective and nice to other You're bragging. Your ego is invested in how you treat women, and you have a problem with the nice guy comment because you feel like she's taking it for granted, which ofcourse, she is, because she doesn't deserve special treatment, which she shouldn't get from a high value male.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 01:33 AM
6

The universe owes you nothing. She doesnt belong to you in any form. It's your fault you put all your eggs in that basket. Don't blame your friend.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 01:27 AM
0

Prospect flakes on first potential f-close: good excuse, offers to reschedule, she's hot? Then reschedule. If not, ignore. Plate flakes: respond up to 24 hours late to everything she sends. Invite her out again a week later. Girlfriend flakes: spin plates, idiot. Texting is only for logistics. Your absence to conversations she wants to start over text will secure more f-closes then anything else you can pull off.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 01:15 AM
6

Use a condom every time I have sex for the rest of my life, don't get attached to any woman, build a quality workshop.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 12:56 AM
1

Read BANG and DAY BANG. They thoroughly go step by step in how a man would get laid.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 04:25 AM
20

Fuck 10 women.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 04:24 AM
4

Use props. Is there a painting in the room? "What do you think of that painting?" It's okay I guess "I'm kinda tired of seeing that same scenery everywhere." I guess. "Just once, I'd like to see a painting of a corgi or a motorcycle, or anything cool in a business." Hah, yeah, I guess. "What would you prefer?" etc. etc. etc.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 12:44 PM
3

Alright, had to make sure. My guess is you're in "bachelor mode", where you just refuse to put down roots of any kind--no permanent furniture that'd be hard to get rid of, few, if any pets, don't own a house, etc. There's nothing wrong with that and it's a fun way to live, but transitioning away from that is a big deal. Men need a kingdom, and if you get in the mindset of putting down roots and building your kingdom, LTRs feel better. I wouldn't rush it. You're 26--you have at least 9 years befo…
/r/askTRP26/02/16 11:53 AM
3

This is one of the ways she has learned to get attention. She will do this over and over again for the rest of her life. And it will usually be a dead end for every guy.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 09:38 AM
2

How often have you been laid this year and by how many different women?
/r/askTRP26/02/16 09:23 AM
3

Shit tests. She wants you to declare your appreciation for her and properly friendzone the shit out of you. You've given this woman too much attention, which is why she feels like she can talk to you like this. Ghost her for a few days and then fish for a meet up with pure logistics: wanna chill If she responds with anything other than "yes" or a time/place, ignore her, and MAYBE try again in a few more days.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 09:21 AM
3

Successful programs are built with the long term in mind. Not gassing yourself every workout is more relavent to intermediate and advanced routines, but still holds water with novice programming, especially as you get closer to intermediate levels. That being said, I don't recall ever reading that you shouldn't go for a 6th rep on a novice working set, if you feel capable.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 09:12 AM
2

The first one can be perceived as her getting under neath your skin, the second one can be perceived as being weak/indecisive. The real goal is to know when to walk away: if your capability in that is secure, and your value is high, then you get what you want, so in the end, it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 02:11 AM
3

Just because this is a reaccuring issue: you know a "plate" is a woman you've fucked multiple times, right? Test to see if they're still spinning. Text: "wanna chill" and see what they say. Plates that have boyfriends, and know that I'm a dead end for LTRs never ever try to chat with me or initiate contact. Your girls may just be focusing on LTR material.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 01:54 PM
3

The easy answers are diet, sleep and exercise. Are you eating a balanced diet, or is it all grain based? And what kind of lifts are you doing in the gym? The big 3 lifts are incredibly rewarding, mentally, as is a solid hour of tough yoga. if I keep going like I’ve been going for the past months, I will not make it. I’m alone in it. Bullshit. You've done fine so far. Push the limits. Be the best you can be and kick some ass. And we're always alone; every one of us is alone. Be a man and take cha…
/r/askTRP24/02/16 01:34 PM
5

Follow guides on the main sub. You lost it because of two things: you are overly invested in her(makes her want to waste your time and lowers your perceived SMV), and you made the proposition unnecessarily sexual(you caused LMR). You have one goal at this point: getting her in person. You gotta cut out all the extra shit because it can only work against you. Let me come over and heat you up ;) This was neither funny in such a way that she could brush it off as a joke or direct/practical. Stop us…
/r/askTRP24/02/16 04:16 AM
5

Your hearts in the right place, but I think the volume of attention is hurting your odds. I'd try to give her less attention so she doesn't think she can jerk you around. I'd dodge her for a few days and then invite her out with the laziest text ever: wanna chill And if she replies with anything other than "yes" or plans, I'd soft next her for a week and try again.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 11:02 AM
24

I left he marriage with no alimony payments, kids, or criminal charges. Sounds like you have it made. The best time to do shit is always right now. You're just in a rut--don't let it affect the rest of the shit you have going on. For your state of mind, I recommend No More Mr. Nice Guy. For crushing puss, BANG and DAY BANG(in that order), and read some of the fantastic guides on the main sub. Also, next time you want to post to asktrp, ask a question so we can help you better.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 10:26 AM
1

you don't trigger me at the type that needs money
/r/askTRP23/02/16 07:58 AM
3

I'd look into those dating websites that specifically market to people with an STD. They've been around for a while.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 07:36 AM
3

Read No More Mr. Nice Guy and try to get to a mental space where you're not posting the dimensions of your genitals in the manosphere. I can't remember what your post was about, but this is your problem and that book is a great tool to help fix it.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 07:34 AM
2

"Locks keep friends honest", and "don't give away anything you can't live without." There's a story in 48 laws of power like this--something about a prince that's friends with a stablehand. I can't remember atm. You played yourself, homie. Take an L, forgive him, and appreciate that you're not a bank and you shouldn't do personal loans. As for your bro, well, he treated you like a bitch. Next him.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 07:27 AM
2

I'd wait, and I reccomend not setting dates so far on advance. A woman on tinder gets a rediculous amount of offers.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 06:54 AM
34

This sounds more petty than usual; smells fishy. She's sick in the head. How old is she?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 06:14 AM
2

She left it open ended intentionally. I'd make new plans/soft next and try her again in a week. Don't confirm the time. Let her confirm/chase you, if she's going to.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 06:07 AM
1

Read everything you can on the concept of frame. The ability to mean what you say, stop negotiating and settling, and being willing to walk away is invaluable for everyone.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 05:10 AM
2

I'm assuming you meant, "how do I approach without giving them the upper hand?", which you can't. It's written in their DNA to take that high ground. You approach a girl without putting her on a pedestal by understanding that she is only one of dozens/hundreds of women you'll be approaching. The man approaches.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 03:52 AM
1

I was the ultimate beta bitchboys of beta bitchboys in that LTR He was enabling her, and anger is a symptom. Getting in the mental space that nobody owes you shit, and that your cunt ex was just doing what most woman would do with who you were at that time makes the anger go away. The game isn't fair. It's hard and you gotta learn the rules: codependent men suffer. No More Mr. Nice Guy is fantastic at helping you get to that mental space.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 09:07 PM
1

Donald Trump ... kidding... Vladimir Putin.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 03:35 AM
-2

Have weed.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 03:33 AM
5

You're probably codependant. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 03:32 AM
3

You're being self-obsessed. Don't hand her a plate of your insecurity. Sex isn't hard to figure out. You stick your dick in a hole, repeat, and then pull out right before you cum, aiming for her back/stomach... or face, depending on if you're feeling bold. Just enjoy the experience and relax.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 12:03 AM
8

Use the police. Even if you don't have evidence, if you can get the police to investigate, the twats may incriminate themselves, which you can follow up with a restraining order. This is probably going to escalate, so escalate it on your terms. A guy stole my jacket once, and he handed it back while I waited on the police, but when the police came, he told the cop two contradicting lies and was in handcuffs in less than 15 seconds. FYI: I hate to do this to you, but if your girl is adamant in no…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 11:53 PM
2

You can't control the people in your life, only whos allowed to be a part of your life. There isn't a good, easy answer past that.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 10:30 PM
2

not tonight, I'm not that type of girl. Is ASD, not LMR. The difference is situational and weither or not she has to defend her dignity. I'd recommend having a good excuse for everything that leads up to her being isolated in an area you can fuck her. Here's an example: David Lee Roth had all his albums framed, hanging on the wall of a hallway in his home. When he'd bring women over, he would show them these albums, one by one, where the last one was in his bedroom, which had a jacuzzi and a bed…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 09:30 PM
2

That's correct, but it has more of a negative connotation.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:57 AM
11

I know three dudes with them. Two of them are thirsty chronic liars with wrecked lives. The third one is alright, but he got in a fight and the other dude ripped his ear lobe in half. His life is also a mess, but not nearly as bad as the other two. They all live in trailer parks, oddly enough. Yeah, I'd say it's a signe of poor decision making skills, and a signe that says, "I'm thirsty as fuck."
/r/askTRP21/02/16 04:52 AM
6

The scenario I used in the OP was a worst case scenario that fit the narrative. Fortune favors the bold: if shes turned on, put her hand on your D while you're still fully clothed. If she doesnt pull away, whip it out: that line can't be un-crossed, and it sets a very intimate frame for the interaction.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 03:30 AM
6

But can't she now claim you raped her? In a university in california, absolutely. As far as the police are concerned, ofcourse not. Also, subtlety is extremely important--if she knows your intentions, this would fall under "contradiction" and not A&D. Make it, "just happen." I also like to fool around with a girl up to the point where she wants to de-escalate, tease her until she's really horny, and then completely withdraw physical contact and say, "we should stop. I'm totally down for more, bu…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 02:58 AM
1

Rollo was on the Christian Mcqueen podcast a while ago. I haven't heard any other episodes, but that may be worth looking into. There's an ROK podcast now, but it's not very good yet. I suspect it just needs time to develope.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 07:42 AM
6

i tell her that she should leave and she does. LMR isn't a shit test. You can't A&A it. Her hamster needs to find a comfortable excuse, as in, it has to "just happen." You challenged her to act on the LMR, which made her hamster defend her pride, as in ASD. Her dignity and pride as a (valuable) object depended on her leaving. Do not A&A LMR. The Amplify portion of that will give the hamster new things to have to work on. Agree and Disregard: I cant. We just met. "That's cool. I'm down, but we ca…
/r/askTRP20/02/16 07:33 AM
3

