Only LTRs

abdada · 2017-03-16T15:31:53+00:00

You can't vet a girl for LTR without comparing her to other women you are actively considering LTR status with.

All of my best LTRs started out as plates. All of the plates I thought would be the best LTRs failed me in some way and were let go of.

Are you a fat lazy video gamer fuck?

MrTyler_Durden · 2017-03-16T15:39:26+00:00

Read my post on the main sub called "How to Date Correctly."

SeamusAwl · 2017-03-16T17:06:57+00:00

Why dont you like spinning plates? How do you know what type of woman you like for an LTR without dating a few. You want a biblical example of finding an LTR - go read Esther. Now go spin plates. You dont have to have sex with them.

quicklogaccount · 2017-03-16T17:20:25+00:00

I'm looking into buying a car, but I'll only leave my comfy chair to look at the ONE car I'll buy. I'm totally cool researching from my PC, though.
Do you have any hints for me?
There are maybe a few hundred cars available in my country, an experienced mechanic could talk to me and narrow it down to a dozen, BUT he can't guarantee my satisfaction. I have personal preferences and issues. Used Suzuki Jimnys are a great deal here, but I'm too big for their chairs.

The way you put it, your best strategy has nothing to do with women or RP. Rather, it is about social contracts.

Pick a commitment contract you feel you can live with, from the contracts of somewhat widespread groups. Tradcons fit fine with Neopentecostal Christians for instance. Poly/druggie/alt folks do well with some Hinduism interpretations;
Go to one of these communities and look for the most active and engaged available women, the ones more likely to follow the community's principles. List them;
From the list, court and try to date one girl. If it fails, you might be able to try with someone else, or you might need to leave and find another community and try again.

This isn't a joke.
There's a widespread understanding that each couple finds its own way. You should date many women and spin plates to understand yourself better, calibrate your expectations, and maybe then getting into a LTR. There isn't a "standard" commitment contract anymore and if there is one, it's totally cool for women to deviate as much as they like from it these days.
You need that contract, and those women. Your best bet is getting into a LTR knowing HOW it'll be beforehand, and only crazy religious groups still work like that.

stickfiguresk · 2017-03-16T18:30:22+00:00

No. Refusing to play the game doesn't exclude you from the game. Its like going into a car dealership and paying sticker price because you have no interest in haggling.

SkimSTi · 2017-03-16T16:04:39+00:00

nothing wrong with that man. but its not much different. you just dont go FULL rambo with TRP. a lot of the RP philosophy is for dating/hooking up. When it goes to LTR, you still need to be a man, an alpha, a rock, but you DO need to sprinkle in some beta/comfort to meet a woman's needs. (in LTRs things often go from less shit tests, to more comfort tests - go read the differences) Women are emotionally based. if they dont feel your comfort, they won't feel fully connected, they don't feel safe, so they will go look elsewhere to fill that void.

my advice. go read a book called 3% man. it will help you understand whats needed to keep the LTR happy, while still having a spine and being a man in your relationship.

Title	Only LTRs
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Comments	22
Date	March 16, 2017 3:29 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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