Am I Getting it?

stickfiguresk · 2016-03-11T19:15:20+00:00

I wake up to a message from her saying she felt I had disrespected her relationship, so she didn't want to have anything to do with me.

She has to make that night make sense in the context of how she's a perfect snowflake, so she sent that, "I'm not some cheating hoe." You've set off slut alarms in her head, and that text is ASD.

given that she said she wanted nothing to do with me, yet still looks for me Thursdays

She's a hypocrite.

is this the right way to go?

Ghosting her? Yeah. Other acceptable responses are, "k" and... that's it. She wants to friend zone you, but you can probably still smash, if you can get her alone through witchcraft level plausable deniability.

Rasalom72 · 2016-03-11T19:05:29+00:00

Watch what she DOES, not what she says. She says you disrespected her, but contacts you?

1NV0K3R · 2016-03-11T19:11:09+00:00

Ignore it, go for close. If she rejects, NEXT.

Never ever acknowledge stupid shit like that, ESPECIALLY if she's reaching out to you again afterwards? Like what the fuck

Make out
Feel guilty cuz 'muh boyfriend'
Say I'm not going to do it again
No tingles from 'muh boyfriend'
Look to do it again

This is literally what's happening with her right now.

pinstrap · 2016-03-11T19:10:05+00:00

Yes. That's very good. When a girl says she wants nothing to do with you (unless its in the context of you being a creep, which its not) then that a lot of the time means she does want something to do with you. I'd say you handled it well, as long as you didn't address the "you disrespected me message" with a long winded response or anything. I would just wait til you get back and town and text her on a night when you think you're both most likely free and say 'come over', or something to the same effect. But she obviously digs or she wouldn't be texting you these things.

thenarrrowpath · 2016-03-11T19:33:04+00:00

I think you're doing fine. The biggest thing to remember is that if they want to leave then let them, don't convince them to stay. A single "k", goes a long way when they go AWALT. This is a classic case of don't listen to what I'm saying, but rather pay attention to my actions.

MattyAnon · 2016-03-12T15:02:39+00:00

I wake up to a message from her saying she felt I had disrespected her relationship, so she didn't want to have anything to do with me.

Bullet dodged. This is the same mentality that makes a false rape claim against you after sex.

The right way to go is right out of her life. Minimum contact, avoid, politely nod and smile when you see her. That's it.

Title	Am I Getting it?
Author	meh613
Upvotes	13
Comments	18
Date	March 11, 2016 7:02 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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