Everybody* can gain muscle/strength while on a caloric deficit when they're below beginner standards. Your bench press can go up from any physical activity, even riding a bike while below beginner standards. Some cutters can gain strength while in the novice bracket. You'll almost always hit a wall while cutting when you get to intermediate, but I've heard of people still making progress. The way your body makes progress can be different every day. Anything less than 2 months of progress is a po…
/r/askTRP20/02/16 02:54 AM
23

That's more of a BP melt down.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 01:20 AM
2

I wouldn't put any effort into persuing her. It has more to do with ASD than her interest levels. Just think of it as shitty cold feet.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 09:00 AM
6

Girls cheat and the mass weddings/kidd are immediately followed by mass falling outs. They will be single again soon.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 06:55 AM
3

She did this to avoid being alone with you. She's surrounding herself with cockblockers. You will most likely not be fucking this girl. You could use her invitation as pre-selection and hit on other girls at this "club event" though.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 06:53 AM
2

I think it was a baseball metaphor.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 10:34 AM
2

Agree and disregard, then do what you came to do, as normal. This is the hamster rationalizing two mutually exclusive ideas in her mind: being a hoe, and thinking she's a chaste angel. With LMR specifically, you, "okay" and do what you planned to do in the beginning. Don't A&A, because it's not a shit test. A&D, agree and disregard, because it's LMR. right when you're exactly where you wanted to be. Think of it in terms of haggling, "well, you're really running me through the cleaners and you're…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 04:58 AM
12

"are you serious?" You telegraphed a scarcity mentality. Spin plates. If a girl cancels, call a back-up. It's possible she picked up on the fact you'd, "cleaned my place, did my manscaping, bought some liquor," all for little old her. I can come over tomorrow At least she offered, "Can't tomorrow. I'll text you." Keep your house maintained and your booze cabinet stocked--for the 10 girls you need to fuck, soon.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 03:21 AM
5

People with agendas blow small things out of proportion to serve that agenda. As in, she didn't want him there, didn't do anything about it until it was too late, and she used the shower incident as a "last straw" type thing. Or she has some weird "I got diddled in the shower" or "i was douching my catholic vagina and nobody can know my dirty secret" problem going on. Probably both.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 07:05 PM
2

Passive dread game is used to maintain perceived high value. Active dread is used to change the frame of a relationship. Active dread is the DEFCON 1 of a relationship, to sway the momentum in your favor, if she values your company. It can absolutely wreck relationships, or it can be the fat man and little boy that end the war. Your situation is probably for the best. It sounds like you were doing a lot for this girl(BP) and you weren't spinning plates. Use this opportunity to try to spin plates…
/r/askTRP17/02/16 03:33 AM
9

That's a long answer, but I'll try to cut it down. A woman's ego is tremendous, and related to the red pill understanding of solipsism(google: red pill solipsism). They're also just of poor character, which is enabled and even encouraged by modern day political correctness.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 03:01 AM
1

look, this guy acts like this since I'm such hot shit. He can't control himself. my ex is needlessly aggressive with me. Nobody should treat angels(me) like this. Women need attention/validation. This is how this girl has learned to get it. Yes, that's a red flag.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 01:49 AM
1

You're obviously aware. What you're lacking is discipline. You need to do hard work, so facilitate your ability to do hard work. For example, when I get in a rut, I leave the house as soon as I wake up: it makes me very productive.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 12:51 AM
5

A woman doesn't bluff a red pill man like that, because she believes he'll easily fill the hole she's left. Now, go fill some holes. She's probably getting hers filled. I can't help you with her brother. That's shitting where you eat, and you need to fix that situation. If he causes a stink, tell him she dumped you.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 12:34 AM
5

That and that there's a harsh, skeptical truth about the male/female dynamic. Men and women are different, and under that assumption, it'd make your original question nonsensical. Adapt or fail; the world owes you nothing. I recommend you read No More Mr. Nice Guy and BANG in that order.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 12:24 AM
6

preferably not at places you frequent, but yes. The pressure melts a great deal when she's only 1 of 10-20 women you plan on approaching that day. You can't obsess over one girl when you've done this with dozens just like her.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 12:17 AM
8

You're asking for a doxxing. Be careful. TRP is the most hated and harassed subreddit.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 11:22 PM
3

Sounds perfectly normal. We get lower quality content here because askTRP is the moon that attracts rogue meteor shitposts coming towards TRP. There's a constantly ongoing debate weither or not askTRP should even exist, as asking easy/personal questions goes against the initial advice of, "read the fucking sidebar."
/r/askTRP12/02/16 11:19 PM
2

Yes, the friend zone is just the frame of a relationship. Changing that frame is as easy as only associating with the woman under the condition that y'all are gonna fuck. If she has incentive and you limit other aspects of the relationship, she will come, no pun intended.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 11:09 PM
2

Eh... dignity... I guess it comes down to personal preferance. Does it bother you because she's used or because that'd make you her 2nd choice? The girl is leftovers, but I look at most women that way. Best case scenario, you're, what? the 8th notch on her bed post? At least they're on and off again, so you wouldn't flat out be a homewrecker. No idea then--whatever you can live with. It wouldn't phase me, but I wouldn't work for it very hard. Also, plates fall. And usually, somebody else is spin…
/r/askTRP08/02/16 04:02 AM
1

I consider it "general maintainance." Every man shakes hands with the president--there's no reason to be ashamed.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 03:42 AM
6

They're not "no good." They're good for sex and brief instances of companionship. I feel like this eliminates a lot of the market. I'd rather show her, indirectly, why I'm a better suit This screams ego issues and codependancy. I highly recommend reading No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 03:39 AM
6

How do I lay this out for her to understand Your desire to change her is the main problem here. You know what this girl is. Don't try to negotiate her out of her nature. You'll lose and look like a chump. And if you're spinning plates, like all modern young men should, this wouldn't be an issue anyways.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 03:31 AM
0

Legs slightly apart, while one foots perched on a chair. I call it, "the power stance" No More Mr. Nice Guy has some positive insight on this: if it's not routine, you don't use porn or fantasies, then it shouldn't be detrimental to your mental/sexual health.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 03:28 AM
-6

Don't wink. Agree. Let the hamster do it's thing, and when she drops her guard a few minutes later, attack from another angle. Her ASD needs to be sated before she'll put out. You can fight LMR all night. I once had a girl in my bed for 6 hours before she let me take off her jeans. As soon as I kissed her neck, they flew off.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 12:38 AM
1

I've been pretty numb for the past two years... I think it's just growing pains. I was codependant for a long, long time. Giving up on finding June Cleaver and settling on spinning dude's ratchet girlfriends is... unenchanting?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 12:11 AM
1

It depends on your strength level and diet. If you can't realistically follow your routine's schedule, focus on maintaining the gains you've already made. I repeat my last 5/10 rep PRs when my schedule gets shitty.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 10:25 PM
1

You don't need any input from her at all to stop associating with her. Stop negotiating and do what you want to do.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 09:40 PM
2

No means no, until it means yes. When she stops you, stop, but then try again. For instance, you're rounding 2nd base and trying to escalate to 3rd, but she stops you, "We're not having sex." "I understand. Let's just watch the movie." Back off, and then escalate again. Tear the breaks off, rubbing her tits, inner thigh, kissing her neck, etc. "I really want to, but we can't." "That's fine. I'm totally down, I really want to fuck the shit out of you, but we can just enjoy the movie instead. It's…
/r/askTRP07/02/16 09:38 PM
1

Negotiate. You made an offer, "movies", she made an offer, "orbiter harem"... at least appear to consider it, and don't be offended by it. Usually, ignoring the girl and trying again next week would be advisable. Given your situation, I'd say that wouldn't be interpreted well because I'm sure she sees you're invested. I'd say, "Maybe after. I'm gonna try and see that movie." Take the agency off of it being about you two being together. You're the prize, so covertly relay that you have options as…
/r/askTRP07/02/16 09:16 PM
1

Anti-slut defense. That scenario gives her plausable deniability in being "open to your advances" and "incapable of puting out" at the same time. She can play both sides. You're ofcourse doing the same thing, "We're just going to watch a movie" to her/peers, while you're hoping to escalate during/after the movie. You have to negotiate and outsmart her, and/or give her an offer she can't refuse. Either way, play it cool. If you get emotional/invested, she's winning.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 08:29 PM
5

That's not a shit test. It's ASD, which is why it feels weird. I'm assuming she's offering that because the 3 other folks are cock blockers, like family members, and that you getting her alone would open her up to you rounding bases. Don't reject her offer per say, "Maybe after i see this movie." She may make a counter offer. She didn't say no, so she's negotiating. Keep negotiating.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 08:07 PM
-1

Giving her that kind of attention is counter productive to appearing too valuable/busy for her frame. Also, any wins over text do not necessarily translate to you getting laid more frequently. It's not an unviable tactic, but on a list of priorities, it should be at the bottom of the list. There's so many better, more important things to focus on, and the benefit is so minimal, and it opens your frame to vulnerabilities, so it's often reccomended to abandon it altogether. If shes responding, sti…
/r/askTRP07/02/16 07:48 PM
2

Two things: don't show your hand; she's making a frame grab. When you talk to her, if she quizzes you about why you're being dodgey, have a good reason and tell her she's overreacting, and call her Hitler. Srs. you seem distant I'm busy with what (totally reasonable thing). Calm down, Hitler. You can't over use it, but it establishes a window for you to ignore her, so do both. Don't show your hand, or she'll go on the defensive. when should I reply When you want to fuck her, or within 24 hrs.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 01:31 AM
2

SMV. Make sure you're not just enforcing your standards, but you actually have alibis and options, and you truly are busy. Or if not, fake it like a pro. A woman will sniff out her most invested meal ticket/Chad, just as we filter out the girls that are the easiest/hottest.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 12:55 AM
3

