Second date - how to behave after strong escalations on the first date?

GuestsGetGreens · 2016-10-11T16:43:40+00:00

Well done so far sir. Here's my opinion.

That date idea although it sounds nice, seems a little too intimate. Keeping that party-type vibe going would be a better idea. Save that cruise date for after you've slept together. Don't think too much about the kiss. But def go for it at the beginning if it feels right. Always take her by her hand when walking. How is she holding your hand? Limp fish? Fingers intertwined? Handshake style? Obviously you want fingers intertwined with her squeezing a little pressure back. Worst is limp fish with no pressure. If she does this, just let go. This will give you a little bit of an indicator of where you're at with her. Good luck

stickfiguresk · 2016-10-11T17:34:54+00:00

Plan the date backwords. It needs to end by your bed, so have a reason for her to come back to your place. If you're killing it, the reason can be lame. Involve alcohol and get cocky towards the end of the night.

You crossed a lot of physical barriers on the first date, but that was the first date. Re-escalate, don't skip a lot of steps or you could spark up ASD, unless, like before, you're killing it, then grab her by the pussy.

JamesSkepp · 2016-10-11T17:36:05+00:00

New date, new game, so to speak.

Treat it as you would have made pogress, but don't assume that you'll start from the pount you last ended. Start low key and escalate from there.

She wants to meet again after heavy escalation by you, she's DTF.

FRedington · 2016-10-11T19:37:26+00:00

GuestsGetGreens · 2016-10-11T21:57:10+00:00

Digging this idea better

awakendragon · 2016-10-11T22:28:34+00:00

Btw what do you guys think about buying her a small rose?

Title	Second date - how to behave after strong escalations on the first date?
Author	awakendragon
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	October 11, 2016 4:20 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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