Start the fade away. Go from texting/seeing her less and less every week to completely ghosting her. Usually, they'll get defensive and start acting like SHE is dumping YOU. If she goes nuclear and starts knocking on your door at 2am uninvited, call the police and never associate with her again. It has to be this ugly because, I know that the right move would have been to say: "If that's how you feel I understand. If you change your mind feel free to text me". But I didn't and now I'm here. Yeah…
/r/askTRP05/02/16 05:36 AM
13

Roosh, king dick of RoK/neo - masculinity, is a good writer and very RP, but he's been aggressively monitizing TRP for years. He'll do silly shit for more traffic/book sales. Some examples are: puting out a video advocating the de-criminilization of preventable rape to end false rape accusations, he named it, A Modest Proposal(he deleted it); going on Dr. Oz to show his ass; picking a "fight" with Rollo; he tried to fracture TRP's traffic by forming neo-masculinity, which is TRP with a "no gays …
/r/askTRP02/02/16 12:01 PM
5

Women have pissing contests. They'll cock block for attention, or give false flag IOIs for validation when they're in familliar groups... all for a leg up on their social contracts with their hoe-buddies. In day game situations, gaggles of women are toxic.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:52 AM
-1

Yeah man, you're young. Go slay some big tittied bitches. Sew your royal oats. Also, the point of calling a unicorn a unicorn is to point out that hoes like that don't exist. It's your future though, man. Locking her down and knocking her up is a much bigger risk than the alternative though.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 08:07 AM
5

That's a dead end. She's not coming out.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 07:31 AM
2

The grass is always greener on the other side, and there's no pussy like new pussy. How old are you?
/r/askTRP01/02/16 04:31 AM
3

Absolutely true. Also, cutting back on fantasies and being in the moment every time you shake hands with the president creates a better relationship between your mind and dick. That ability to... focus on what's going on finally gave me the ability to use a woman's mouth what it's ment for: catching loads.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 04:15 AM
2

You will not consistently gain or lose weight without counting calories. Buy a gram scale, if you insist on cooking everything yourself and eat at a caloric surplus/deficit.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 03:58 AM
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I'm having lots of fun with you, but before we become BFFs, I feel like I need to mention that I want to bend you over my couch and fuck the shit out of you. She's already comfortable with you. Establish the frame you want with a direct statement like this. If she rejects it, you know where you stand.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 03:55 AM
2

If you can isolate a woman near your bed and make her horny, she'll probably fuck you. If you didn't try to get her near a bed, that's your fault. You need to have a plan for the night, and actively work towards the goal. Use bait. I use 1 strike. Because I'm lazy and I've met too many hoes to think I'd run into June Cleaver.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 03:47 AM
3

What were the plans? Bar? Dinner? Walk? Massages at your place? This is important. you're right. We haven't even exchanged social security numbers and full names yet. What's your credit rating? you sure? I already got a buyer for kidneys. You're O+, right? intentions are to meet. We don't know eachother because we haven't met yet Or just bail and schedule with someone that doesn't get cold feet.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 03:38 AM
3

Once or twice a week. It's not routine.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 03:20 AM
4

I don't apologize often, but I think this is a good opportunity to say sorry. Sorry sweetie, I'm clearly not ready for a relationship. My bad. And run. You don't have to lie to spin plates. It's implied that you're not monogamous until she breeches the subject, then, be upfront. It feels good, "I'm not the boyfriend type." Or "as a rule, I don't 'date' until I (achieve some long-off goal; turn 30; ready for a family; own a home)" And if she throws a tantrum, "if that's not something you're looki…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 03:17 AM
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The benefits of Nofap are actually the benefits of Noporn, IMHO. Masturbation is older than the pyramids; modern porn is as old as widespread broadband internet. I cut out porn about 6 months ago, and, for me, it's made me cum quicker in sex (down from 30+ minutes to 5-15 minutes), and I can actually cum from BJs now, which didn't happen for my first 50 or so BJs. This is the first time I've gone without porn in my adult life, and it's had a better impact on my sex life than the red pill. Zoning…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 03:01 AM
5

I miss you I've changed so much since the last time you saw me No you fucking haven't. Do not come back here until you've read No More Mr. Nice Guy. Laura is gone. Never fucking talk to her again. I'm sure she's wonderful, but she makes you turn into a toxic leech.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 02:50 AM
4

Focus on your capability to spin plates. Fuck 10 women.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 02:46 AM
2

She has weak game, or she's trying to be good. despise the free lunch I've been with women like this. The last one was determined not to "owe" me anything. This is masculine BP(oxymoron?) game. Take the free lunch for granted; treat it as a tribute to your awesomeness, as women do.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 02:22 AM
11

Firstly, you fucked up. There's a reason why we regularly state that this shit is for your eyes only. Say goodbye to the upper hand. Second, giving a shit about her n-count is a display of low value and neediness. Third, we don't have any idea how many dicks have been in your girlfriend. Sifting through the conditions shes invented necessary for her to "count" the dicks, and the dick-devision she's used to get That number down to one that suites her ego is an impossible task.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 02:04 AM
3

If you throw enough shit at a a wall, some of it's going to stick. Especially with younger girls that haven't yet been spoiled by some thirsty BP fag, you can fuck up a lot, but still get laid by just getting her horny near a bed.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 12:26 AM
3

IMO, BANG and DAY BANG are the best books on the subject.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 12:15 AM
1

It's not so much lying as it is... not mentioning it because it's not that important. Nobody cares about cold sores because 50%-80% of adults in the US have it, and it's not commonly associated with STDs. And if you aren't having an outbreak, you're probably not going to spread it. I don't eat pussy and I don't do LTRs. That has nothing to do with oral herpes though.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 12:05 AM
2

That's ill-advised. TRP will always be controversial, and you probably don't want to be the one guy in class that does his report on a self-help book. I'd recommend Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas or Crooked Little Vein. They're short, simple, crude, and funny as hell. And as far as I remember, they have good grammar and punctuation.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 11:54 PM
1

It's no big deal. Face herpes is extremely common. If you keep it clean and dry and don't smear it to other parts of your face, it'll go away in a week or two. I got it... three? Years ago? From a crazy Catholic girl. And only had that one out break. I told the first few girls after her about it, but after every one had the same reply, "yeah, cold sores. No big deal." And a couple, "I get them too." I stopped even bothering to mention it. Just don't make out with chicks while you have an outbrea…
/r/askTRP30/01/16 11:36 PM
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It sounds like she's projecting her own weird insecurities on to you, like she insecure about the way her pussy looks in the light/while it's being used, or... She's not a hoe if nobody can visibly confirm it; it's unlady-like to be a hoe with the lights on. The female ego is a weird, tricky thing.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 10:36 PM
3

Start working on fucking 10 new girls. The closer you get to that goal, the less you'll give a shit about the old one. Lifestyle: stay busy. Use the change in your life to help focus on desired changes.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 10:30 PM
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Let it sit for a bit. Either a few hours or over night. "Lol what" (Whatever she responds with) Meet me at (place) on (day) at (time) She's fishing for validation and bluffing. Let the hamster churn away some more. Hopefully you'll get a couple more spastic texts before you respond
/r/askTRP30/01/16 10:23 PM
2

If I haven't said anything in a while and I need to say something, I picture my old drill sergeant yelling at me to grab my nuts and sound off. You just gotta get in the mood some times. Find a good, clear volume and make it your baseline that you go back to in situations like that.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 10:13 PM
2

Volume of voice and eye contact can be practiced. The anxiety can be hammered out: you need to be in high pressure social situations more often, because you need to retrain your brain to handle these situations comfortably. failing/getting average grades due to my immense procrastination habit.. You lack discipline. You need boundaries and limitations. The boundary right now is where you'll be fine if you squeak by. That's no good, so you need to leave your comfort zone and install the boundarie…
/r/askTRP30/01/16 09:46 PM
2

Take responsibility for the situation. You're the one that's changing, not your roommates, so don't take it out on them. You can use an abundance mentality with friends too. Get some gym/sports bros to hang out with. Having more friends is a positive, and alienating yourself from your roommates is counter productive.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 09:32 PM
1

Men make all the moves. You should've gone for significantly more than a kiss. Have a plan to get her alone near a bed on the first date. We have lots of great guides on the main sub that details exactly how to do this. And the books, Bang and Day Bang are also great resources on this subject. Don't get it twisted: she probably does this every week. And now, there's the third date expectation on her shoulders, so I doubt you'll see her again unless you have a really good hook to open her up and …
/r/askTRP30/01/16 09:22 PM
4

Either fight or become the machine.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 09:53 AM
1

Paaaaaaaaassssssssssssssss
/r/askTRP30/01/16 09:35 AM
1

Everytime I tend to express what I think people should do they get offended for some reason. That's because you're encroaching on their frame. Changing the frame of an interaction can be a noisy, painful process, because everyone feels like they're right. Here's an exercise: develope a rule. Nobody can say (word) to me. If somebody says (word) to me, I just walk away. There's no bigger punishment you can deal to someone than abandonment. It stings. And they'll correct their behavior, if they wan…
/r/askTRP30/01/16 09:24 AM
1

Your frame is how you allow people to interact with you. And if people can't get in your frame, they don't deserve your company. Everyone has frame. Just as you wouldn't tell a 6'5" black man a nigger joke, you wouldn't tell a 65 year old grandmother how your girlfriend is a squirter. These are both examples of frame. People guess how they can approach you. If you stop being a heel and deprive offensive people of your company, they will either never be around you, or they'll change their behavio…
/r/askTRP30/01/16 08:55 AM
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especially by a woman All the more reason to let your actions relay the point over your words.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 06:42 AM
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I would play dumb, claim you forgot about it, and just deflect, or just admit defeat and take the beta route, since you don't have a sexual relationship with this girl, "yeah, nah, you're right. Girl power and stuff." This is incredibly insignificant for anyone else, but it's a dose of reality for a woman that hit the wall a few years ago. Her hamster can't digest it, "if cougars exist, I am or will be a cougar, which is not equal to a 23 year old in SMV, but that's impossible, because I'm (alwa…
/r/askTRP30/01/16 06:01 AM
7

Bender
/r/askTRP30/01/16 05:47 AM
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I am worried that if I continue to see her, I won't be able to completely get over her. You already know the answer. After 5 years? How many other women have you fucked since the break? Pussy is either good or bad, but new good pussy is always the best pussy. Trade in the old girl. Spin plates. If you're incapable of spinning plates while having anything to do with her, next her. Your priority is your ability to spin plates.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 11:57 PM
1

search: text game A lot of successful, smart guys say to call the woman. It's a strong move. Personally, I'm WAY too lazy and uninvested to do that. I send this: "Hey (her name), this is (your name) from (how you know her). (Inside joke or relavent question)" I found this to be the text that urges the girl to respond the most. That first text is made to appear as replyable as possible. her name(personal to her), your name and how you know her(because lots of guys ask her number), and the hook(ea…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 01:30 PM
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Good question! There's one alpha at work: the boss. Don't sweat it. You're going to have to eat a little bit of dick; we all eat a little bit of dick at work, except for those motivated, baller, self-employed motherfuckers that lurk around here. Dude's that try to flex nuts to their boss get fired, if the boss is worth a shit. As for those customer people, if you can detach yourself from the interaction, as to keep your emotions above the situation, as in, "I'm better than dealing with this indi…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 01:19 PM
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The awful quality of your advice, and the lazy lack of structure in your post is going to have the opposite effect of your desire to control OP. All men are like us, to different degrees.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 11:04 AM
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Ideally, the RP solution is to get a small job that'll buy you a gym membership. The greatest lesson you'll learn in the next few years is that you are your own problem, and that you have to do for yourself. Just drop the subject and get it yourself. That's the RP solution. If you're in the middle of nowhere and there's no job and gym within 10 miles, there's still some hope. Get a friend-of-the-family or any other coach or fit adult that can vouche for you. Sometimes it just takes someone that'…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:31 AM
3

How old are you?
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:22 AM
1

This is just a great reaction to a good back handed compliment, "when you make an effort." I'm sure there was a trigger to bring this back to the surface and make her contact you, but to me, that trigger is impossible to devine. It could be a number of things, or even indirect, "what can I say to get his attention without asking for his attention? Oh yeah, I'll use that thing he said because it really stuck." Or, somebody complimented her in how she, "always seems to have great hair." And she wa…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:15 AM
1

I ended up pulling and asking one of the girls to dance with me. they just went cold and just sat there doing nothing. Hence the reason why I pulled her up from her seat and asked her to dance. She refuse and told me that she had a boyfriend Sounds like she was maybe conning the dude for attention and you broke her frame, "No, I'm supposed to be a modest, innocent victim! Dancing makes me look happy and secure!" You "practically raped" her frame. Don't sweat it--she's mentally ill in a entitled/…
/r/askTRP14/11/15 11:58 AM
1

Fair enough, I'd still look into No More Mr Nice Guy's section on healthy sex and masturbation.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 05:26 AM
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I have no experience with boner supps, so I'm just going to focus on the rest of your post. I still g-spot fingered them like crazy and ate them, not for their pleasure but for my own perversity, I enjoy that. I think the approach to the situation you're using is feeding your insecurity. Plan to put your pleasure first(specifically, getting off). Don't be afraid to whip it out and tell her to, "suck that dick." without ever touching her vagina. You want to change your priorities to a more selfis…
/r/askTRP14/11/15 02:45 AM
1

Look up Jim Wendler's programs. His programs are renowned for being effective with minimum effort for "advanced" lifters. If you're legitimately "advanced," his routines are perfect for you.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 02:34 AM
2

Try to say less in general. Cut whatever you can down. As soon as a connection is established, move to logistics and stay on topic. Me: you driving here. We'll switch places. As much as we all enjoyed your wit, pleading with her opened you up to: "then sorry to break it to ya,"; her getting closure. Logistics: even if it's boring--because she's already interested, and the real pleasure is to meet you in person.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 07:28 AM
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There's a dozen texting guides on the main sub. So my question is, wtf do I do now? Devote most of your energy towards developing as many new prospects as possible.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 05:06 AM
2

I understand your plight. Instead of going the non-productive route with sports/games, you could organize something legitimately productive and reward the group with pizza and beer. It should be fine for making friends, so long as it doesn't involve money, and you acquire all the needed materials away from the group. The classic scenario of labor for pizza and beer is helping you move, but it could also cross over to any labor intensive activity. Plan and build something for your backyard or you…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 01:10 AM
1

I keep hearing that. I'm very comfortable with the female condition, actually. This is just chauvinism, and... measured patience. Yeah. My times better spent without bullshit is all.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:58 AM
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I can't have a woman in my personal space any more often than every 72 hours. Jesus, my head would expload. Aaand there's another masturbation pun. But seriously, I'm bitter and I very much prefer not having women around.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:32 AM
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I fantastically disagree with the majority of people here when it comes to masturbation (lol, this may mean I need more hobbies). Our constant obsession with our dicks is from our relationship with testosterone--even babies are frequently caught fondling their bits on ultrasounds. I think beating the meat gets a bad wrap. Bad eyesight? Masturbation. Hairy palms? Masturbation. E.D.? Masturbation. Anti-social behavior? Masturbation. Spanking the monkey is totally natural. We've adapted to work thi…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 07:16 AM
0

How could one marry/love a woman and give all of his love to her when she had her face full of cum from several other guys? A. "Give her all your love" sounds like you want to treat her like your mother. B. You're right. All women are whores. That's the essence of the red pill. Act accordingly. C. That's going to make me gag the next time I read about somebody "choking" on the pill. I wish people cared more about phrasing.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 02:15 AM
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She's already been charmed with him from his text game, game at the party, probably thinks he is good looking, etc. She wouldnt be agreeing to be meeting up with him if she was serious about her loser 'friend' I completely agree. If anything, this is a test to see if she is the alpha she thinks he might be I think it stems more towards her own insecurity. Either way, the conclusion is still the same.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 11:15 PM
1

to not try and charm her pants off please with a winky face. Sounds like a bruised ego. It makes me want to crank it to 10 to make her throw her inhibitions out the window, since her ASD is flairing. Ew, maybe she's on her period.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:34 PM
3

Well, she's working hard to force a BB frame with you. I'd feed into it(verbally agree to her frame, but continue on as normal) and surprise netflix and chill. It's essentially LMR/ASD. The other dude could be her boyfriend back fresh from Afghanistan, for all I can tell. Somebody pumped and dumped this girl recently--it doesn't have to be him.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:14 PM
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That's not a thing and you'd regret it immediately anyways. Fucking your ex is exciting up until you've gotten all the way inside her, and then it's instantly as old as it was the last time you fucked her during the relationship. You already fucked up pulling of the maneuver--don't turn this into a free fall.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 09:50 PM
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Given the nature of of the modern world, I can't imagine she hasn't fucked a few dudes in the time you've known her. I've banged plenty of women that are very involved with their church. I just won't accept it any other way. With or without that consideration, you are deep in the friend zone, partly because of your consistent hesitation and partly because of the circumstances through which you know eachother. She is exploiting the fuck out of your hesitation, and you are hoeing out your time and…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 09:35 PM
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Romantic gestures, and similar things to imply she's moderately special. This is a good read on the subject.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 11:48 AM
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It helps to put bold statements like that in context. "Right now I feel like..." I've never loved anyone like that and will fight for 'us'. But how do You deal with feels? It looks a little like a Stockholm syndrome. You're not far off. You're certainly in an abusive relationship--and don't scoff at that. She is abusive. You know that. And over time, you'll learn to not treat girls like your mother. No woman will ever have your best interests at heart like the one that raised you. The function o…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 11:40 AM
5

Move on.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 11:22 AM
1

Avoid them. And if/when they're unavoidable, avoid your girlfriend. She keeps her around, so it's a strike against her SMV. You can relay that to your girlfriend effectively through your actions(see: dread). If she doesn't take care of that red flag on her own, then you can replace her with two bitches that don't have that baggage. Obviously, you don't verbally communicate any of this to your girlfriend. Why does her friend even have your number? If the answer to that is something along the line…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 11:17 AM
1

There can't be two leaders in a relationship. One has to submit, and if ones a man, that goes against TRPs main focus: strong men. Also, the male and female psyches are different. There's some substance to homosexual game diluting the content of TRP. Roosh's push for neomasculinity was one of his best money grabs. I don't know where I really stand in this, tbh, but homosexual RP has a home already: /r/altTRP
/r/askTRP11/11/15 06:31 AM
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It could be worse. There's guys that don't know about TRP. Don't be mad at her--you gotta put yourself first more often. On the bright side, it's time to get some strange.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 06:12 AM
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He has his own "neomasculinity" thing going. There was a rift in the TRP subreddit--huge drama over accepting homosexuals. Roosh immediately had the answer. It's no different from his gamergate website.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 06:08 AM
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I'm sorry to break this to you, but there is no such thing as a long distance relationship. That’s correct, you have no relationship. An LDR simply does not meet the criteria necessary for it to be considered a legitimate relationship. There is no reciprocity of anything more than words passing over a phone line or an IM text. Understand me here – you have no relationship. You have self-assumed accountability, self-assumed liability and internalized responsibilities to be loyal to this person. Y…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 05:56 AM
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Alright, since he's apparently already aware: you're a ho and there's nothing wrong with that. There's a lot of hoes. And you should run free with the rest of the hoes. Tell him you want a "break" until logistics are more reasonable and sling pussy on Tinder to your hearts content. Do what makes you happy: hoing.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 05:52 AM
1

He capitolizes on everything RP related, basically trying to use whatever he can to turn a profit. He's an annoying, disruptive ho. In my opinion, his books BANG and DAY BANG are the best introduction to TRP money can buy.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 05:46 AM
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Send him here. We can't help you.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 05:37 AM
2

Learn frame and exactly what you're capable of controlling. Roommate keeps you up with video games? Use ear plugs. Friend is a cockblock? Stop being around friend, or learn to use cockblocks. Next where you can, and for everything else, adapt. And for making friends, become the gateway to things they like. Dude loves food? Become the gateway to food. Dude loves pussy? Learn to make female friends/become a great wingman. You've got an entitlement issue. People don't have to do what you say, and i…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 05:09 AM
1

What did you say to her? You got aggressive with him because you were threatened by it.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 04:39 AM
0

Tell her your new circumstances are going to strain the relationship and that ya'll need to go on a break. Dont back down, and if she inquires details(how long, will you be fucking other women, what the fuck is a break) say, "dunno." Or dont respond. From then on, you are clear to spin her, if she wants to be spun, and however many other women you wish to fuck. Just be firm and confident.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 03:14 AM
5

Sure! Basically, some scary dudes that yell a lot will try to stress you out as much as possible, you'll lose weight and gain muscle mass, and make hundreds of friends while you sharpen your social skills. Also, you'll have more structure in your life than you've ever had before, and you'll learn to really appreciate it. And you get to experience awesome shit like firing a rifle and a machine gun. And you get to see explosions and learn the basics of war. The best part of all is that you no long…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 02:47 AM
5

I'm assuming you live at home, and I can gather your grades are shit and you lack a positive male role model... Have you considered getting your GED and joining the army? You could knock that all out in 2016. Positive male role models are everywhere in combat MOS oriented military bases. Your situation sucks, you sound like you may be suffering from neckbeardia, and changing your living situation and nexting people that don't like you is the RP solution. Talk to some recruiters. I was in a simil…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 02:14 AM
1

Just keep the 2/3 rule alive and the vast majority (like 80%+) of your interaction with her should be about fucking. Don't help her move her furniture. Heres a test: would it be weird for you and a couple of her other fuck buddies to be doing this at the same time? Drinks at a bar? A little weird, but plausably okay. Shopping? Weird. Meeting her parents? Pretty fucking weird.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 01:20 AM
1

"Please don't get mushy on me." Was the last thing I sent to something like that. Id ignore that bullshit, but you can take it literal in an omage to Patrice O'Neal, "We're together when we're together"
/r/askTRP11/11/15 12:20 AM
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What do you have to lose? Plates? Emotional stability? Money? Independance? Yeah... been there. Wouldn't recommend it. Here's how it went for me: Her: Hey stick how are you Me: fucking awesome. Come over (Sex; "oh right, I was bored of fucking her. Turns out I still am) Her: I forgive you for making me cheat on you Me: lol bitch pls go Her: no. Commence 2 hour argument about reality vs her reality because I didn't want to forcibly remove her or call the police. Ultimately, I invited the most ski…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 12:13 AM
1

Yoga is good for a basic level of strength. You can find a million different hour-long yoga videos on youtube. It's not a replacement for strength training, though. There's also a book, Convict Conditioning that I've heard good things about.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 12:49 PM
2

Fake it til you make it. Ever been on a date before? It was fun and you were charming, right? Have faith in yourself. Have a step-by-step plan to escalate, up to bedding her. This place, kino, transition, kino, transition, kiss, transition, netflix and chill. Mix it up, live in the moment.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 12:42 PM
1

IMO, modern brats aren't capable of monogomy. That's just my opinion, I hope I'm wrong. Sounds great, and so long you have bail plans and the funds to pull it off, I have nothing else to say other than, "good luck."
/r/askTRP10/11/15 12:36 PM
0

it means perverse, with significant ego problems.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 06:50 AM
0

I don't get what's delusional or perverse about what I'm saying The classic Conservative stance on homosexuality is that it's a mental illness, or a perversion. Assuming that that is correct, then transsexuals would be exceptionally mentally ill. Having faith in, and presenting it as a legitimate sexual orientation would then make one delusional. And you used a whole lot of qualifiers for transsexuals--I had a hard time keeping track of what we were talking about, hence, the "Your cognitive diss…
/r/askTRP10/11/15 05:01 AM
1

It's a Conservative thing, which has a large presence in TRP. Your posts sound egotistical, perverse and delusional.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 04:41 AM
0

You're basing this on the assumption that we give a shit about any of the members, which we do, but only if they put out good content. This isn't a club. This hypothetical tranny could post whatever they wanted, so long as it's relavent, quality and followed the rules. The main rule that I think a person like that would trip over immediately would be attention whoring, which would get them banned. There's guidelines for female posters--they'd be the most relavent. Now, assuming this hypothetical…
/r/askTRP10/11/15 04:27 AM
2

It's nice, but it's no replacement for strength training.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 03:54 AM
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It's for "alternative lifestyles" and I stopped reading at "females with dysphoria" This conversation is only going to be upsetting for you if we continue it.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 03:53 AM
2

Talk to a doctor. I feel like getting one in your late teens/early 20's would be frowned upon If a doctor tells you you're too young, talk to another doctor. Other than him, you don't have to tell a soul you got a vasectomy.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 03:50 AM
3

Somebody made a subreddit for homosexuals called /r/altTRP
/r/askTRP10/11/15 03:42 AM
1

I never game gaggles of girls during the day. It always turns into a game of cat and mouse, because one can't look like a slut in front of the other one. Imo should've left with your friend after trying to get one of their numbers. How old do I look? Amusingly, don't tell them shit. It drives their bratty minds crazy. Cat and mouse. You get this sometimes one-on-one, but only because she's not that intrigued by you yet. They'll say something along the lines, but less offensive, of, "none of your…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 11:25 PM
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I wouldn't take it. Men are much more bound to gratitude, since honor is a male concept. Women get away with free lunches constantly because they're entitled, spoiled brats(AWALT). They see gifts like that as tributes,(sometimes) even if it's a specifically established loan. The only way you can get away from the obligation of gratitude is if you can swing it as a tribute, but even that's hard, because (see above). Bonus: something along the lines of, "maybe." It's always good to have a back up …
/r/askTRP09/11/15 11:17 PM
5

Hair growth products that work kill your boner. 2nd hand info--welcome to the buzzed club.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:19 AM
3

Yeah, definetly then. She sounds like a thirsty bitch.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 12:55 AM
3

Well, you didn't give us any conversational context, but it looks like hamster byproduct she's invested her ego into. It's literally nonsense that she thinks makes her valuable, like a golden calf of being a brat. Possibly a red flag.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 12:52 AM
1

Same. It just gets easier with time, because you forget what it was like being able to have faith in somebody. And take comfort in that the best thing for you is being self sufficient. You gotta break off the teet eventually. It's not all bad. We just can't have that. Oh well.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 10:59 PM
3

weirdest example of ASD ever. Women frequently trigger their own ASD, and I think that's what happened, unless she's truly fucked up and was puting up LMR so that she didn't have to sit through you finishing, and she's just a mentally ill selfish cunt. I'm a dirty whore Yes, you are! crying A woman's ego is fucking tramendous. ASD or LMR, I'd fucking baaaaiiilll
/r/askTRP08/11/15 10:53 PM
1

It's looked down on everywhere. Everything just has a jesus theme in the bible belt.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 09:35 PM
1

Sounds significant. There's not a whole lot of context here.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 09:30 PM
1

Same ol' same ol', fuck ten women and learn to live with it. Kids don't play a direct part on your SMV. They're like a passive comfort test, which could be good or bad. The girls that like you and find out, will get a bit more clingy. The girls that don't like you and find out, will think you'd be too much work. The solution is the same as always: be self sufficient, and be attractive. Hit the gym, get a tan, yatta yatta. I'd worry about employment first.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 04:49 AM
1

Maybe. It'd be silly to assume all men are just like me, but I'm thinking the significantly different ones are going to be like 0.5%-10%, and the ones that ONLY are aroused by PiV sex are that 0.5%. It's about what's optimal, and some guys take it way overboard. milo yiannopoulos is a great spokesperson for "homosexuality as a choice" Ego investment is a very real thing. Rollo goes on about it. This is a good read, also the wiki page for humility. Then again, I could be completely full of shit. …
/r/askTRP08/11/15 04:15 AM
1

However, your point was that all men are at least a little gay, or can be gay if they choose, and my point is, that is not true, at least for me. Ron White's point is that everybody is a little gay. My point(on that) is that he sorta understood the idea, and that most of the people in the crowd cheering for him understood there's something there too. My main point is that it's (mostly)a choice(though, I use the word loosely). It is akin to beastiality, which I think is why sodomy is compared to …
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:59 AM
1

Should I want to fuck my dog too? What is the difference between being repulsed by fucking a dog and a man because it is unnatural for me? Are they not both "warm holes"? I'm glad you asked! As a matter of fact, there are lots of people that do that type of shit. And if you can appreciate mental illness and frustration, you can understand why middle easterners have earned the name, "goat fuckers!" Because Islam is a strict, ugly bitch, and no plates spin in Afghanistan. And just as you're a masc…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:31 AM
0

For us to use you as a subject for this, we have to talk about ego investment. You're biased, because it would harm your image if you enjoyed sex with a man. It's offensive to you. You demonstrated that in a locker room and a dance floor. You could've handled the former much less aggressively if you wanted to opt out.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:06 AM
1

Have you ever turned off a woman below your SMV? Could you imagine Brad Pitt or Channing Tatum managing to turn off a woman? Or just offending a woman to the point where she wouldn't want to fuck them? Or perhaps a woman that's a bit delusional? We can stop this at any time. I'm only arguing for arguments sake. Just to prove my point. And to me, the term, "homophobic" is nonsensical, because it'd be, "fear of a mentally ill person's ego.", which nobody admits to anyways. Have you ever heard Ron …
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:50 AM
0

Sounds like part insecurity and part lack of incentive. I completely believe you that you've never been attracted to a man, but given the right one at the right place, with spectacular game, and a few beers(to loosen up), you may get turned on. Personally, I've come to terms with that reality about me. I'm just very comfortable with what I have already.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:25 AM
1

I don't think so. Have you ever tried to be homosexual? Why in the fuck wouldn't you choose to be homosexual as a man in a modern 1st world society? Your life improves almost exponentially as a homosexual man in any major metropolitan city. More, easier sex. More closely connected social network. Instant equality. Take advantage of quotas at universities and getting jobs. And cease having to deal with women... Why would you possibly choose to remain heterosexual?... It makes zero sense, outside …
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:17 AM
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I think every straight man has stopped for a moment in his life and asked himself "am I gay?" followed by thinking of engaging in gay acts, and then being disgusted by it, "nope not ever getting hard for that" Ah, the Bill Burr Theory. Societal factors still matter. And the male may have had easy access to hot females, but we're steered clear of any homosexual activity, and seen the shame associated with it. There are cultures where gay pedophilia is a rite of passage, and every single male has …
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:00 AM
1

Yeah, it sounds like you're self conscious. When you get an erection with her, and you first feel that need, isolate that feeling and follow through with whatever it's telling you. Throw everything else to the wind. It also may help to let her take charge, as in, let her slob your knob early.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 01:38 AM
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If you're not fucking her, she's not your plate. She wasn't even on the stick, let alone spinning. I'm sorry you had to break it off with your BFF, but you were just girlfriends.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 12:49 AM
0

Prepare for the least PC thing I'll probably post on TRP: Homosexuality is(mostly) a choice. People inflate the significance of sticking things in other people's things because of old religious rules, and because people are particularly vain. This vanity assigns significance to your particular favorite type of wet hole, attaching it to your identity and investing it in your ego. Vanity has gotten especially bad since the invention of the internet, and easy access to cameras. It poisons everythin…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 12:24 AM
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It's easier to hang out with women because there's always a reason: you want to diddle her. To hang out with men, you just need a reason. Organize something. It could be to play a sport, to check out a bar, to signe up for a class... anything. Instead of... hey bro, could I get your number? Use... I'm trying to get (activity going) on (day). Want to join in? "maybe. Who else is going?" so far, you, if you're down. I'm going to invite a few more dudes. If you want to give me your number, I can le…
/r/askTRP07/11/15 11:50 PM
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Lie.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 11:43 PM
2

Hopefully a bilingual person can help. The book DAY BANG can help your situation alot. I'd say just keep practicing. Slow down, and if you choke, ask yourself, "who, what, why, when, where, how?"
/r/askTRP07/11/15 11:41 PM
2

TRY
/r/askTRP07/11/15 11:17 PM
1

Why am I not alpha enough for her to still want me from far away? It doesn't work like that for anybody ever. How could she go from loving me and saying I was her everything to almost complete indifference so quickly? My brain is doing a number on me. Calm the fuck down. It's time to grow up. It fucking hurts. She's all I think about. It passes. So, I have decided the best thing possible for me is to go monk mode No, you've decided the best thing is to crawl into a corner and lick your wounds. Y…
/r/askTRP07/11/15 11:16 PM
1

Don't throw TRP at him. It's much more effective when people seek it out. Instead, force an abundance mentality on him. Bring him around better quality women, and have fun with him. Don't tell him shit. Just invite him along. Let him realize he has options.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 10:42 PM
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This happens to most guys. Try to be more selfish and do less foreplay. If you're focusing on your performance too much, you can become self conscious. Don't focus on her pleasure at all. Feel the NEED to fuck her and follow through. Let nature take its course. The sad reality is that sometimes she's either not attractive enough or she weighs too much or she's too loose. Going condom free can help, but you'd probably be better off just replacing her, if you rule out being self conscious.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 10:34 PM
1

Do funner things and get better friends. If you want to play basketball, make friends at the court or the gym. If you want to hit the bars, make friends at bars.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 10:28 PM
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Don't go and never talk to her again... go meet new women instead and pull some numbers. If you're depressed, take a full day to mope around, and then go work on being self sufficient like any well adjusted man.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 10:21 PM
2

Don't compromise your relationship with your sponsor. The program comes first, because you are powerless over your addiction. Commit to it however you feel you need to, but commit 100% to it regardless--even if they shit on TRP. You need this program. Get through the program. You are powerless over your addiction. You've hit rock bottom. Now that I've beaten the shit out of that dead horse... for that writing prompt, there is a middle ground in TRP that is extremely fair to both sexes. Find that…
/r/askTRP07/11/15 10:19 AM
2

In about 2 days, "hey jane, this is john. (Inside joke or relavent question she'll blab about)" Wrap that up in 1-2 texts and go straight to logistics. Or just call them. Shooters choice.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 09:58 AM
1

All but disregard her. are we still on for dinner? Maybe You're going to have to play it by ear after dinner. If she never mentions her boyfriend, take it to 100 fast. Fuck her while the foods cooking. If she's leaning on the BF thing a bunch, eat and then netflix and chill.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 09:55 AM
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it shows that her comfort in respect to this situation isn't important to you, which implies that you have alternatives to her of equal or greater value(abundance), which suggests that your SMV is adequate. If you had passed the comfort test, she'd be less likely to fuck you and more likely to ask you to do stuff for her.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:58 AM
1

Most women are "taken" and asking if she has a boyfriend would only indicate how far away he is, and how much she wants to fuck you. It could also look like hesitation, which lowers your SMV, and stunts any game you would have laid down after that point, if you chose to peruse anyways, "he's been in Alaska for 6 months."
/r/askTRP06/11/15 05:30 AM
1

Yep, and I just learned a phrase.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 05:27 AM
4

virgins may have a hymen Yes.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 05:23 AM
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she just didn't want me more mad at her so she didn't tell me. "Right now I feel like..." (I) would never do that to (you) It definitely looks like she cheated on me I want to believe her I want her to not have cheated on me, but I know she did. She told me she didn't because she "doesn't want me to be mad at her." Pull the bandaid now, because it's only going to hurt more the longer you wait. Edit: I should add, your problem isn't your situation: it's that you're gullible and you're fooling you…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 05:17 AM
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Men don't have a virginity to give, and virgin females may have a hymen, which can play a SMALL part in her being a reliable wife.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 05:09 AM
1

If it starts with, "let me show you..." Respond with, "what make you think I l..." amused. If it's just, "those pants need a belt." Or something along those lines, just ignore her, or continue to pleasently not listen. And if it gets bad, just deprive her of your attention altogether. Absence speaks loudly.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:38 AM
1

The only thing you can do is completely disregard it and never speak of it again. If you can give your SMV a spike, you may go for an alpha pass. Women don't mind these things from dudes they really want to fuck. If you're puting off a haircut or buying a new wardrobe, nows the time to get them.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:03 AM
2

Emotional IQ sounds like a Facebook quiz. Buy BANG and DAY BANG. You sound like you just need to seem less thirsty.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:36 AM
3

Failed comfort test. That's a good thing.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:12 AM
3

I'm actually a Labrador. Chasing tail is chasing tail though, amiright?
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:06 AM
3

Do it more and don't apologize/admit guilt/make excuses/explain yourself, "because that's just how long it takes."
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:03 AM
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Do what you like, man. IMHO, it's much more fulfilling to be honest and spin plates though. There's ofcourse the chance she'll bail, but that chance is there already. Why lie? Lying is work.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:00 AM
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I'm no expert on diseases, but I think we could help you on your problem with your priorities, friend. http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/20/letting-go-of-invisible-friend/
/r/askTRP06/11/15 02:55 AM
2

About 50% to 80% of U.S. adults have oral herpes. According to the National Institutes of Health (NIH), by age 50, about 90% of adults have been exposed to the virus. Once infected, a person will have the herpes simplex virus for the rest of his or her life. I haven't given it to anybody, as far as I know. I was telling women for the first few months, but after a bunch of, "already got it." And "no big deal. Errybody got it." I stopped bothering. Imo, just don't kiss anybody while you have an ou…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 02:16 AM
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I got it nearly 3 years ago. One quick outbreak and never had another. I wouldn't sweat it. Just keep it dry and wash your face alot.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 02:08 AM
1

Give more context
/r/askTRP06/11/15 02:02 AM
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That was too overt, don't talk like that in a day game scenario, don't flirt with groups in day game scenarios, and don't shit where you eat. Her ego was threatened by her ASD, and now she's probably going to tell everybody you practically raped her because it'll inflate her ego over "how innocent and desired" She is. I highly recommend acting like this never hapenned. The only chance of this going away is if she loses interest. Do not engage, do not admit to anything, never, ever bring it up ag…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 05:15 AM
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I’m not using TRP as a way to plate women and get laid. I’m using it to better understand women’s mindsets and how to treat/deal with them. That's not a productive way to think of Plate Theory. TRP is a universal instruction manual to optimize sex with partners you want to fuck. Married red pills can benefit from understanding plate theory, because even husband's need a grasp on abundance mentality, as you need to be equipped to facilitate all levels of dread, and the ultimate punishment for a w…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:54 AM
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Persuing her will be a waste of time that will only inflate her ego. And she'll order front row seats to this, but never take you back. For these scenarios to play out in your favor, she can't be the one that broke off contact, and she'd have to be the one seeking you out. It's a power play, and although you don't care about that, she's wired to care about that, so it's best to move on.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 03:40 AM
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that's racist K Affleck is vain and ignorant, as any A-list actor should be. Of all people, I'm surprised Sam Harris talked to him on that level. I mean, I know that's what Sam does for a living, and he's amazing at it, but I know he's more talented than what he showed that night. Hitchens definetly wouldn't of let Affleck get away with that... but he also probably wouldn't of tolerated Maher again either.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 09:12 AM
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Sociopaths tend to be nervous and easily agitated. They are volatile and prone to emotional outbursts, including fits of rage. They are likely to be uneducated and live on the fringes of society, unable to hold down a steady job or stay in one place for very long. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/wicked-deeds/201401/how-tell-sociopath-psychopath
/r/askTRP03/11/15 06:40 AM
1

They don't function well in groups. They can't hold most jobs.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 06:33 AM
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Just don't give him reason or opportunity to do it, and take comfort in it. Typically, psychopaths rise to the top, and sociopaths fall out. He'll be gone soon. And if he actually was a psychopath out to get you, your life would be ruined before you figured it out. As a very large man that's been lifting for a good while now, I get the opposite vibe from some people--that they're uncomfortable when I'm in the doorway, or they get way, way out of the way when I pass them in the hallway, or just a…
/r/askTRP03/11/15 05:21 AM
1

The term, "frame" is subjective, as in, it can be applied to any social rules, even BP ones. Not being able to call a whore, "a whore" on a college campus without getting lynched would be an example of the campus' frame. Holding purely RP frame would get an attractive man laid frequently, but would make the hoes run as well. That being said, only a sociopath could be completely "alpha" in that context. Almost nobody in TRP can be purely RP. Basically, passing any comfort test would keep a plate …
/r/askTRP02/11/15 11:31 PM
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The thing about kids is it's like a giant, passive comfort test. If the father is already high SMV, and the kids aren't awful and ugly, then women will move in and try to take over as bottom bitch. I have a couple friends living with EXTREMELY clingy women right now, that are going through this. Amiri King, the guy I linked to, reminds me a lot of one of them. Alternatively, if the father is low SMV, then those kids are going to look like tramendous baggage. Comparitively, cute, well behaved kid…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 11:10 PM
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Relationships can have a balance between RP and BP. If you want plates to stick around longer, you have to compromise, but the longer she sticks around, and the more you compromise, at some point, she'll be your only "plate" and threatening to leave you if you don't wife her. Plates fall, and you have to sacrifice TRP/independance to stop them.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:14 AM
1

I don't think I've seen it. I work with mostly women (it's as awful as it sounds), so I'll share my insight... If the favor she asked for doesn't have, "please" in it, she's not asking. She's trying to make her work that she wants help with into your work. Say, "no." And when she says why, ask her, "did you ask me for a favor? I didn't hear a please." I started telling skanks, "say please." But, "the thing is full. scoff please!" Doesn't really fix the problem and they go back to their shitty be…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:48 AM
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Just be straight forward. You handled the, "I love you" expertly. The make or break phrase that is key to spinning plates: if this isn't what you're looking for, I'm not the man for you. confidently, and unapologetically. Fair as fuck, too.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:29 AM
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Right now: "I feel like I need to know and I don't know why" Six months from now: "There's a guy that comes to the girl's spot on the beach with gorgeous hair. He'd never need a hair transplant." Him: "bitch, wtf?" You: "Omg I'm just stating a fact. Don't get so insecure!" You, a year from now, in a fight: "fuck you! You have a little dick and you're bald!" Spoiler: you're fishing for SMV ammo. If you're happy, I strongly suggest backing off from this thing he's so insecure about as to pay tons …
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:11 AM
1

Simple enough, then. Your priorities are all out of whack. Focus on cumming. Don't spend any time on her at all. She's there to be used. As soon as you feel the need, whip out your dick and tell her to, "suck this dick." You've passed the point of anything being awkward, so any obscene advance should be gravy. And focus on fucking other women too. This can't be cured quickly, so spread that seed.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:20 AM
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The sensation isn't high enough, and you're probably self conscious, or you just don't want to fuck her. Fixable solutions: change the setting and the pretext. Switch rooms, if you're fucking in the house you just spent 4 hours cleaning and your mom just visited, or her room is pink and full of pictures of kids, it'd be understandable for you to have performance issues. Do less foreplay. Be selfish, try dirty talk("suck that fat dick, bitch!"). Change your mood. Consider ditching the condom. Unf…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 12:03 AM
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Sounds hilarious. First, I NEVER fall asleep at a party unless there's a locked door seperating me from the other douchebags. That's just asking for it. I've seen and done a lot of shit like this. Secondly, play it off, A&A, and forget it hapenned. "Aww.. I got an admirer. I wouldve prefered roses or candy, but I guess everyone expresses their affection differently. Compliment accepted. Lol, he's going to be really disapointed when he finds out I'm not gay." There's fights to pick, and this coul…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 10:42 PM
2

I do something similar to 5x5, but tweaked for weekly progression. Effective beginner routines utilize a method called "linear progression" used to make daily progress, which means, while following an ABA/BAB routine, you're increasing the weight you use every day until you platue. It's effective, if you're gaining weight. If you're not gaining weight, nothings effective, unless you're a novice, in which case, riding a bike can increase your bench press. The exercises you pick to go in your A an…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 10:18 PM
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I'm going to give you advice that conflicts with most of the stuff in the last thread and probably a few posts that will pop up here, so I implore you to take everything I say, and the others say, with a grain of salt. Women have a virginity, so you are legit taking something from her, and it's usually a big deal. However, given the attitude of her friends, I doubt what you do now is going to matter at all in a year or two, so carry on. Sex is transactional, and women are wired to maximize profi…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 09:58 PM
4

You're, unfortunately, preoccupied.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 09:16 PM
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Not really. Just don't become one of the people that will inevitably be competing for his attention in the sympathy Olympics. If anything, invite him out and don't bring it up, so he can try to enjoy the quality of life he had before her death.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 07:27 AM
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I hate wasting money on entitled whores. Strip clubs are full of depressed men wasting money on entitled whores on a whole new level. Strip clubs are fucking sad and I hate them. ... Great for bachelor parties, though. I paid a hot black woman to stick her butt cheeks in a neckbearded coworker's face once. He'll never be in that position again.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 07:11 AM
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Instead of changing who /u/wonderingon1 is, focus your energy towards changing what /u/wonderingon1 does. Stop pushing away your social circle, go to the gym, do awesome things, and do social things. You don't have to push away friends that aren't doing what you want to do. If you have time to give them, give it to them. If you dont want to always be one of four guys sitting on your friend's couch every Friday night playing Halo, then start by having something better to do on Friday night. You'r…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 06:56 AM
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We all have to learn the hard way how this works, and this is that moment for you. I wish there was something else I can tell you--like how not all women are like that, or that this is just a phase, or anything else that would make marrige viable, but it's just not. I really, really want to be wrong, but TRP is truth. She's a whore, and you need to split before splitting becomes even more painful. Good luck, man. Keep your head up: spinning plates can be nice.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 06:26 AM
1

There's rules against attention whoring. Your age or the status of your haimen are irrelevant to your question. You've probably gotten a message detailing why you're not allowed to post. The info you're looking for is probably clearly laid out on their sidebar.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 02:21 AM
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/r/redpillwomen , look at their content before posting
/r/askTRP01/11/15 02:10 AM
6

Cardio
/r/askTRP01/11/15 01:33 AM
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I know that I should hold frame and ignore this shit Ah, good. He came to us at the right moment. but goddammit I don't want to associate with people who treat me like I don't exist so I told them that she can go fuckherself because I could be somewhere else, lost time because of her and deleted her from facebook God dammit. Nevermind. Massive loss of frame, and potentially exactly what she wanted. Pretend like all this never happened and move. Don't even attempt to repair the damage to your ima…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 01:17 AM
3

Yes
/r/askTRP31/10/15 10:29 PM
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Make awesome solo plans in group settings, and invite others. If nobody shows, that's okay. Fake it til you make it, but also, have fun and leave your comfort zone.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 09:59 PM
1

As gay as this sounds, my go-to is paintings, because shitty paintings are in every building. It can be anything you're able to ramble about, that leads to something interesting about you. blah blah blah painting oh you paint? blah blah blah in Rio De Janeiro You've been to Brazil? blah blah blah like this back home Oh, where you from? Blah blah blah architecture you're an architect? The point is to spike her interest while you're bullshitting. Alternatively, ask her something she'd have an opin…
/r/askTRP31/10/15 02:24 AM
1

I was fucking with him by asking for his number. I don't actually have a copy of DAY BANG. For day game, you want to make it seem like you have a reason to talk to her other than for the fact she has an ax wound, so introducing yourself to a boring whore with no pretext is a bad idea. Strike up a casual conversation like in my first post, and don't deviate from the impersonal subject matter until she starts asking questions about you/shows IOIs.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 12:42 AM
1

Nah, you've got a good point. If the prop is better, or more interesting, and the situation is more natural, then pick up is all the more natural. And if she's attracted to you, and you got her hooked with the subject, how lame the prop is won't matter at a certain point. Have you read DAY BANG? It's really good on this subject. You seem like a cool dude, and I actually have a spare copy I can lend you, if you want to give me your number.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 11:39 PM
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A man stands behind a woman in line at the bank. While looking for props, he sees a mediocre painting hanging on the wall. "Excuse me, miss. What do you think of that painting?" He says. She looks at the painting and politely replies, "it's ok, I guess." "I can't tell if it's really good or really bad. It's boring, but you can tell the artist put a lot of work into it." He says, staring at the painting. The woman is confused, he's a grown man, and he's probably hitting on her, but he hasn't made…
/r/askTRP30/10/15 11:00 PM
1

I know that neediness isn't going anywhere, so channel that energy focused on getting A female to getting TEN females; abundance mentality. You'll do fine. Don't sweat it. Wear a condom.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 10:43 PM
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This is really simple golden ratio stuff: be selfish. If you want sex, whip your dick out instead of doing 30 minutes of foreplay and trying to make her cum. You're giving her every reason to be an entitled whore.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 04:16 AM
2

As hopeless as it is, there's a part of all of us that wants the MRAs to make ground in the fight against female sexual strategy. They can't win, but it would be nice. GamerGate falls under the MRA fight because the gaming websites all post feminist articles that throw average dudes under the bus for that sweet, sweet victim validation. The five guys controversy is mostly irrelevant--its just the most legitimate of a claim that could make sense to the public. As for why we have anything to do wi…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 10:38 PM
24

I first burst into a vagina right before my 21st birthday, as a freshly disabled veteran right out the U.S. Army. Do you still feel anger over those teams I don't know what this sentence was even supposed to mean. I was a certified neckbeard in high school. Like really, it was fucking official. If I had gone professional, I would've won an award for being such a neckbeard. I didn't feel any anger towards women--I knew I was socially inept. Thank god for the army because it kicked my ass and turn…
/r/askTRP28/10/15 07:20 AM
1

The whole interaction seemed fine, but boring. If she's dating from tinder, she's on the CC, and where guys have been smashing her same-night, you're one of the "coffee and side hug" guys. So if you're just looking for one-time hugs, you're killing it. She may never see you again because there's dozens of dudes willing to buy her coffee and entertain her. Don't aime for a hug or a kiss at the end of a date. Aime for a bed. If you dont have a plan or time to execute it, don't meet them. I went on…
/r/askTRP28/10/15 01:04 AM
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/r/askTRP28/10/15 12:06 AM
3

That is the subject of alot of debates here. There's the nofap folks, and there's the "no porn" folks. Given how natural it is, I think it's silly to sware it off completely. Also, I've personally experienced physical problems from not shaking hands with the president from my time in the Army, but that also could've been mitigated from sex. The positive effects from avoiding porn are undeniable. And it's a thing only recently introduced to the human species, so it also sticks out like a soar thu…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 10:44 PM
1

Firstly, even if you do manage to make her beg to come out with you instead, the war is lost. This girl's worthless to your future, so I wouldn't bother. As for how to dread game with this situation, focus on making your own big ass plans to be surrounded by ready, hot pussy. Devote a tremendous amount of your time and energy into having an amazing time on Halloween, and make her feel your lack of presence on on these days leading up to halloween. Make blow out plans and start looking for replac…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 10:28 PM
3

I just can't picture that. Surely OP isn't that badly off--surely.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:25 AM
7

OP, she is not wife material. You shouldn't of even moved her in, holy shit. Downgrade downgrade downgrade Her:"I'm watching my show" Red flag. Either you're doing this too often, which gives her power, or she's just not interested. Either way, she is toxic and you've allowed her to take ground from you that you can NEVER recover. I (hear) her High Heeled boots stomping around the house. She comes into the room and says she's going out Do I need to even say anything? She put her fuck-me shoes on…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 01:30 AM
1

For what? Work? Or cat videos and facebook? It's too well timed. I don't buy it.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 05:55 AM
2

So you're calling instead of texting? Give as much detail as you can. I'm not a fan of talking on the phone (modern spoiled problems), so my texting game starts like this: Hey Jane, this is Joe. (Inside joke or relavent question) The funnier/more relavent that first text is, the better, because that first text is your foot in the door. Recently, a girl I met had mentioned she sings in plays, which i got the impression she cares alot about. I texted her: Hey (girl), this is (stick). Hows the sing…
/r/askTRP26/10/15 12:37 AM
3

Dayamn, you shut me up. You're killing it. OP, we're always going to be chasing women. Even if you think you don't have to, women need the ego boost of being chased--that'll never go away. Reflect inwardly. You're accomplishing alot, definetly worth some pride. And you're in your fourth year--how long are you staying in? It'd be a shame to transfer out now. As for your reputation, the great thing about TRP is the power to next. Mingle with folks outside your social circle. Bad friends? Replace '…
/r/askTRP25/10/15 03:51 AM
3

This just can't be healthy and I feel like I need a fresh start somewhere else And then what? Hit the reset button there too? Life isn't that easy and you're finding it out the hard way--the same as anyone else. Man up and muscle through it. But my mental health is suffering here. I'm already in therapy. You have ego issues. I can't help you--you need to build some character. Stop whining and do work.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 02:49 AM
2

What are you sending them and why do you think this is happening?
/r/askTRP25/10/15 01:34 AM
0

Then just now she texted me asking me for the Wi-Fi network saying it wasn't working. Sounds like bullshit to me, and an excuse to get me to respond, but I gave it to her just in case she rely needs it Failed dread game. This is when your phone should've magically died, or was seen but forgotten because you were busy with your cousin, or didn't hear it go off. Don't show your hand so easily. I'd stay out later than planned tonight. And when she inquires (in person), "phone died and it just took …
/r/askTRP25/10/15 12:55 AM
3

Get more women. Go chase some tail.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 12:49 AM
2

Try initiating more often. Make it your day. Want to go to the beach? Plan a day and invite 5-10 people. Want to play basketball? Invite the world. And if nobody says yes, GO ALONE. This shits gonna happen.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 12:41 AM
1

Frame is a set of circumstances through which you allow others to interact with you. A loss of frame is a compromise in those standards. And tantrums are the shrieks of vanity and entitlement, where a stoic indifference is the sign of pride, humility and an abundance mentality. A whiney, bitchy frame is still a frame, but an unattractively vain one.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 10:25 PM
0

I've never read Models. Neither of these books are specifically RP, and the answer doesn't seem terribly obvious to me, so... meh, dunno.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 03:49 AM
3

The nofap usually disagree, but No More Mr. Nice Guy had some solid insight on this: it's fine so long as it doesn't involve porn or fantasies, and you shouldn't feel compelled to get off every time you shake hands with the president.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 02:51 AM
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She’s claiming that I'm very distant and uncaring of her emotional state or feelings That's essentially what you're aiming for. her emotional state or feelings Translation: her frame. If you're having trouble seeming too busy for her BS, become more busy. And have an alibi for everything. The problem with not being RP from the start is you're giving the bitch standards. Banter over text? Shes going to notice you're pulling some shit when you 180° to just logistics. Make small changes, and ramp t…
/r/askTRP24/10/15 02:25 AM
1

Demonstrate abundance/outcome independance by not responding. Imo, your best bet is to wait for the "I see you didn't respond. Hope you're not mad" text in a few days and try to escalate, "Np" good "friends?" sure! (Logistics)
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:48 PM
2

I'm viewing this as though neither has enough interest to go for the kill. Thats probably exactly the impression they wanted to give. Gaggles of women tend to get in value pissing contests, if that makes any sense. Like a shit test caught in a loop between two hoes. This is exactly why I don't approach groups unless I have a very obvious and commanding upper hand.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 08:21 AM
1

The assault makes a lot of sense. She's a deranged brat that will never surrender. Initiating closure could have bruised her ego further. You acting like an adult with solid frame hurts her ego, because in her reality, she is perfect, and that's a fight because she's not. Hitting/B&E was her parent's fault--she lacked a positive male role model that wouldn't do/stand for that shit. If you cave and give her closure, she'd probably go away--unless your unwillingness to fuck her again also bruises …
/r/askTRP23/10/15 05:41 AM
2

The ultimate goal of "closure" is to convince you that she's innocent and you're the bad guy. If she can't get that, there's only a few runner-ups that'd come close to giving her ego the support it needs. Another woman you've slept with would be very high on that list.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 05:13 AM
1

Imo your ex was just feeding her hamster by bad mouthing you and pulling as many people as possible into her reality. She got arrested, so her ego took a hit. All women have to compensate for a bruised ego. Also, dumping her robbed her of what women refer to as, "closure." Closure is actually a woman making "sense" of a situation by fitting it to how nothing is her fault. Women truly have insatiable egos.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:41 AM
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Alternatively, stop letting hoes spend the night.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:36 AM
13

There's a solid chance she wasn't actually bleeding. I personally DGAF about that, and half the time I discover it's a lie. She deceived you regardless, which means she either wanted to be able to turn you down because she felt she's cheap, which she is, or her period hit and it became hamster fuel, "I'm not a ho because I can't fuck him because period." And didn't tell you because she also knew it'd make you turn her down. It's a comfort test, which you failed, which isn't a bad thing if you wa…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:32 AM
1

Give more credit to the term sexual favor. If you follow the 2/3 rule, she'll be more inclined to initiate. And if the point in which you usually initiate comes up and you instead turn her down, she may want to suck your D with no expectations of reciprocation. Picture ya'll laying in the bed. She asks if you want to screw around, "I would, but I'm too tired."--let her escalate, let her chase you. I, however, care about her pleasure maybe too much. I edge her while rubbing her clit many times so…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 10:48 PM
1

It depends on how the information is revealed: vanity vs pride/humility. It's more effective to let people discover you're valuable with your actions over telling them. She was skeptical, or uninterested, probably the former.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:26 PM
4

You go out to drink every night with a new tinder girl? Shit test. yep. Sometimes two in one night Passed, but with unnecessary elaboration. Less is more. How many are showing up tonight? Shes challenging the frame of being in a gaggle of hoes competing for your affection. The idea turned her off.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 06:46 PM
1

I really don't know what would be best for virgins. As an idealist, I want everyone except the truly hopeless to wait until marrige, but that wouldn't be best for everyone. To each, their own, I suppose.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:51 AM
1

Who knows maybe you guys can help make marriage a viable institution again or bring back free speech to university campuses. HAH! Let's be honest: MRAs will never get anything done because they're "men" that fight like women. And call me a pessimist, but I don't see the situation improving until the free world gets a GIANT foot in the ass and Men start taking the reigns. We need about 5 more Putins.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 03:21 AM
2

What do you want to happen? Isolate that and throw it in the trash. Move on.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 02:31 AM
1

Yes, all exercises can hurt you, though squats have hurt me the least out of everything else I do, aside from maybe chin ups. Fake it til you make it. When setting a new PR, I like to tell myself, "this is going to be my 185 soon" as in, 185 lbs was hard at some point with everything i do except deadlifts--now I'm far past that. Men make the plans--best I got. You're young--spin plates. There's tons of resources on spinning plates on the main sub.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 02:29 AM
3

Sometimes virgins also just wait for a "sure thing" that none of her friends/family know. They just throw their virginity at a stranger that doesn't seem like he's going to make a big deal over her/her virginity, challenging her social contracts. If you can give her incentive and look as much like a good branch to swing to as possible, you can be the cristener of her ride on the CC.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 02:22 AM
1

About once/a week. Aime for something near your house and plan on luring her to your bed with sexual tension and attractive lures as plausable deniability.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 08:11 PM
2

There's many different ways to interpret this because there's many different outcomes. Picture dropping some bacon in the ocean--something will eat it, but what? Shit/comfort tests are often just as vague. I'd mix it up a bit. Feed her the answer that fits the frame of the relationship, but also the recent frame of ya'lls interaction as of late. Just stay calm and usually put yourself first.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 07:43 PM
1

The main sub side bar, the rational male (book or blog), and BANG by Roosh.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 06:23 PM
0

Magazines/news papers, or the online equivalent to talk about shit without getting too personal. Hobbies can make you more interesting.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 01:47 AM
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I don't know if I'd call that an alpha widow, but I can make three observations: She's very aware of alternatives to you, she hasn't had 9 sex partners, and you praise her more than you should. She's a bad investment.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 01:37 AM
3

The book Starting Strength gets very, very specific. I like exrx.net
/r/askTRP18/10/15 08:14 PM
1

Actively make an effort to be with 10 different women. Time and poon cures heart ache.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 02:25 AM
1

You're approaching from a point of weakness, but it's not all bad. If you give her incentive to "allow" you to court her, i.e. you mention you travel for work, she inquires what you do, and then she starts rattling off IOIs and personal questions, you'll know you're in the clear.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 10:44 PM
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